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Subject: Re: My process for spanking my teen son


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Mary
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Date Posted: 05:58:02 08/01/21 Sun
In reply to: Nadia 's message, "My process for spanking my teen son" on 05:05:40 08/01/21 Sun

Nadia,

Thanks so much for sharing this, it's one of the reasons I started this forum, to be able to exchange/share the way we go about our spankings, the differing processes. I think its a good thing to be able to share, I enjoyed reading this very much. Now I'll share my process, and I'm long winded :)

I have shared aspects of this in the past, but we do have new people posting and some reading along, for those that know me I hope that if you choose to read it will be like an old book you have read in the past :) This will be long, so get some coffee. :)

I agree with all who say the pre spanking aspect is important, I will also add that after spanking care is very important as well. My process as well as the actual spanking itself has evolved over the years, due to a number of factors, the age and size of the bottom of the one being spanked for one, spanking age appropriate (how hard, the duration.) I have just come by the way I spank naturally, our mom was a hairbrush only spanker, but I knew as young as 13 I was going to spank bare bottoms over my lap with my hand as a mom as well as a brush spanker as our mom was. But I adopted the way I spank with my brush from my good online friend Sarah who posts on here when she can, I have also changed the way I spank with my hand over time as well.

When I am going to spank I used to just pull the pants down, that evolved to bare from the waist down. I would leave a t-shirt unless it was below the waist. Now I spank them completely naked, socks too, it's just easier to control them.

Also, there is just something to be said for the sight of a completely naked boy over my lap, so clean and natural and beautiful..

The baring of the one I am going to spank and how I go about it is an important part of my process. To me it shows, ‘I am the boss,’ ‘I am in charge‘. I methodically bare them, not rushing while also scolding them, no yelling but I have raised my voice. I have my boys and any other kids that come into my house remove their shoes at the door.

They will hold onto my shoulders or arm as I have them raise a leg and I will remove the shoe and or sock, this is usually at a moderate pace, no rushing, then the pants, pjs or shorts are pulled down to their feet and they step out of them then the shirt/s then finally the underpants. When they feel the under pants come down they start with the crocodile tears if not already (except for Donny if he is in his tough guy mood telling me he isn't going to cry) they also will be moving their feet, legs, hips and bottom even go up on their toes as a reaction to the underpants going down as the bottoms and fronts are exposed feeling the fresh air so to speak. When they are wearing pjs they don't wear underpants under their pjs so that is one less step. Of course if in swim trunks or its summer and just shorts and usually barefoot it’s less steps and quicker getting them bare.

I don’t mind if they cover their fronts as I scold and bare. I am only interested in getting to and seeing their bottoms over my lap and spanking them. I first started baring them for their spanking this way not to ‘shame’ them but because pant legs were getting kicked up in my face and it was a serious tripping hazard when they got off my lap, that progressed quickly to just removing everything, no long baggy tops working there way down and getting in the way either.

When I am ready to spank I help them over my lap, I take my time making sure I have them adjusted right where I want them, my personal preference is to have my legs apart as this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat, with no squishing or rubbing of their boyhood and I am looking right down at their bottom, also I wear my jeans at home or shorts in the summer and spank in them, I think they are a help as wearing a dress or skirt can be slippery and easily moves around aiding them in their squirming.

They will usually reach back at this point, if not I will ask them to reach back is I can pin their arm to their back and my elbow/forearm pressing against their upper back helping to control their body and it allows them to squirm, wiggle and kick away, I don't get upset because they do this how vocal they do become, as I view it as a natural reaction that can't be helped and shows me I am getting through to them. Also for the one being spank the crying is very ‘cathartic’ crying is extremely important. It is not an indication on 'when' to stop spanking, but it is an indication that your message is being received, and most importantly, crying is integral to a spanking because it gives the one being spanked an emotional release which allows for healing, rebirth, and starting anew. I think it has to happen for a spanking to be successful!

At 5’5 I am a strong woman with good size strong hands, with my hand I mostly concentrate on the entire bottom, from the top down through the sit spots to the upper thighs, both cheeks and across the center, I don’t spank in a consistent pattern so the recipient has no idea where I will spank because I might be alternating between bouncing wiggling cheeks, or it might be a long series of spanks delivered to just the crown, across the center, I will also spank their cheeks, lets see, the best way I can explain it is vertically and horizontally (across the cheeks as well as lengthwise with my hand, I hope that made sense, also cupping and un-cupping my hand.

I raise my right hand high and the first volley is as hard and fast as I can for about 15 spanks, this will cause them to 'Gasp" and stiffen their body out straight as possible, then they let the gasp out and the crying/begging being very animated starts as they try and arch their back on and off shaking their head as my red hand print with the white lines from my fingers start showing and letting me know how hard I just spanked, then without stopping I slow it down to a steady 2 spanks per second and not quite as hard but still raising my hand high enough, until I feel the hand portion is over.

Then with no more of a pause to pick up my hairbrush I start in, but with the brush it is more of a wrist action with my forearm as well but I don’t raise it high at all. It is always something to see, the shock of my brush coming down on their burning bottoms and the panic sets in and they want the spanking over NOW!!!

I will slow it down to 1 spank per second or slower, hitting all over as with my hand, but I will also pick a spot and deliver 3 to 5 rapid fire spanks short strokes then return to my methodical random spanking then pick another spot and 3-5 or so rapid fire spanks and so on.

Then once I am through spanking they will do their best jig and each a little different as I sit, watch and wait for their brains to return then they will come over and cuddle with me crying as I rub their back and head reassuring them I love them and its over now, you have been punished. One of the reasons I like to wear a t-shirt when I spank, is they are good for cuddling afterwards when the boys rub their tears and snot on it, lol. All is forgiven they are contrite, we move on, then when they are ready we have a talk about why I had to spank and what they should have done, not done, said...our talks will usually go on to other topics as well, we have some great talks after a spanking, that is of course unless it was a bedtime spanking, then its off to bed after cuddling.

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Re: My process for spanking my teen sonAmanda J. to Mary16:01:51 08/01/21 Sun


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