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Subject: Re: Pain vs Shame


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Helen
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Date Posted: 07:43:18 05/02/21 Sun
In reply to: Laura 's message, "Pain vs Shame" on 13:35:06 04/30/21 Fri

I have found that as my two got older (they are 12 and 9),the embarrassment factor helped to keep the spanking effective. I didn't want to spank harder, but needed to ensure that the punishment was memorable. A bare bottom spanking over my knee, just like they got when they were younger, does exactly that.

At their ages, I only spank in private. To me, a spanking from mom is embarrassing, but getting it in front of others crosses over into humiliation. Does anyone else see it that way?

>I feel like some people make spankings worse by making
>them more painful, but others make it worse for the
>kid by making it more embarrassing.
>
>Whether it's a matter of deciding if the spanking is
>done with your hand or a belt, if the kid has to take
>their pants off or their underwear too, or even if the
>spanking will be private or public, people have
>different ways of making a spanking more severe.
>
>Talk about your methods. Do you favor increasing pain
>or shame to worsen a punishment? I've seen different
>kids burst into tears on the spot when sentenced to
>spankings with these words:
>
>"You're getting spanked in the living room."
>"You're losing your underwear."
>"You're getting the belt."

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Re: Pain vs ShameAlisa13:37:40 05/02/21 Sun


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