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Subject: Hateful friends


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^sanbofan^
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Date Posted: 20:43:28 07/04/04 Sun

Just got a call from a friend. Friends who only "Take" but are not willing to "Give" are so hateful.

Friends who squeeze you out of what you have, or attempt at your labourhood / hardworking for their whole sake, are so unwanted. It is an exploitation! Friends who are not honest , or gossip around you with your info are the second hateful. I can always see an 8-man/ 8-woman sign on their face. To be fair, they are not all that bad, but it does happen most of the time.

In fact, I am like the military of some who used to send me to collect what they want. From time to time, I always prepare the cake and it seems like I am supposed to feed them. I can swear that nothing can be changed, it has been so for quite a while & this goes with their personality along the path of growth. Nonetheless, when I asked if they could give me a bit of the cake they have got, they would hide it and say : No, i don't have a cake, how come i have?..

I don't care and its okie for me if I give them 80% and they return for the rest. However, they are too stingy & i hate that i am like a kindagarten classmate who appears to be the best to help, the easiest to cheat.

So, when i am useful, they come; when i am not, they go. I could not find any better friend, and i find they are living like ants clustering all round me. Undeniably, these are human nature. What is important is, this is not ideal friends indeed, it sucks.

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