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Subject: Re: An ode to otk

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Date Posted: 09:49:12 07/28/21 Wed
In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "An ode to otk" on 23:28:58 07/26/21 Mon

I’ll be an over the lap lifer! Even with my oldest two, who are definitely getting too tall for a more traditional one, I use some sort of support for them - usually their bed, but they aren’t strangers to a couch either - so their upper bodies aren’t almost on the floor. But the principle stands that their butts are front and center over my lap or knee for a spanking.

I don’t do it to humiliate. I do it because it’s effective and it definitely makes it more personal to me as opposed to them bending over and me standing behind them. My pre-teens get so embarrassed by it, because it is childish! But they certainly aren’t adults!

>“Just saying” suggested a thread on over the knee
>or lap. So here goes.
>Positive aspects: convenient, facilitates control,
>prevents spanking too hard, allows for use of paddle,
>hand and brush, but makes more brutal instruments like
>straps hard to use, useful fo embarrassing a teen
>where that is more important than the sting, allows
>pauses for lectures.
>Negative aspects: humiliating and can build resentment
>in teens, possible sexual stimulation by females
>spanking male pre-teens, sometimes a place to sit
>isn’t available and a couple of standing swats could
>do the trick rather than the ceremony of finding a
>Moms: are you always over the knee-ers? Do you insist
>on finding a place to sit, even if that delays
>punishment? Do you do the overlap thing to provide a
>“never-to-old” type lesson. Do you do it cause
>that’s the way you got it, or to make the experience
>more intimate and less harsh, with sitting on your lap
>following putting him/her over it?

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Re: An ode to otkBrenda12:05:54 07/29/21 Thu

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