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Sorry to hear that you are having to deal with that. Having 3 daughters myself, I can attest that the late preteen and early teen years can be very challenging.
Based on what you posted, I don't think that I would punish Addison beyond what the school has already. I would have a discussion with her that in the future there are better ways to handle it (go get an adult, walk away, etc.), but at the end of the day, I don't think that I would punish her for sticking up for herself and her brother.
Now if it occurs again and she doesn't take a different course of action, that might be a different story. Based on what you posted, my biggest question would be what (if anything) prompted the exchange of not so nice words to start in the first place.