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Subject: Re: Andy's soaping and spanking for swearing

Sarah to SJ Mom
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Date Posted: 10:05:37 06/26/22 Sun
In reply to: SJ Mom 's message, "Re: Andy's soaping and spanking for swearing" on 09:17:20 06/26/22 Sun

SJ Mom,

Thank you for your supportive words, I completely agree it was well deserved for Andy. I have no regrets on the spanking (and soaping) I administered and would handle the exact same way if I had to do it again, including spanking in front of Derek.

It is good to find another mom who has just as low a bar with poor language as myself. Some of my friends say I am too strict in regards to it, but I just have never found the need for it. As I said in my post, there is always a better way to make a strong point than to cuss. And if I have any say in the matter, like I do with the children while in my home, there won't be any cussing in our house. Not without serious consequences.

And yes, I have the same rule in regards to using poor language with text messages, including having the periodic spot checks to make sure it wasn't/isn't being used. My children (and now Andy) complain(ed) it wasn't fair as they didn't actually say anything and it was a private conversation between friends. However, I told them the same principle applied on why I don't like them using that kind of language, verbal or written. And I still wash their mouth out with Ivory, before their spanking, when I have caught swear text words.

I agree with you completely on the benefit of Derek observing Andy's spanking. Where Derek already full knows I will spank (and soap) for bad language, I feel it is always a good reminder for the children to actually see another spanking to reinforce what can, and will happen, with them. And as you said, it is an excellent reminder on to behave well, especially if they have already started to go down that naughty route. I don't know how many times I've seen behavior go the other direction (in the good way) when they have seen me give a good spanking to one of their siblings/friends/cousins.

Where I have sometimes given follow-up spankings to Andy when he has been spanked at home, Diane (Andy's mother) has never given him another spanking after I have administered one. Mainly for the reason she's felt my spanking was sufficient. Diane has gotten a lot better since I've met both of them, but I am still quite a bit more strict with Andy and definitely spank much more soundly with him, as well.

SJ Mom, we built this home over 25 years ago. We didn't finish the rec room with the rest of the house, but it was completed soon after and I began putting the couch, and my lap, to use almost right away after it was done. :) Almost 25 years of spankings. And yet, for how many times I've spanked in our rec room (and it has been a lot of spankings over the years), our living room is the room in the house where I have spanked the most by far.


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