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Date Posted: Tuesday, July 15, 10:00:07am
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At the same time, I think the criticism being leveled at PageantCritic is justified.
PC, the point that I think everyone is trying to be made is that not because you and Trini77 help keep the board going (your choice, and this does not mean you own the board, or are the only ones allowed to express an opinion), does it mean that it is right to FALSELY heap praise on a delegate when you know that your feelings are the exact opposite.
If you felt Anya was not the right fit for Miss Universe, it would have gone so much more smoothly if you'd simply refrained from making any negative comments, but also refrained from making statements such as "Anya is perfect.. do not change anyting about her styling etc".
You MUST understand the difference between the two.
You've dug your own hole in the sense that you feel you are justified in saying what you want after the fact, because you made only positive and overly glowing comments before. That's not the way it works. It is almost like a case of sour grapes. The grapes look so delicious and appealing before, yet when you realise you cannot attain them, you steups and say you never wanted them anyway.
If Anya had actually been called into the top 15, or even won the crown (which according to what you have expressed after the fact was a sheer impossibility) would you have been as harsh? Would you have come on here and made reference to the "Anya disaster"? To how horrible she performed in the presentation show? Would you have stated that the judges must be off their rockers to crown a girl who you were certain was the wrong girl for the job?
So please... give us all a break. Those who post and those who read...Your hypocrisy is compounded by statements like "I have never seen you post here before". Had that poster been posting support for you or praise for Anya, you would not have thought twice about whether they'd posted before.
Read some of your messages, and if you're a person with integrity, you will realise what everyone is trying to tell you. Do not be false with your praise/adoration, and then turn around and say "I knew that all along". Just say nothing next time, or keep your comments just general and positive. People would have respected you so much more had you been simply saying things like "Good luck Anya, you have our support" which are general statements, rather than things like "Anya looked perfect, and she will bring the crown home for us".
Whether you respond (or anyone for that matter) to this or not, is not my concern.
It needed to be said.
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