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Subject: Introducing spanking late


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Nadia
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Date Posted: 12:25:56 07/31/21 Sat

I started with spanking kind of late. I had decided early on that I would never spank. I believed it to be barbaric and cruel.

My husband at the time was in favor of spanking, but I was strongly opposed. I told him that this was one issue I would never compromise on, and that I would divorce him immediately if he ever laid a hand on our son. He knew I was serious and didn't press the issue.

My husband and I split when my son was 2 for reasons that had absolutely nothing to do with our parenting views. I was content to raise him without physical discipline.

What really started to change my mind was talking to other "mom friends", and hearing that they spanked. Until then, I hadn't really understood that spanking could be a loving act. I always assumed parents did it out of anger. But I came to realize that it is possible to spank lovingly.

As I thought about it more, I began to think that spanking might actually be a good idea. I introduced it when my son was 7.

I gave him advance notice. He had gotten in trouble for lying to me, so I took his game system away for a day. Obviously he HATED that, but that was his punishment. He was too upset to listen, so I decided to have the talk about spanking the next day after I gave back his game console.

I explained that there were other ways of punishing kids besides taking away video games. I said that I have decided to try out a different type of punishment. I framed this as a positive: him not getting his games taken away.

I said that the next time he lied, I was going to spank him. I was expecting him to have a shocked reaction when I said this, but it turned out that he didn't know what the word "spank" meant.

I decided to show him what a spanking was so that he would have fair warning. He was wearing only underwear at the time of this conversation, so I told him to take his underwear off. He was 7, and therefore not shy about nudity at all.

I sat down in a chair and I put him over my lap. He thought this was a game, so he was giggling. In a dramatic voice, I told him that he was getting three spanks.

I raised my arm up high, and then gently patted his butt as I counted off "ONE" loudly. After his third light tap, he was laughing.

I then explained to him that what I just did was a pretend spanking. I said a real spanking wouldn't be fun. It would hurt a lot and he would probably cry.

I asked him that if the spanking hurt, would he rather get 3 spanks or 10? He obviously said 3. So I told him that if he lies to me again, I will spank him, and that if he doesn't want more spanks, he will have to do exactly what I tell him to when I spank.

I reminded him that it would hurt but that this would be what happens next time, and that he should always tell me the truth so that he doesn't have to find out what a real spanking is like.

I then helped him put his underwear back on and let him play his video games.

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Re: Introducing spanking lateMarkW12:59:23 07/31/21 Sat
Re: Introducing spanking lateMary13:38:33 07/31/21 Sat
Re: Introducing spanking lateMichelle14:28:18 07/31/21 Sat
Re: Introducing spanking lateLucy15:20:45 07/31/21 Sat
Re: Introducing spanking lateVanessa (Abel’s Mom)01:01:31 08/01/21 Sun


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