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Subject: Re: most effective

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Date Posted: 12:15:59 07/25/21 Sun
In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "Re: most effective" on 03:05:24 07/25/21 Sun

I was born in 1954. Generally, moms spanked OTK and dads whipped. Over the decades, this seemed to continue. However, in the 1970's, the 2-income family became normal. Dads were pressed to handle more behavioral issues and became OTK spankers.

The OTK position has historical significance and is symbolic with the punishment of young children. This is why it can be so useful in the discipline of older kids. Especially, teenagers. Just imagine how a teen, who has a Driver License, feels when he/she is put over his/her parent's lap for a bare bottom spanking. Being reduced to a bawling 5-year-old is humbling in so many ways.

>What strikes me is how those who responded seemed to
>suggest by their comments that the over the lap
>position was so important. I am an over the lap
>aficionado, as it seems romantic as in the movies,
>humiliating for a haughty teen of either gender, safe
>in that it prevents the spanker from doing excessive
>damage, and, of all things, not “old-fashioned” as
>some claim, but modern, in that is different from the
>bent over woodshed whippings of earlier times. I
>assume that this comes from when moms began taking
>over discipline: an over the knee spanking in her
>room, perhaps with the conveniently available
>hairbrush from on her vanity, no doubt was more
>feasable than finding a strap and making a journey to
>a woodshed, basement, or some other spanking site.
>Others’ thoughts?
>>When I am spanking Lucas all my spankings have been
>>and are very effective, it is because I spank his bare
>>bottom over my lap so I can control his body and I may
>>add I have spanked his bare bottom with a hairbrush
>>since he was 7. Just to update my original post on
>>this subject. For 3 years after that until he was 10 I
>>was a brush spanker only before that I was a hand
>>spanker only.
>>A year ago July 2020 I went back to spanking with my
>>hand, adding it to my brush spankings. Everything was
>>the exact same, I just start with my hand.
>>It was and is everything Sarah and Mary, said, I had
>>forgot how it feels, being set in my ways once I went
>>to my brush only I told myself I would not go back, I
>>am glad I did and our spankings are very effective.

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