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Subject: Re: Grandma’s spanking talk

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Date Posted: 21:00:59 09/10/21 Fri
In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "Grandma’s spanking talk" on 00:03:11 09/06/21 Mon

>Moms, if your mom was around when your kid misbehaved,
>what role did she play? Was it “ that child needs a
>spanking,” or “you call that a spanking?”, or
>perhaps “how can you be so cruel?”, or “this is
>the right way to do it”? Dud you spank harder or
>longer to impress her, or go easy?

My mother has never really butted in much when it comes to discipline advice. She knows I pretty much know what I am doing and that my husband and I have a good environment for the kids with love and discipline. Only once when my son was 4 did she really say anything. Up to that point I had really only ever given a few swats here and there. She told me it was not effective and I was babying him. She told me flat out he's old enough to go over your knee and get a big boy spanking. I actually was planning on doing so anyway but I knew she was right. It just took another set of eyes, ones that I trust to reinforce to me that it was time to spank properly. Soon after my son found out what that meant from now on.

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Re: Grandma’s spanking talkShannon04:02:15 09/19/21 Sun

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