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Date Posted:08:14:26 07/27/21 Tue In reply to:
's message, "An ode to otk" on 23:28:58 07/26/21 Mon
When starting to spank as a mom I never gave any thought to it nor did my sister, I have never spanked any other way but a bared bottom ‘over my lap’ I heard it referred to as the ‘time honored position’ as our mom spanked that way as did her mother and her grandmother, my great gramma. I have shared before, with the over my lap has changed a little as my boys grew, when they were younger I would at times sit on a high back dinning room chair and spank but I haven't for some time now as I need the couch or their bed to help support and control them. I am 5'8 and with my oldest who at 18 now being just as tall as me, but the top of my newly turned 16 year old's head still fits under my chin when I hug him. I have no trouble with my newly turned 16 year old controlling him he still fits nicely over my lap.
Even with my older and taller son I am able to control and spank him over my lap which to me is the only position to use when spanking, no matter what age. What I did with him starting back in the beginning of August 2020, I learned on this forum, I sit back enough on his bed or couch and have him get his hips over my lap with his upper body and legs supported on either side by his bed but I have had to on a few occasions had to move forward dropping his legs down and lock my right leg over both of his when spanking with my brush as he would be kicking so wildly.
They do go over on their own with help from me as they know they have to, they are accepting but there is that “OH NO!” factor and being a little hesitant. I scold as I undo and pull their outer layer down and off while they stand unhappily but obediently before me. I quickly move them to the side of my right knee, as I have a firm strong hold of them and firmly take them over and down over my lap with the mattress or couch cushion beneath them, if needed I tell them to move forward or back a little, sitting, legs opened just enough, pinning their right arm to their lower back with my left forearm pressed against their back, I have them under control and they can struggle.