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Date Posted:19:02:18 08/07/21 Sat In reply to:
's message, "Review/Update of How You Spank?" on 18:51:43 08/07/21 Sat
With my boys, ages 15 and 11, how I spank has changed in the last couple of years. For the longest time, I basically just pulled down their clothing to around the knees, over the lap, and spanked soundly with only my hand. Mostly thanks to Mary and several others within this forum, my process has changed. I am sure my boys are sarcastically saying, "Thanks a lot!"
As of about a year or so ago, when a spanking is needed, I always have a good chat with whichever boy it is before hand. I would say that I am never angry, however may be frustrated or annoyed. I try to make this quality time, however if the offense is something that there is no question they know what they did wrong and they knew their actions were an automatic spanking offense, then the chat may be shorter. Following the chat, I undo and/or lower whatever pants are being worn and help him step completely out of them. I then lower the briefs that are being worn and he steps out of them as well. This is all down with him standing right in front of me. My boys really do not seem to be too concerned about all that is seen, as the biggest concern at that time is more so what is about to happen to their bottom. I then raise/remove whatever top is being worn. There are times that I have left the top on, however more often than not it is removed as well. I then guide him over my lap and make sure that he is adjusted just as I want, with his bottom in full and vulnerable view. If it is a bedtime or bath/shower-time spanking, this can vary, as they may already be in some state of undress.
Once over my lap, I always enjoy the view very much. It is such a beautiful sight, in my opinion. At times I will give his bottom a bit of a pat or rub in advance. When I am ready to begin spanking, I raise my hand high and go to work. I always begin with my hand and make it a very sound spanking, turning the naughty bottom very pink or even a bit red. After that, I pause for just a moment and grab my hairbrush (I shared how I came to have a hairbrush many months ago) and then begin applying it to the his bare bottom. There is no set time as to when I conclude the spanking, as there are many different factors - what he did wrong, if he had done it before, if he knew better, if he shows genuine remorse or not, reaction to the spanking and what his bottom looks like through the spanking.
When the spanking concludes, it can vary as to what happens. At times they may just be laying across my lap crying so hard that it is difficult to compose themselves, not quite realizing that the spanking concluded. Other times they may get up right away and will do the spanking dance, with his hands glued to his bottom trying to rub the sting out. Once settled down a bit, they always come back over to me and sit on my lap to be held and cuddled. If it is a time that he stayed over my lap and then gets up and does not do the so-called spanking dance, then it may be directly to cuddling on my lap. I enjoy this time thoroughly! While cuddling, I express love and forgiveness. I will always notice their very red and warm bottom, and often give it a bit of a pat as well.
I have used corner time after this a few times, however most often after the cuddling they move on to whatever makes sense. It may be going right to bed, or to just have alone time in their room or on their bed, or at times get dressed and on with the day.
No sure how others will feel about this part, however one way or another I like to make sure that I see the bottom that was spanked later that night or in the morning, depending on when the spanking was given. At times it may happen that I see the recently spanked bottom just through the course of them getting ready for bed or bathing activities, or at times I will come right out and say that I need to see how his bottom is doing and will take a peak. I will almost always give a bit of a pat or rub as well. Just curious if others prefer to see the spanked bottom afterward as well?
If you made it this far, thank you!
Hugs, Amanda J.
>I meant to post this sometime ago, but finally getting
>to it. Mary and I were chatting about how it may be
>interesting to have a bit of a refresher or review as
>to how each of us spank. Our kids are getting older,
>so perhaps the spanking procedure has changed and you
>will be willing to share how you spank these days. I
>believe we also have a few new contributors that may
>be interested in sharing how they spank? I hope we
>can get everyone to contribute!
>Note: I know there will be differences in how some of
>us spank, but I know Mary has made it clear that there
>are no right or wrong ways to do it (as long as not
>abuse), that we each know what is best for our
>kids/teens, so I don't think anyone should be
>concerned about how others feel about how they spank.
>Hope all that are comfortable in sharing will do so!
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