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I have no idea how long I have them over my lap, time is not a factor. To me a spanking has three parts, before they go over my lap, the spanking itself, (lap time) then the after spanking care.
When I put the one to be spanked over my lap I take my time, I get them adjusted making sure I have them right where I want, my personal preference is to have my legs apart just enough as this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat bottom directly over lap so I am looking right down at it, and in this position there is no rubbing of their boyhood on my thighs, I prefer to spank wear my jeans which is what I am mostly wearing (shorts on occasion ) dress at church, I think they are a help in controlling the wiggling as wearing a dress or skirt can be slippery and easily moves around aiding them in their squirming.
They will usually reach back at this point, if not I ask them to reach back with their right hand so I can take hold of their wrist/forearm and pin it down to their lower back and my forearm on their back, I now have them under control, then a little more scolding/talking from me as I enjoy the view before I start to spank. Then the spanking itself and I give long spankings with my hand and then brush. When I am finished I help them up.