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Subject: Re: A measured approach

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Date Posted: 18:31:48 09/04/21 Sat
In reply to: Rachel (Ted's mom) 's message, "A measured approach" on 17:31:34 09/04/21 Sat

Comments and questions on the thread topic of crying.I think that sometimes fake crying might work with some moms. Was talking about childhood with some guys at work many years ago, and one said he cried as soon as possible when put over a knee. And I saw my cousin start to sob with the first swat from his mother, obviously phony crying. Have others observed what I have, that some moms see spanking as a way to bring tears, and are vulnerable to phony crying?
And a question I have is how the person reacts at various swat levels, again if others observed the same pattern as I have: first it’s “no mommy no” as they are put in position or spanked down the hall, then ow’s til say, spanks 8-10. Then an intake of breath and crying starting at 12-15, with wailing after 20 if it goes that far. I once over heard a neighbor spanking her son through thin apartment walls, even overhearing the “oof” as he landed over her lap. (Very thin walls.)

>I am a hand spanker only. There is no snot here, no
>very loud yelling or frantic crying when I spank my
>son, but Ted is during and after our moderate and
>serious spankings very animated and cries hard, it is
>true “cathartic crying". I can see the change in him
>like a weight had been removed, that lazy at times
>bratty, and not listening to mom boy spanked away and
>in return my Teddy is back.
>When I am through spanking I let Ted lay over my lap
>for a moment as he cries and I will give his bottom a
>little rub then I help him up, he will then as he is
>still facing me while crying pulls his own underpants
>back up, no dancing here, we then cuddle and talk, he
>keeps his pants off for a little while.
>With in a half hour or so Teddy is back to his being
>himself and in no time he is joking and back to taking
>of things even his spanking.
>If I spank before bed then of course in the morning he
>is just fine.
>I'm not sure if I will increase the numbers or add an
>implement or both as he gets older. He knows that this
>is a possibility.

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