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Subject: Andy's soaping and spanking for swearing

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Date Posted: 23:33:47 06/25/22 Sat

Originally, I had planned to post this in the “Sharing our most recent spanking or spankings” thread, but decided to just go ahead and post my own. Part of the reason being it is not the most recent spanking I have given. Where my lap is kept relatively busy, especially now that my summer babysitting has started, I rarely share on the forum on the spankings I administer. Mainly due to I don’t want my posts to be just, or mostly, about spankings I’ve had to give recently. However, Candace requested for me to share Andy’s most recent spanking, which was this last Wednesday.

Andy’s best friend, Derek (also 15), had come over earlier in the day and was going to stay overnight, as well. We had a beautiful, hot day, so both boys, along with the other children I am sitting for (Julian-5 and Chloe-10) spent a lot of time in the pool. The kids had a blast, but behaved well overall. I did need to give Julian a spanking warning when having to warn him a second time for being too rowdy in the pool and running on the deck, but a day hasn’t gone by where I haven’t had to give at least one spanking warning with him. However, that is a 5 yr old little boy for you.

After Julian and Chloe were picked by their mothers, both boys decided to go downstairs to play some video games. I could hear the boys playing downstairs having a good time and decided to put a snack together for them. As I neared the stairs, snack tray in hand, is when I heard the word, and it clearly came from Andy.

“S**t! I can’t believe that happened!” I was not happy at all. I have never been a fan at all of bad language. There are always much better ways to express yourself in a strong manner and I have always made that clear to the children. And not only have I always washed their mouths out with Ivory soap for swearing, but their spanking that goes along with it is always a more serious one, as well. There have been times where I’ve been more lenient, like them saying a lesser word or a naughty word escapes in shock/pain from stubbing their toe. I may only give a warning in that case (although it also depends on the word). Like the F word there has never been an exception. And with the word Andy used, and especially for the reason of it (in playing his video games), there would certainly be no warning or reprieve for that.

I heard Andy gasp immediately after he spurted it out and Derek quickly said afterwards, “I think you’re good. I think your Mom didn’t hear it.” Oh, how wrong he was, and I made that correction very quickly. As I continued to walk down the stairs, I replied loudly and firmly, “Andrew Steven ______, you can be assured Mommy most certainly heard that word coming out of your mouth!” By this point I was at the bottom of the stairs, looking at both boys sternly. Andy’s eyes were wide and had his right hand clapped over his mouth. He also had those “deer in the headlights” eyes, which he then started going “No, no, no, noooooo…” But I just continued, with the tray still in my hand, scolding him. “You know how Mommy feels about that kind of language in this house.” His no’s turned louder and more desperate, “No, No, No, NOOOOOOOOOOO!!” He knew what was coming next, but I confirmed it for him firmly, “Oh yes,” and then gave the pronouncement. “Young man, your mouth is going to be washed out with soap and then your bare bottom is going to be spanked long and hard over Mommy’s knee. And hopefully this will be enough to help you remember before spurting out inappropriate language like that in the future. If not, then we will be doing all of this again.”

And I know some of you already know, but just to give a quick explanation on the relationship between Andy and myself. But the reason Derek said “your Mom” and why I refer to myself as “Mommy” is because in most respects I have become like a second mother to Andy. I have been babysitting him since he has been 9 yrs old and we bonded almost immediately. And soon afterwards he started calling me Mommy, and not just when I would spank him. And vice-versa on my part. I have come to love him like another son and he has very much become part of our own family. Of course, Andy’s friends have seen this with our close relationship so it really is second nature for his friends to also refer to me as his “Mom.”

Andy has referred to me as Mom for awhile now (instead of Mommy). However, when he is in trouble, and I start scolding, I get into Mommy mode and he usually falls right into it calling me Mommy. But if he doesn’t by that point, he is always wailing and screaming “MOOOMMMMMYYY!!” while I spank him.

After announcing Andy’s spanking, I looked over at Derek and took the opportunity to reinforce with him those same expectations apply with him on not using that kind of language, reminding him of the spanking, and soaping, I needed to give him a few months ago for a very similar situation. He was smart and answered with a “Yes, ma’am.”

After putting the snack tray down, I went back upstairs to retrieve my hairbrush and then came back down and placed it on the coffee table in front of the couch. Whenever the children have misbehaved in our downstairs rec room (usually with the boys when playing their video games), I have always sat on the couch to administer their spanking(s). And the smaller bathroom right off our rec room has always been used if I’ve had to soap a mouth (or mouths). It’s exactly what I planned to do this time, as well.

I took Andy over to the couch and bared his bottom, removing his shorts and underpants and then his top. Even though I soap before I spank, I have always soaped the children with at least a bare bottom, and for quite awhile now, I also remove their top as water, soap and drool many times has found it way down the front of them and has soaked the top of their shirt.

While I bared Andy, he was already crying hard at this point. And now pleading for me to please take him upstairs (I know he meant the 2nd floor) to soap and spank him. Of course it was because he was embarrassed with Derek being there. Even though I have spanked Andy in front of Derek many times, I know it didn’t make it any less embarrassing for him. But I told him that we were not going anywhere. That he was going to soaped right there (pointing to the nearby washroom) and spanked here on the couch, just like how Mommy always has whenever he has misbehaved down here. And just so he didn’t think I was singling him out, I added “And just like with anyone else when they have misbehaved down here, as well.” But it didn’t really make him feel all that much better as he just cried harder after my statement. When I finally finished baring him, I escorted him off to the washroom for his soaping.

