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Subject: Re: The oldest age you have every spanked


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Lucy
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Date Posted: 18:59:07 09/14/21 Tue
In reply to: SJ Mom to Lucy 's message, "Re: The oldest age you have every spanked" on 15:45:17 09/14/21 Tue

>Lucy,
>
>Her initial reaction was one of shock that yes she was
>going to get spanked at 21yo; however, I don't think
>she was necessarily surprised at her fate since I gave
>her 2 warnings (paraphrasing them): 1) you are close
>to earning a spanking and 2) if you don't stop right
>now then you will be spanked.
>
>After she didn't stop and I told her that she was
>getting a spanking, she tried to argue that she would
>stop arguing, she was too old to be spanked, etc. but
>ultimately she didn't fight a lot when it was time to
>go over my lap. It had been about 2 years since her
>last spanking at that point so it was in the somewhat
>recent past.
>
>I know not everyone agrees with spanking older kids
>(and that's 100% ok with me), but it's worked for me
>and mine.

Oh I hope you didn’t think that me asking questions about this made it seem as if I disapprove of how you handled the situation. Quite the opposite, in fact. I’m sure many parents who use spankings have said things like “you’re never too old for a spanking” but I honestly wonder how much of that is lip service. So I think it’s commendable how you handled this situation by sticking to your convictions while also being very fair in giving your daughter multiple warnings.

I am interested in why she didn’t fight very much when the time came for her spanking. Personally, I couldn’t picture my daughter being as cooperative as yours was in this situation. Yours are older than mine so that might be the reason. What is your process in between announcing the spanking and taking them over the lap? Did you do anything to discourage her from being uncooperative for this particular spanking? Or it is it that yours are simply different from mine in this way?

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Re: The oldest age you have every spankedSJ Mom to Lucy11:54:05 09/16/21 Thu


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