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I have been administering spankings for over 35 years now and have spanked the (bare) bottoms of many different children in that time. Of course I raised my own four children with spankings, but I also spanked a number of their friends, my 3 nieces and 2 nephews (they are all grown as well), my two grandchildren (8 yr old girl and 3 yr old boy) and quite a few different children I've babysat over the years, including with Andy, whom I've mentioned more than once here. Although Andy is every bit like a son than a charge.
With both my son and youngest daughter, they always begged and pleaded not to be spanked, even up to their last ones. Jason (son) and Laura (youngest daughter) were already crying hard while I was baring them, even in their late teens. They were starting to go through that 'spanking time machine' even before going over my lap.
With Kahlan (middle daughter), when she was in her pre-teens to early teens, she was much like Donny and tried to give the 'tough guy (gal)' attitude. She wanted to let Mom know that her spanking would not hurt. Of course that was only temporary, and much like Donny, she would soon be crying, and hard, once she was over my lap. With my daughter Jennifer (oldest), when she got to be older, probably in her early to mid-teens, she was the most calm and reserved before a spanking. She admitted she deserved one, but was still of course was not happy she was going over Mom's knee. But once the spanking started, much like her siblings, she quickly went through that 'spanking time machine' and soon was frantically kicking and flailing on my lap, wailing and screaming loudly, while I spanked her long and hard.
With Andy, he has been your typical desperate and upset child before a spanking. I have said before even though he is 14, he definitely does not act like it, more like a boy a couple of years younger than him, and that also applies when I announce a spanking. He becomes extremely upset and frantic when he knows "Mommy is going to spank him" and goes into panic mode, promising and pleading the world. I don't know how many times I've heard unrealistic promises followed by "just please don't spank me this ONE time, Mommy! PLEEEEEASEEE!" But of course I let him know Mommy is most certainly going to spank him, and why. Which just gets him to be more upset and frantic, and it gets worse the closer we get to the spanking while I am baring him. And pretty much right away with my hand spanking, he zooms right through that "spanking time machine" to that 5 yr old little boy, wailing and screaming hysterically. Of course we've only begun at that point and he only gets worse as I continue to spank.
All of my children, including Andy, have wanted to be comforted from Mommy after a sound spanking. I know from some that is not what they want, and just want to be left alone. There have been some children I've babysat (and spanked) that were that way, my older nephew was as well, but in general most of the children wanted to be assured of my care and/or love for them. And that I was not upset anymore/they were no longer in trouble.
I remember a little girl I babysat in my 30s (she was 8-10 yrs old when I sat for her), where when I first started to spank her, she would kick her right leg straight out to the side while I spanked. It was out of the ordinary as she would keep it straight, not even a 'frog kick' out or pedal kick, just kept her right leg straight and kicked off to the side. Almost like she was stretching, but in a much more frantic way.
It didn't cause any issues in smacking her bottom, or even her sit spots, but as I've always liked to include the upper thighs as part of a normal spanking, it made it more challenging to swat her right thigh. So I found it was just easier locking her legs down, even though she was not that big and her kicking was not an issue, otherwise. So I learned after a couple of spankings with her just to lock her legs down before I began.
If you want to talk about a really unique reaction, there was a little boy, a friend of my son Jason's, that I spanked probably at least a dozen times when he was 6-7 yrs old. His after spanking dance was the most ADORABLE one you could imagine. He would bounce and run around like most children after a good spanking, but he would also flap his arms around like mad. He looked like a cross between an aggravated chicken (flapping their wings) and trying to do jumping-jacks. It also almost seemed like he was trying to fly away from waving his arms. Although he was the most unhappy little boy at the time, wailing at the top of his lungs, letting me know how much it hurt, so I had to cover my mouth sometimes to hide my stifled laugh. :)
Unfortunately his parents moved before the boys entered 2nd grade as him and Jason were very good friends. And I missed having him over my lap, as well! Although Jason was still attached to the hip with his best bud, Adam, so he was still happy in regards to that. And Adam by far, between all of Jason's friends, spent the most amount of time over my lap.
Mark, I have experienced differences with other children I have spanked over the years, but too many to list. However, in the end, all of them have ended up in the same place. A child of any age going through that "spanking time machine" and is now that bawling, wailing, screaming hysterically 5 yr. old snot-faced child that is learning a good and valuable bare bottom lesson over my lap.