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My spankings have evolved over the years as I think your's will as your 3 get older. One thing I have always stressed. The pre-spanking aspect is so very important! I take my time.
I believe that what I do before the first ‘spank’ is an important part of the spanking process. I will bring the one I am going to spank to the couch or his bed and take a seat. I will then if its not already put my hair to the back and clip it, then remove my rings except for my wedding ring all the while they are standing there watching knowing what is about to take place and what brought them to this.
I then scold as I undo and pull their pants/shorts down and off this is one of my changes as I used to leave their pants on just pull them down, now they are removed while he stands unhappily but obediently before me. A quick move to the side of my right knee, and he's down and over my lap with the mattress or couch cushion beneath him. Making sure he is just where I want him, right arm pinned to his lower back.
Then it is the methodical, maternal baring of a boy's backside as I lower his underpants. I have never deviated from the underpants being taken down just far enough to leave my boy bare from his waist to his knees. As I have said many times, the visual prominence lent to his upturned derriere framed by clothing or tan lines above and below is invigorating, stimulating and only intensifies my determination to spank - and to spank soundly!
With my hand it depends, I have a few ways that I spank. I may give very fast sharp stinging hand spanks for about 30 seconds to a min. then very hard slower spanks 1 a sec. for another 30 sec. then back to the fast hand spanks or spank with my hand at a steady quick pace and hard through out with my younger nephews and nieces its not as hard as I do when I spank my 15 and 17 year old boys but hard for them. Or with my hand I may just spank as fast as I can and hard.
With the brush I spank slower a steady pace and not nearly as hard as with my hand, I mix it up make sure the entire bottom and sit spots received equal time with the brush. I do slow it down a bit as I go back and forth with random swatting and picking a spot and giving a good 5-6 rapid spanks in one spot during the spanking. Then going back to random swatting, then picking another spot, and so on. I learned this brush technique from Sarah and Mary when I first aded it to my spankings June 2019 .