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I have been spanking for many years and have made my share of changes over that period of time. But the ritual I currently use has remained the same for quite awhile now.
For baring, I have always removed the clothes from the waist down. Of course any footwear is removed, but I don't make a point to remove socks. But I find removing the clothes (instead of taking them down) just makes it easier in having them out of the way. There is no risk of flying clothes (which has happened in the past) from their frantic kicking and also their upper thighs are easily accessible, which I make a point to also spank as thoroughly as their bottom.
Once they are bared, I will continue to scold, but if we haven't already, have a good talk with them on exactly why Mommy (Grandma) is spanking. I feel that is so important it is clear to them. I also always let them explain their side of it. It has never stopped a spanking from happening, but it's significant they know that what they say is very important to me and that they know they can tell me anything.
I always start off my spankings with a good hand spanking and then follow it up with an implement. My wooden spanking spoon with the younger children and hairbrush I usually have started around 8 yrs old. Although with my grandson, who is only 3, he is still only receiving hand spankings at this time.
With my hand spanking, I have decent-sized hands, but mine are not thick or wide. They are more long and somewhat narrow, as well as having long fingers. Some of my friends have told me I have good 'piano' fingers. Although I can't play the piano worth a darn. lol However, I have found in having longer fingers do help in wrapping around bottom cheeks and outside (or inner) legs when I swat, as I use my full hand to smack a naughty backside.
As I mentioned above, I do not concentrate just on their bottom cheeks, but will also smack their sit spots as well as upper thighs. Those are all included as part of a standard spanking. I have always felt giving long, hard and thorough spankings are extremely important. And the best way to give a good, thorough spanking is spanking for a good while. The children have always complained that I "spank forever!" or were scared that I "would never stop!" And that is completely fine with me. I know I give long spankings and I do so for the reason I stated above, to give a good, thorough spanking.
My hand spankings are always administered rapid fire and quite hard. I do move my hand around and am quite random on where I smack. I could give 1 swat in one location or 3-4. I will swat anywhere, as I mentioned above, from the top of their buttocks all the way down to their upper thighs. All of it is WELL reddened when I finish my hand spanking. The redness is also intermixed with periodic ridging due to certain areas maybe receiving more attention/larger amounts of repeated smacking of my hand.
When I go to the implement, I will go back and forth between brisk, hard swatting and then picking a spot and giving a good 4-6 rapid and harder smacks in that one spot. And then I will go back to random, brisk swatting for awhile, pick another spot, and so on. Giving those harder, concentrated rapid swats in one location really get the children loud and hysterical, especially when I choose the location on their upper thighs. But I don't stop the spanking until I feel the message has been sent and they receive what I feel is an appropriate punishment for their misbehavior.
When I am finished, their backside is a glowing, stop sign red. There is always some marking, as well, even with standard spankings. But that is just going to happen when spanking long and hard and using a solid, wooden implement (which both my spanking spoon and hairbrush are). And the children are of course crying buckets of tears and snot. It just seems to never end! But all of the above I feel is just the end result of a good, proper and thorough spanking.
And after a brief dance, some corner time, it is time for bringing them close and cuddling for as long as they need me to. I have found some exceptions, but in general no matter how old they are, they always want that cuddle and comfort time. And I am happy to give it. :)