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Subject: Re: Pain vs Shame


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Cherie
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Date Posted: 08:29:29 05/01/21 Sat
In reply to: Laura 's message, "Pain vs Shame" on 13:35:06 04/30/21 Fri

Laura,

Shame never enters the picture and never should. I don't spank a bared bottom to shame them, it is to cause them as much pain as I safely can as part of their punishment, if it isn't going to be a painful experience don't bother. And along with that there is embarrassment and I do agree with the others in that it does bring their spankings to a higher level.

To quote and agree with Sarah "my focus in administering a spanking has always been making sure it is a very painful experience."

But, embarrassment is a part of the spanking. Over-the-knee, bare bottom spankings are all about teaching a hard and painful lesson and an embarrassing one to boot. I dare you to show me the teenage boy who wouldn't benefit from being taken over his mother's lap with his pants pulled down for a good, sound bare bottom spanking.

When I bare my boy’s bottom for their spanking or when I spank one of my nephews or nieces, it is a task I perform only with them positioned over my lap so as to maximize the embarrassment factor in my actually witnessing their bottom's transition from clothed to bare.

I do lower their underpants/panties methodically. They can still expect to have his or her underpants or panties taken down for a session over my lap no matter how old or big he or she is. Embarrassment is a byproduct of being spanked bare not the reason or focus. I believe it shows that I am in charge and I can and will bare their bottom and spank.

As I have said before, this is something I got from another spanking mom of 2 boys years ago and never forgot it, “a boy's underpants are the dividing line between the desperate retention of his delusions of autonomy and the harsh reality of his behavioral accountability.” Who better to take them down than his mom who most likely taught him to pull them up.

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Re: Pain vs ShameTeresa to Cherie11:17:26 05/01/21 Sat
Re: Pain vs ShamePaul (Happy)03:59:09 11/16/21 Tue


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