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Subject: Bonding if loving

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Date Posted: 13:08:06 09/17/21 Fri
In reply to: Laurel 's message, "Bonding or Alienating" on 06:58:57 09/17/21 Fri

Could not agree more, and perfectly stated.

When the kids were younger I go the occasional "I hate you, Dad!"/"Never going to talk to you again!" comments after he or she had been spanked. But once the penny dropped, and the realisation sank in that Mum and Dad spank because we CARE about them, this stopped. They obviously don't like being spanked, or having their bottoms bared, but deep down understand why, and I think, respect the strict but loving parenting they are given.

Like you, Laurel, I was soundly and frequently spanked by my mother, and to this day I love her to bits. She must have done something right with my upbringing.

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Re: Bonding or AlienatingMaria B.14:29:52 09/17/21 Fri

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