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Subject: Re: When Did You First Know?

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Date Posted: 05:54:12 05/11/22 Wed
In reply to: JD 's message, "When Did You First Know?" on 18:29:51 05/10/22 Tue


Is it "Nature or Nurture?" I think it is both, it is with me.

To start this, your first paragraph is right on, I do so enjoy the post spanking cuddle time with those I spank as I did with our mom after she spanked.

I was 17 the first time I was finally able to babysit and spank I had been dying to sit since 14, hoping I would get the chance to spank, but my parents wouldn’t let me sit because of my grades. The boy was 8 and the bratty son of my mom’s best friend who had trouble keeping sitters. I was given permission to spank him just as his mom did, I had had the opportunity a couple times to be present when she spanked him.

I spanked him bare over my lap with my hand and it was a thorough spanking, I remember the adrenaline coursing through me just thinking about it. I remember everything about that spanking as if it happened yesterday.

What I am going to say is a part of who I am, and I know I am not alone in feeling this way, as I have shared in the past. There is nothing wrong with feeling this way. I have said this before, but since we have so many new posters and you asked, I will again. I am going to be very honest here, I hope I don’t offend anyone. I do enjoy sharing, talking about my spankings and hearing others share about spankings they have administered just as I also do in my 3D world with my spanking mom friends and they do likewise, the support is a part of it, a safe caring outlet for us.

As I have said many times, let me make this perfectly clear as to why I spank. I spank to punish. To me the point of a spanking is to punish bad behavior, teach them right from wrong, too discipline, protect them from making wrong dangerous decisions ie. safety issues. To teach them how to live in society, learn respect. Press that reset/reboot button.mNo responsible loving parent would ever spank when it’s not earned/deserved, needed.

That being said, I have always been upfront and honest about my feelings and that I have always since I was 12 years old been very much so, a “Bottom girl.” Even at that age I couldn’t wait to be able to take a boy over my lap and spank. We do well that which we enjoy doing. I swatted many a boy’s bottom as a girl. ‘I have a funny story about this I will share later if anyone wants to read it.’

As a spanker, first as a sitter and then as a mom, I enjoy the view looking down at their bare bottom over my lap, each one different and so adorable. There is also something to be said for the sight of a completely naked boy over my lap, so clean, natural and beautiful, I love it. I love holding them down over my lap, holding their body tightly, in control, I love feeling my hand across their bare smooth bottoms and the skin to skin contact is also a bonding time.

I am always very pleased, ‘satisfied’ after I have administered a bare bottom spanking, satisfied of a job well done. I feel energized after I spank. Those that read here and that know me in my 3D world, know I have always been attracted to the male bottom, boys bottoms and have always enjoyed, patting, swatting and spanking (play and discipline).

Saying all this, being honest, I swear on my boy’s lives it is true that I never have and never will cause a spanking to happen, that is the great thing with my boys and their friends, they always found a way to cause and need enough spankings on their own, besides having to wait just builds up the itch, lol.

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Re: When Did You First Know?Laura08:21:33 05/11/22 Wed
    Re: When Did You First Know?Steven11:58:01 05/12/22 Thu

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