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Subject: Re: UPDATE: We cannot go on like this

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Date Posted: 12:04:56 07/25/21 Sun
In reply to: Ivana 's message, "UPDATE: We cannot go on like this" on 11:39:10 07/25/21 Sun

12-year-olds do not understand the importance of doing well in school. Boys have the most problems because will at least try to be "good girls" and do what's expected of them. Kids don't know how some school subjects like History will help then as adults. The necessity of learning Math has lessened with the use of calculators. In fact, many curriculums now include the use of calculators in the lessons.

I agree with you that Jan must, in the very least, give "an honest effort" to learn his studies. That means doing homework and doing it on time. That means studying for test and anything else that will have him well prepared. I agree with you in not accepting anything but his best efforts. Failing to do that should cost Jan plenty. Being grounded and losing the use of electronics are good examples of things to use besides spankings. A daily spanking for a week should serve to make him rethink being apathetic and lazy.

>Today I talked to Jan once again. I explained to him
>once again how important his school education is. I
>explained to him that it is of no use at all if he
>refuses, he cannot escape from it. Even rebels have to
>go to school and learn.
>I explained to him that he does not have to be an
>A-grade student. But I expect him to make an effort
>and try his best. I do not tolerate laziness. I
>explained to him again that we all have to do our job
>and do it as well as we can. This is true for the
>whole life. His job now is school. He said he
>understood. Okay..
>Generally I told him that I was not happy with his
>behaviour in the last few months and if he still needs
>a spanking twice a week? Is that what he wants? No, he
>doesn't want that, but I am far too strict with him
>and spank him far too often. That's mean of me. No
>mom, spanks as much as I do. No one. Oh, really? Is
>that what you think? That's right, if you keep this
>up, soon we're gonna hit our 40th spanking this year.
>That's really a lot.
>But how are you behaving? You don't do your chores,
>you come and go as you like, you don't care about
>curfews. You disregard rules, you lie, you try to fool
>me and on top of that you do a lot of nonsense. Not
>like that, it doesn't work like that.
>I also warned him that if he behaves in a dismissive
>and disrespectful manner towards the girl tomorrow, he
>will get a serious spanking in the presence of the
>girl. He should think hard about himself and his
>behaviour. Jan is only 12. If such discussions are
>necessary now, it could be a difficult adolescence and
>teenage time. I'm curious to see how he behaves
>tomorrow. I will let you know. Unbelievable.
>He is such a rebellious, naughty boy.

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Re: UPDATE: We cannot go on like thisMary05:26:22 07/26/21 Mon
    Re: UPDATE: We cannot go on like thisIvana to Mary02:01:38 07/27/21 Tue

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