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Subject: Re: Fair or Not Fair?


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Sarah
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Date Posted: 19:00:34 08/23/21 Mon
In reply to: SJ Mom 's message, "Fair or Not Fair?" on 16:05:48 08/23/21 Mon

SJ Mom,

I don't think that was unfair at all. Spanking warnings don't only have to be given when they are starting to misbehave. They can sometimes just be a reminder of what can, and will, happen if something important cannot be followed. Like in this case, getting up on time for her dentist appointment. Especially as she has had a history of not getting up on time for things in the morning.

There were times where my children had been behaving well, but I still warned I would spank them if I wanted to make sure they would follow through on something important and they had shown problems in doing so in the past.

An example would be everyone doing their part to clean the house when we had company coming over. It's not something I really had an issue with in regards to my girls, but it was like pulling teeth with my son at times to do chores, especially any type of cleaning.

But when my son knew that Mom would spank him if he didn't do his part, I almost never had to follow through with that warning or threat. At least when he got to be older.

There is a point you need to let them fall on their own and have them learn the real life consequences of what happens if they don't follow through. But letting that control go and stop giving them consequences, can be difficult.


Sarah

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Re: Fair or Not Fair?SJ Mom to Sarah15:41:17 08/25/21 Wed


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