How I soap is much like how my Mom soaped my sisters and I. I will lather up a washcloth thoroughly and literally wash and scrub their mouth out. Rubbing their teeth and gums, front and back, the inside cheeks and finally spending a good amount on their tongue. My soapings take in the area of around 5 minutes, but can vary a bit depending on the age of the child. Like with younger children, they don’t take quite as long.

As you can imagine, there is a lot, and I mean a LOT of heavy crying. There is also a large amount of drooling, as well. I do have the kids lean their heads forward so no soap goes down their throat, but because of that it will go out of their mouth and run into the sink/drool down their neck, which is why I have taken their tops off for awhile now.

I will also scold firmly pretty much through the entire soaping, but of course I don’t expect them to respond to anything when my hand is in their mouth. I just want them to hear what Mommy (or Grandma) has to say and many times I will stop and administer hard swats to their bare backside (bottom or legs) to reinforce my lecturing. However, when I remove my hand from soaping to administer swats, I do ask questions then, which I expect answers to. And if they don’t answer, that earns them more swats until they do.

Andy’s soaping on Wednesday happened exactly the same way. It’s been awhile since I’ve had to give him a mouth soaping, probably at least 6 months, but he didn’t cry any less hard at 15 yrs old than he did at 14. He was bawling/pleading (what I could make out) for me to stop while I scrubbed. Most times he will keep his hands gripped on the sink, but sometimes they will flutter up in the air, like he wants to grab my hand to pull it out, but never coming close as he knows better.

I could see Derek from the corner of my eye watching us. Just like I have always left their door open when spanking upstairs in their bedrooms, I have never shut the bathroom doors when I have given mouth soapings, either. Although Derek was watching us, I could tell he wasn’t doing it with any kind of enjoyment. He was somber and actually looked like he was feeling sorry for Andy. I have soaped Derek more than a few times, so he definitely knows what they are like from personal experience.

When I finally finished his soaping, we made our way back out to the rec room. Derek was still present, but was quite reserved and not trying to make eye contact. I didn’t waste any time and took Andy right over to the couch, took a seat, turned him over my lap, adjusted him exactly where I wanted him and went right into his hand spanking.

Andy has never been one to try and hold out in his spankings. He has always cried and pleaded hard beforehand (while I bare) and is immediately wailing as soon as my hand goes to work. Even when I spank him in front of others, he still bawls and pleads desperately while I am baring him. At 15 yrs old, he still is very much my little boy. Once I get him over my lap and begin his hand spanking, he very quickly goes through that “spanking time machine”. Although, however quickly he reverts to that little boy over my lap, it doesn’t speed up or shorten his spanking by any means. I still spank him as long, hard and thoroughly as I intend to, and that I know he needs and deserves.

I have written before how I hand spank, but will bring it up again here. My hand spankings are always quite intense, I spank rapid fire and very hard. I know some will start with a more mild hand spanking, just to get it started for an implement, but my feelings have always been the hand is very much part of the overall punishment of the spanking, so I feel it is something that needs to be just as unpleasant.

And the children always let me know loudly how my hand spankings are. "It huurts sooo muuch!" or how they "caaan't taaake annymooree!!" but that just lets me know the spanking is just doing it's job. There is of course plenty of bawling, wailing and screaming along with an abundance of tears and snot in even the hand spanking.

This hand spanking played out no differently for Andy. He let me know vociferously, frantically and desperately how much my hand spanking hurt and eventually (not all that long into it) how he couldn’t take any more. Unfortunately for him, even at that point we still had a good amount of hand spanking to go and I just continued to vigorously paddle his bare bottom with my hand until I was satisfied he received what was needed and deserved, no matter how many times he continued to let me know “I’VVEEE LEAARNNED MY LESSSON!!!” , “I CAAN’TT TAAAKEE ANNYMOOREEEE!!” or “ITTT HUUUURRRTSSS SOOOO MUUUUCHHH!!!”

The portion with the hairbrush was of course even worse for him. Where I don’t spank as hard as I do with my hand, I still administer hard enough swats and when I give my periodic 5-6 rapid smacks in one spot, those are given noticeably harder. He wailed and screamed even louder during his hairbrush spanking, reaching hysterics pretty much immediately and staying there for the entire brushing. When I finished, his bottom cheeks, sit spots and upper thighs had the tell-tale marking that a hairbrush will leave from a good and proper spanking. Especially a spanking that was a bit more serious than normal, which this one fell under. I knew he would be feeling it for at least a couple of days (and he has).

After his corner time, I spent as much time as he needed with me upstairs in comforting and talking with him. He apologized probably a 100 times, and assured me he would ‘never’ swear again. I smiled, and said, “Well honey, I admire your determination. However, that is a big promise.” And I told him that he isn’t a bad person for swearing, I just want him to think of better ways to express himself than using those kinds of words. But when you can’t, that’s what Mommies are for to help remind you.” And I thought “and their hairbrushes”, but didn’t say that out loud. :)

Sorry for the length! Thank for anyone who took the time to read through all of it!


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Re: Andy's soaping and spanking for swearing Mamá00:59:28 06/26/22 Sun
Re: Andy's soaping and spanking for swearingNicola04:51:04 06/26/22 Sun
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