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Subject: Re: Contrite


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Amanda J.
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Date Posted: 18:13:34 08/07/21 Sat
In reply to: ask moms 's message, "Contrite" on 04:25:17 08/06/21 Fri

My boys have said they are sorry pretty much before every spanking. Just like most of you, I can tell when it is completely genuine and they truly are sorry - and not just because they want to avoid a spanking. I can usually see right through when it is just trying to avoid what they know is coming.

If I feel that they are being completely genuine about being sorry, I will always let them know that I recognize and appreciate that they are sorry, and often reinforce it with a hug, however I also explain that a spanking is still warranted and must be given for the behavior. I will say that if I am completely sure that they are truly sorry that there may have been a couple of times that the spanking may have ended a bit sooner, or perhaps not quite as severe, however the a sound spanking is still given. After the spanking, when cuddling on my lap, I always make sure that I mention how much I appreciate that he was truly sorry.

Warmly, Amanda J.




>Should a child be spanked even if they are contrite
>and sorry for doing wrong? Should you spank them
>anyway, even if they are sorry for being naughty?

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