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It really bothers me how spanking in general has such a bad name and so much fear to speak openly about it. I know that I do not need to say this to anyone within this forum, as we all know that there is a BIG difference between abuse and a spanking that is given out of love! Yes, spankings do sting a lot, however we all know that the actual sting applied to the child/teens bottom is just one aspect of the spanking experience. How we handle the very important time before and after the spanking is equally as important, or even more so.
I am not sure how to ensure that there is never abuse, however I firmly believe that if way more parents disciplined as many of us within this forum do, the world would be a much better and kinder place!
Hugs to all of you! Amanda J.
>I took my two youngest to a birthday party this
>weekend for one of their friends and I met a mom who
>was sort of a ‘friend of a friend’ kind of thing
>who I didn’t know. She has fraternal twin 5 year
>olds (yeesh!). Anyway, my youngest, Josie, really took
>a liking to them and played with them through the
>whole thing, rather than kids her age.
>It was a lovely day and eventually the mom told me
>just how well behaved Josie is! She’s like a little
>adult at times. I laughed and carried on, then she
>said “you gotta’ tell me your secret.” I
>pondered if I should say anything, because I’ve been
>given so many weird looks over the years. But I
>decided, ‘why not?’ I’m not ashamed of how I
>discipline. I told her “in all honesty, every now
>and then a good spanking on the bare tush goes a long
>way.” To my surprise, she just said…”yeah,
>that’s how my mom raised me.” I said that as long
>as they’re getting 100x more love than they are
>spankings, I’ve never had a problem with any of
>She said that she’d consider what I said and left it
>at that. We talked more, and eventually got each
>other’s numbers to hang out some time. We’ll see,
>but I might be accidentally converting a mom to being
>a spanking mom.
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