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Subject: Re: Pain vs Shame

Brenda K
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Date Posted: 09:11:45 05/19/21 Wed
In reply to: Mary to Brenda K. 's message, "Re: Pain vs Shame" on 19:15:15 05/18/21 Tue


I searched and read many of Cordelia’s posts. She is as they say in England spot on. If the child being spanked leaves the lap and is not concerned about his or her bottom the spanking was not effective. Like me I have been spanking since my oldest was 3-4 years old and have consistently spanked the same way. Over the knee and bare and my children know and are used to how I spank. I think that goes with most moms on here. I though have not had to spank my older boys in front of any friends that were opposite gender, the closet to that was a female cousin. Do you find it any different spanking your boys when they have earned one in front of girls there age like I read Ashley and a girl named Madison come over frequently. Would you give the boys some leeway in spanking if your friends or Ashley or Madison were present. Do all the boys initially act the same way once they leave your lap and don’t even realize the girls or other moms may be in the room.

Can I post and more thorough introduction. After reading here a lot I see many different views and suggestions and support from the moms. Once my oldest boy started asking not to be spanked bare or in front of others it had me thinking why.

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Re: Pain vs ShameTeresa09:22:09 05/19/21 Wed
Re: Pain vs ShameMary11:39:27 05/19/21 Wed
Re: Cordelia's postsPaige17:29:34 05/19/21 Wed

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