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Subject: Re: How many warnings? Immediate spanking offenses? count to 10?


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Cherie
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Date Posted: 07:30:34 07/31/21 Sat
In reply to: Candace 's message, "How many warnings? Immediate spanking offenses? count to 10?" on 05:51:04 07/31/21 Sat

Candace,

I remember thinking when my boys were young that they would grow out of certain behaviors as they got older, this has not been the case, what I have found is they are still basically being spanked for the same things, my Jewishly turned 16 year old is still having tantrums, he doesn’t throw himself on the floor but he still has them when he can’t have his way with something. I still from time to time get defiance, disrespectful backtalk and sass from both boys, both are a spankable offenses here. Being disrespectful to any adult and they will find themselves over my lap.

For the most part I give one warning, I think we have to give a warning, to me its being fair, even as adults we get warnings. They are children, yes I referred to my 16 year old as a child and was referring to my nieces and nephews also, my oldest who is 18 can have childish behavior still.

But just as Mary does I do have "immediate spanking offenses” They are the same as with Mary.

When we give a warning we are giving them a chance to correct themselves. I am consistent with my warnings and with the offenses that get no warning, they all know my rules and where their boundaries are, but they will push on them.

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Re: How many warnings? Immediate spanking offenses? count to 10?Debbie09:28:15 07/31/21 Sat
Re: How many warnings? Immediate spanking offenses? count to 10?Candace19:32:43 07/31/21 Sat


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