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Subject: Implement questions


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Nicole
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Date Posted: 20:30:45 08/16/21 Mon

Hi ladies it's nice to meet you all. My name is Nicole, I've read the forum for a bit and finally realized I have a question that I might need some input on. I have two children, my son Alex just turned 8 and my daughter Angela is 5. My question pertains more to Alex at the moment. I've spanked him since he was little but only in the formal sense of it being over my lap and bare butt since he was 4. Obviously at that point it was just a hand spanking. I've hand spanked him ever since when it needs to be done, but I think he's at the point now where his regular spankings maybe need an implement or at least have one for big time misbehaviors. My general idea of what I think I would be comfortable with is either a wooden spoon which I have a good one or a wooden hairbrush which I also possess because I still want to do it over my lap.

My general question I guess is when you decided to use an implement for the first time, ideally the spoon or brush how did you know how much to do it with? I know how to give him a good hand spanking at this point practically with my eyes closed but I'm nervous of how to use the others. How hard do you spank with them compared to what your hand would be? half as hard? more? less? how high do you raise your arm compared to a hand spank? In terms of sting what does a spoon or brush swat equate to in terms of hand spanks? 1 for every 2,3,4 ?

I know it might sound silly to those of you who have been using your implements for years and it comes second nature to you, but i'm curious because I have no real roadmap for how to proceed. I'd appreciate any input and I look forward to chatting with you more. Thanks!

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Replies:
Subject Author Date
Re: Implement questionsJen21:55:23 08/16/21 Mon
Re: Implement questionsVanessa (Abel’s Mom)22:21:58 08/16/21 Mon
Re: Implement questionsMary05:33:54 08/17/21 Tue
Re: Implement questionsShannon07:40:22 08/17/21 Tue
Re: Implement questionsPaige18:18:14 08/17/21 Tue
Re: Implement questionsNicole18:21:02 08/17/21 Tue
Re: Implement questionslisa01:13:53 08/19/21 Thu
Re: Implement questionsTrish11:58:15 08/21/21 Sat


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