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Subject: Re: 'reminders' or follow-up spanking


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Mary
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Date Posted: 07:56:10 09/16/21 Thu
In reply to: Ivana 's message, "'reminders' or follow-up spanking" on 06:22:01 09/16/21 Thu

Ivana,

Your meaning of a ‘reminder spanking’ and what I think of when I hear that are two different things.

First, I know we are all different but since you asked let me say how that would have been handled here, first there would not have been 3 warnings, with me I would give have given 1 warning right away and in most cases some hard warning swats with a spanking warning, then if things progressed and my warning wasn’t heeded I spank.

Follow up spankings here are for something serious, but not a bedtime incident.

When I have heard others speak of ‘reminder spankings’ it has been on the same lines as a maintenance spanking with no spanking offense committed just as a reminder or a maintenance.

My views on these are as always, I think “reminder/maintenance” spankings and wrong. I spank only when needed, spanking for no reason or when the child has done nothing to earn a spanking is wrong in my book. It sends a bad confusing message to the child/ren.

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Re: 'reminders' or follow-up spankingRachel (Ted's mom)09:33:00 09/16/21 Thu


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