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I have read a number of your replies already and enjoyed your posts. I look forward to your introduction. I also agree with what you said on the benefits of administering bare bottom spankings and have also been the reasons why I've always done so.
There have been a few times I've spanked over underpants or panties, but it has been when I have babysat and it was at the parents request. Although I made certain the spanking was felt just as acutely on their undergarments. They certainly didn't cry and scream any less loudly.
Brenda, with my children, I spanked their bare bottoms up until their last spankings. It varied a bit on my child, but they were all in their late teens when they received their last spanking. My son was almost 20.
You asked if they ever mentioned they felt embarrassed when I spanked them at an older age. Oh yes, many times. It wasn't a point of conversation I usually had with them away from a spanking, usually when I had to spank, but sometimes they tried to have a discussion with me to not take them over my knee, not to spank bare bottom or to always start spanking in private. Of course I always let them give their side, but none of the aspects ever changed.
Spankings always remained over my knee and always were given on the bare. As for spanking in front of others, I told them it really depended on them. If they behaved, then they wouldn't need to worry about others hearing (or seeing) their spankings. But they always knew if they found the need to act in the presence of others, I had no issues spanking in front of them, either.
They of course never liked those answers, but understood how that is how it was going to be. They did learn eventually (grew out of their spankings) and have all grown into responsible and mature adults that have made us very proud. Spankings are still technically an option for our youngest (21), just finished her junior year in college. But I haven't had to spank her in over 4 years now so I would be surprised if I needed to put her over my knee again.