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Subject: Re: Playing the percentages


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Date Posted: 17:41:26 09/06/21 Mon
In reply to: Mary 's message, "Re: Playing the percentages" on 13:43:12 09/03/21 Fri

Mary and others, how does a spanking for bad grades happen? Most of the other offenses seem to involve immediate spankings for obviously objectionable behavior, often with a parent somewhat or slightly angry in the moment. For “bad-grades spankings,” did they know a spanking was likely for bad grades, is it immediate or delayed, a mom or dad thing?

>Mark,
>
>I am not good with math and could never put a % on
>each offense because I truly don’t know, but I did
>delete those you posted that I have never had to spank
>for, I have spanked for these, Home: Rudeness/bad
>manners/backchat etc. Disobedience, Telling lies,
>Chores not done, Bedtime rules not observed
>Safety issues – e.g. not wearing bike helmet,
>swimming without adult present etc. School: Not doing
>homework on time (or at all), Being disruptive at
>school, Bad school reports/grades, Cheating.
>
>I have shared this in the past and it goes with this.
>Here, “the more things changed the more they stay
>the same.” The older they got the more things stayed
>the same, but different, I hope I can explain.
>
>When I think about it as I have talked many times on
>the reasons I have had to spank, one reason being I
>will share up front is having 3 boys so close in age,
>even before Scott came into the picture Donny and
>Bobby would push each other, instigate get each other
>going, fight, argue, of course they love each other it
>was just boy things. Now the past 3 1/2 years with 3
>and then throw in their best friends, its a recipe for
>“spanking time” I swear there are days they wake
>up and remove their brains and any rational thought
>process, then the braindead behavior is on. My mom
>says they are “full of piss and vinegar.” And that
>they get their stubbornness from me.
>
>But the main thing that I have always had to spank
>for? “situations that produced the most spankings as
>they got older? “Days of many spankings?” Here
>sleepovers and issues with video games cause the most
>spankings. I could also include but not limit it to,
>off the top of my head...Summertime, school vacation,
>School, daytime, nighttime, bedtime, rainy days, snow,
>sunny days, windy days, shopping, church, sassy back
>talk, not talking, selective deafness, selective
>laziness and daredevil activity. oh daylight savings
>time and Standard time :)) other then that...lol.
>
>“Are children spanked for different reasons as they
>get older?”
>Yes and no, I may be the only one but to me “the
>more things change the more they stay the same.” The
>older they got the more things stayed the same, but
>different, I hope I can explain.
>
>Example, when a 3-5 year old throws a tantrum it is
>different but I have seen my boys still throw what I
>call tantrums but of course for different
>circumstances, reasons. They may not throw themselves
>on the floor like when they were younger but they can
>still throw a fit, tantrum if they don’t get their
>way.
>
>I heard the word ‘NO!!’ In defiance when they were
>3 with a stamping foot and attitude, I still hear and
>see the same behavior from time to time, not as often
>but I see and hear the defiant attitude, behavior. A
>whining “I don’t want toooo” Do I have to?”
>And NO!
>
>7-8 on up and still now with all three of them I
>spank/ed for a lot of selective deafness (not
>listening to me) laziness “I forgot” “I don’t
>know” arguing, being defiant, bedtime issues, chores
>not being done, bathroom issues, ect...
>
>As they got older I of course I had to spank for more
>things, from ages 9 on up till now the two individual
>things I have spanked most for is, reasons that have
>to do with Video Games and during sleepovers, and much
>more safety issues then when they were younger,
>although again I spanked many a time when they were
>young for running away from me when out and other
>safety issues, dashing out of the yard ect.
>
>When Scott came to live with us, Donny and Scott were
>10, from 11-12 I spanked many a time for dangerous,
>daredevil stupid brain dead activity, they would see
>something on YouTube or tv and just have to try it
>“it looked like fun mom/my.” I hear/d that so
>often when I was scolding. I am so thankful that Bobby
>hasn’t gone through that stage, but Donny and Scott
>fed off each other, pushing that envelope, know what I
>mean?
>
>Yes, Donny and Scott feed off of and get each other
>going and many a time Bobby gets sucked right in and
>follows and when their friends are her at time it its
>a spank fest, lol. When Scott first started living
>here, he and Donny were so close it was like they were
>actual twins, I had to check a few times to see if
>they were joined at the hip, lol. You never saw one
>without the other, I can’t tell you how many times I
>have had to spank the two of them together.
>
>Now with the older two as of late its more their
>mouths, sassy defiant back talk teen hormones with
>attitude, along with the selective laziness,
>deafness....but still some of the same things as the
>past 10 years.

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