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Subject: Re: How hard and long should a spanking be ?


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Mary
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Date Posted: 19:23:36 07/23/21 Fri
In reply to: Anna 's message, "How hard and long should a spanking be ?" on 15:06:48 07/23/21 Fri

Every time I spank it produces true rivers of flowing tears and snot. Spankings should be unbearable for the child. They should come off our laps out of their minds, crying uncontrollably at the tops of their lungs. I also hear the hiccup cries, jumping around doing their best jig, hands glued to their bottoms and madly rubbing their bottoms and upper thighs until their minds return and we can see that light go off when it does.

I spank as hard as I need to. Spankings need to evolve of time as our children grow, get older, they and their bottoms can take more and need more as it pertains to the spanking. My process as well as the actual spanking itself has evolved over the years, due to a number of factors, the age and size of the bottom of the one being spanked for one, spanking age appropriate (how hard, the duration.) I didn’t spank a 7 year old the same way I would 10 year old or a 10 year old the same way I do a teen.

I raise my right hand high and the first volley is as ‘hard and fast’ as I can for about 15 spanks right across the center, this will cause them to 'Gasp" and stiffen their body as my red hand print with the white lines from my fingers start showing and letting me know how hard I just spanked, then without stopping I slow it down to a steady ‘2 spanks per second’ and not quite as hard but still raising my hand high enough, until I ‘feel’ the hand portion is over.

Then with no more of a pause to pick up my solid wood hairbrush I start in, but with the brush it is more of a hard ‘wrist action’ with some bending at the elbow when spanking with a brush or paddle there is no need to spank hard as with your hand, but it is a long spanking and this is always something to see, the shock of my brush coming down on their burning bottoms and the panic sets in and they want the spanking over NOW!!! I will slow it down to 1 spank per second or slower, hitting all over as with my hand, but I will also pick a spot and deliver 3 to 5 rapid fire spanks short strokes then return to my methodical random spanking then pick another spot and 3-5 or so rapid fire spanks and so on. I copied this brush technique from Auntie Sarah.

You may run into some marking in using the brush. Marking more than a red bottom. Some may disagree with me here on this next part, but it's not something I feel you should become alarmed about. In my years of experience of using the brush, marking (beyond a red bottom) is something that is going to happen in using a solid, wooden implement and giving a good, sound spanking. And like you've read on some of the messages, for those more serious spankings (spanking longer and harder), there can purpling at times, as well. If any of that bothers you or something you want to stay away with, then maybe the brush is not something you want to go with.

My thoughts are when they have done something serious, and especially dangerous, those types of spankings are just needed sometimes. The extra marking will heal, but most importantly, the required message will be sent.

When do I stop? What I go by, the best I can explain it is, I go by feel, instinct, it's something inside me that I know it's time to go from my hand to my brush and when to stop. I do have different lengths/intensities to my spankings, I have my ‘standard’ spanking then for what I deem as serious misbehaving I administer my serious spanking that is longer and harder.

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Re: How hard and long should a spanking be ?Olivia00:24:15 07/24/21 Sat


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