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I really enjoyed reading how you go about spanking your boys. There is nothing wrong with checking on their bottoms after you have spanked, I do that the following day as well.
With me and my boys I take my time from before I even start spanking. Last winter I had asked Cordelia what her spanking chair was like, seeing how she spanked in her chair then went to the couch for cuddling.
I liked the way Cordelia did this and copied her, I spank sitting in a dining chair then as the one that was spanked dances I put my special spoon away and then go sit on our couch for comfort and cuddle time. So when I am going to spank I make them stand and watch me place the chair just so and sit, telling them to come to me. Then I bare them at a steady pace.
My 13 and 11 year old boys are just so cute when they go over my lap, my oldest since he was 11 and now my 11 year old at times will be trying to hide their adorable bottom from me by hanging it off the side of my right thigh, smiling I pull them forward and it is the ‘star of the show’ just like with you, before I spank I get my boys into position.
Seeing their cute bare bottom over my lap tensing I pull them both forward as I scold. They are at times flat over my lap as we go through the spanking, at times head and feet low, they wiggle up a storm I can tell you that but I have full control of their bottom. A very 'favorable' position for me as I am in control of their body, and in the long run beneficial for them and I also 'enjoy the view'.
At the start I spank at a brisk pace with my hand not raising my hand high but going for speed here, not 'hard' but stinging hand spanks, I spank mostly the meaty portion with my hand, the high point of the bottom, I don’t have ‘good size’ hands and their bottoms are growing especially with the 13 year old, and they do ‘clench’ often.
The majority of the spankings are with my special spanking spoon from ‘Bed Bath and Beyond’. I make sure I spank the entirety of the bottom making sure each cheek down past where their bottom meets the thigh is well spanked. I don’t spank all that hard with the spoon but my boys would disagree lol. But plenty hard enough, and not fast as with my hand I don’t raise it all that high, my spoon is very good for even coverage all over as I go by the ovals it leaves, it is also perfect for spanking the sit spots right where the bottom and thigh meet.