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Date Posted: 03:55:31 08/23/03 Sat
About love persists, degree of love mentioned by you.
[(1)Circumstantial would include eg of third party, general problems,communication problems, material problems, pressure...etc...]
[(2)(3) would be a substantial here ]
If there is nothing of (2) substantial feelings from others has gone and (3) sub. feelings from you has gone, circumstantial problem can be solved if both aimed at it and aimed in a proper manner. Unilateral one won't help .
Say if: A is the time love starting, B is the time circumstances change, C is the time now you have seperated with her.
Some situation will be that, love existed at A. It doesn't
anymore at B, cos something blocked the persistance of love.
Some will be that , as you said, love existed every moment, and it persisted from A (start)to B (changes)and to C (now)as well.
It means that the circumstantial problems outweighed the degree of love , so, the love has not been rescued.
One can't possible love so many people , let alone loving so many people in deep, otherwise, the mind couldn't take it. Of course, we can like many people at a time.
What is "love" here does not mean "like". It does not mean
the "concern" about someone whom i have loved before.
It comprises of substantial feelings, passion, desires,admiration..etc..
I think you just like them(your ex), concern about them,
but couldn't really love all of them now at the same time.
Perhaps the love from you(or from her,or both) was not enough, that's justifying why circumstantial breakthrough between you and her did not appear. Cos cir problems outweighed degree of love.
Degree of love should be a big issue, but i personally really so scared of talking about this. Because its never ending..^^ and ..
action is always much better than talking "how much i love you."
It's my pleasure sharing views with you here, it has made discussion meaningful.
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