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Subject: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to people


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Sarai
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Date Posted: 13:50:31 08/22/21 Sun

Hi everybody, I'm Sarai. It's the former spelling of Sarah from the Bible before her name was changed, so no it's not a typo! I was wondering if I can share something that looks like other moms on here can relate to, but I also feel weird saying out loud to people who don't understand.

When I give a spanking, it is always deserved in my opinion. I don't spank for everything, but I've found that nothing works better for my kids than spankings to get their butts back in line. But some of my friends whose kids are also spanked by them, they tell me how horrible they feel when they have to spank. But I usually don't feel "horrible" about spanking my kids, at least not like what other moms have described. I guess it is my sense of conviction about how I know that my kids need for me to spank them right now, and so I don't feel bad per say about taking them over my knees and actually spanking them! I also know that I'm not actually "hurting" them other than their butts, and as far as I'm concerned, God made kids with a butt with their parents in mind and no where else on the body would ever work for discipline like a spanking on a kid's behind.

But I also see that I'm not the only one who is reading or making forum posts on here who also gets satisfaction sometimes when I have to spank. I don't actually like spanking my kids or anything but sometimes, when they and especially my 7 year old son are really behaving badly and they've got a spanking coming to them, I am going to admit that I can't wait to get my child or children over my knees sometimes. I get that thought in my head of ok, THAT'S ENOUGH YOUNG MAN/YOUNG LADY, and when they're crying and I'm spanking them I feel like I'm doing an important job of getting them back on the right path. Seeing them go from rebellious to so sorry and remorsefull makes me satisfied and proud of my decision to spank them, and I don't know if this makes me a bad person but when I'm spanking from white to red on their bums I even feel like I'm doing well as a parent and spanking them hard enough for the spanking to actually make a difference.

I wonder if my thoughts are normal sometimes and I wonder if I should feel worse about spanking my kids? When I mean feel "worse" I just mean more emotional or teary eyed, but I usually do not feel like that for all those other reasons. I haven't told other moms this before because I don't want them to think I'm a bad mom, because I know I love my kids and they love their Mommy and Daddy too! But I think spanking doesn't hurt me more than it hurts them, or at least their butts.... like everyone else always says. I don't know if this makes any sense? Can moms on here relate?

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Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleMichelle14:31:46 08/22/21 Sun
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleKaren15:09:11 08/22/21 Sun
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleNadia16:34:32 08/22/21 Sun
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleMary17:39:38 08/22/21 Sun
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleTrish19:19:09 08/23/21 Mon
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleLois04:33:12 08/24/21 Tue
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleKate10:43:38 08/24/21 Tue
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleCherie12:21:03 08/24/21 Tue
Theraputic for parent and child at timesMarkW12:41:54 08/24/21 Tue
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleSandra (Ben's mom)15:30:41 08/25/21 Wed
Re: Something which I relate to about spanking, but it is hard to explain to peopleNicci00:39:26 08/26/21 Thu


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