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Subject: Re: The ritual of "taking them down"


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Sarah
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Date Posted: 10:59:49 07/04/21 Sun
In reply to: Etbyrd 's message, "The ritual of "taking them down"" on 14:44:32 07/03/21 Sat

For as long as I've been spanking, which has been 'many' years, I have always done the baring myself. There is no delay to the main event and it lets them know they have no choice in the matter and I am the one in control. Mommy/Grandma is going to bare them and they have no say in the matter.

It especially becomes more acute for them as they become older. I bared my 16 yr old son the same way as when he was 6 yrs old. He didn't try to delay the spanking like he did at 6 yrs old, but the message was sent to him that he had no choice in the matter, that Mommy was still very much the one in charge. Very much part of the reason why I continued to spank him over my knee, that it let him know that no matter how old (or big) he got, he was never too old to be taken over Mommy's knee and spanked soundly like a little boy when his behavior still required it.

Which is one of the very reasons why he hated to continue going over my lap, as well as having me bare him, because he felt so childish (and having no control). But that was part of the punishment and very much the message I wanted to send him, that he was still my boy and Mommy was still in charge, no matter how old he was.


Sarah

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Re: The ritual of "taking them down"Candace12:31:54 07/04/21 Sun


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