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Subject: 振作


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Date Posted: 08:15:54 04/03/04 Sat

找不到原路
或釦拲慾F
看不回自己
誰人可告訴
只有期待祈求
尋回舊昔的我
踏回那條原路
重新再振作

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Subject:


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 09:09:13 04/02/04 Fri

每日靜思語

為眾生來人間是菩薩,為自己來人間是凡夫。

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Subject: To : The one I have also been missing since 20020301


Author:
The one you said you have been missing since 20020301
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Date Posted: 04:02:18 04/02/04 Fri

軌跡 周杰倫

作曲:周杰倫 作詞:黃俊郎

怎麼隱藏 我的悲傷 失去妳的地方
妳的髮香 散的匆忙 我已經跟不上

閉上眼睛 還能看見 妳離去的痕跡
在月光下 一直找尋 那想念的身影

如果說分手 是苦痛的起點
那在終點之前 我願意再愛一遍
想要對妳說的 不敢說的愛
會不會有人 可以明白

我會發著呆 然後忘記你 接著緊緊閉上眼
想著那一天 會有人代替 讓我不再想念你
我會發著呆 然後微微笑 接著緊緊閉上眼
又想了一遍 妳溫柔的臉 在我忘記之前

心理的眼瓷@模糊了視線 妳已快看不見

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Subject: 「WC友聚」四月份 - 《床上的禁忌》


Author:
香港女同盟
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Date Posted: 12:37:53 04/01/04 Thu

《床上的禁忌》友聚

在床上與她大汗淋漓,一個不留神,分分鐘激親人!
講錯野、叫錯名、俾錯驚喜、望錯隔離,傷親人地搞到自己。
有些禁忌,礙於面子,又或不自知,真係唔講妳唔知。

唔想自己無意hurt到她,難得機會自己人傾番自己事,
講下邊樣禁忌最難頂,齊齊度條好橋拆店吽C
4月3日公開床上的秘密!

日期:2004年4月3日(星期六)
時間:5:00-7:00pm
地點:中環蘭桂芳64酒吧費用全免,
但參加者請早點到場自費購買飲品,支持場地借出。




「WC友聚」
由女同盟 (WC) 組織,緊貼同志生活的話題,讓女同志們暢所欲言,
論盡同志生活、藝術與文化,歡迎所有女同志參加。

**每月第一個星期六下午5:00 - 7:00,只限女性,有傾有講有得玩,齊來分享至hot題目**

香港女同盟出品
http://dear.to/wc
wcofhk@yahoo.com.hk

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Subject: 分享


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你好!
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Date Posted: 00:30:53 03/20/04 Sat

我現在識了一位女友,已同居三年,但仍不忘我的一見鐘情的情人,但彼此不能再一起.現在與她變為朋友.大家好像沒有發生任何東西,不知怎樣才好!
我知我實在太自私,有沒有方法忘記. 請給提點??

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Subject: 給我唯一的妳。


Author:
blue rose
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Date Posted: 12:56:18 03/30/04 Tue

2004.3.25濛濛細雨晚,巴士站吻上了你。
你流的硃雩U箭穿心的撲向我心,
令我心痛、很痛、很痛。
還以為你婚姻美滿、幸福快樂,有個美滿家庭。
4年了,還以為......還以為可以放下......

夜深人靜,浪聲、滴水聲,完全因酒精影響沒有聽進耳裡,
接近瘋狂地吻著你,接近瘋狂的撫摸你肌膚,
但我感覺你沒有太大反應,
我沉默地整理你衣服,
我知你因我想才給我吻上。

對不起,我忽略了你的感受。
只因我太心痛,痛得我只想吻你,
完全沒有用說話告訴你我的感受。
我以為你會明白,因我太愛、太著緊你,
我只知道你受了傷害,
我就像動物一樣,用著最原始的身體語言去告訴你,
我有多難過、多痛、多苦惱。
你明白嗎?

對不起,打擾著你。
這幾天我為著心愛的你苦惱不已,
因我沒有親口說出對你的感受,
只因你責怪自己,逃避我對你的愛。
你累嗎?我不想你這樣呀!
我不想我是你另一個問題,
我只想像過去一樣,安靜的愛著你,
跟你開心的談天說地,把酒言歡。
你明白嗎?

對不起,聽到你嚎哭,我沒有好好地安慰著你。
我只懂口吃的胡說一通。
你知嘛,你的哭聲令我不知所措。
真的,我後悔喝得太多,
對著哭泣的你來不及反應,
<沒有好好地安慰著你。/font>
你明白嗎?

最後,我答應你我會好好地愛著我的伴侶,
我不會使她受到傷害,所有傷悲由我來承擔,
包括我靜靜地愛著你。
快10年了,不是不愛就可以即刻不愛,
就如我跟你說,你已植根在我心深處,
我沒有令它炸銦A只因我愛。
或雪|覺得對不起我的伴,我心深處還有一個你,
但這個是沒法可即刻停止,總需要點時間。
問題不在你,希望你會懂。

"blue rose代表著不可能" - 我完全清楚明白!

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Subject: To : The one I have been missing since 20020301


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The one you have been missing since last year I think
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Date Posted: 17:30:38 03/28/04 Sun

How are you ?? Wish you a very happy b day.
Take care .

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Subject: 給台灣同胞們!


Author:
政治無奈樂大少
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Date Posted: 13:06:27 03/24/04 Wed

請大家冷靜,雙方冷靜!!!
本是同根生,無謂相煎太急!

大家清楚政治就是這樣黑暗、骯髒。
既然大家玩這個遊戲,就已知規則。
輸贏也得接受,馬上重整陣營方為上策。
成熟點不是小朋友不忿輸,
讓整個社會先得和諧,才作申訴,
依法為本,再作跟進,才得民心。

人民大眾不要作政治工具,
既然你是選民,應作一個有智慧的選民,
你們已作選擇,也甘心接受選舉結果,
記著全世界的人看著你們,
你們所作的,也要承擔,
政局不穩,社會不安,
損失的,承受的也是人民大眾,
希望你們早日放下,
恢復台灣昔日模樣,
繼續走你們尋找的民主路。

願主保守你們 - 台灣同胞!

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Subject: 證道歌


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 08:06:53 03/29/04 Mon

不見一法即如來,方得名為觀自在。

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Subject: 我與前女友的故事


Author:
win
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Date Posted: 21:54:54 03/24/04 Wed

http://www.lovewin.net/

去年,認識了她,很快的戀上她,但最後,她只成為我的過去。

有時間不妨瀏覽...thanks

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Subject: Re....女女的情慾空間


Author:
haha
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Date Posted: 09:23:44 03/26/04 Fri

I will keep both
and
I will f**k the hell out of them every nite

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Subject: two years


Author:
remain someone
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Date Posted: 18:15:44 03/13/04 Sat

When I remind of you
Remember fondly three miscellaneous wear the grief and sweet
Is a sweet and sad battlefield in my brain
sometimes was sweet to win
I would be silly smile
sometimes felt sad to win
I will tears
We separate how long
I don’t know
RecentlyI have been calculating
It is three years to has been thinking
I am surprised and strong
Can present to mind three years to you
The each night is continuous everyday of think of
Afterwards calculation that reply repeatedly Just know originally we just separate two years
Two years I still have no way to forget you
There is no way forgetting how I hurt you
Also return to have no way to forgive myself
Two years
I across the night
Across the ocean
Across the layer after layer mountain
Think to be in sea that part of you
Miss your life
Miss your love
Miss whether you also remind of me or not
Two years

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Subject: 無不能無,有不能有


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 10:00:08 03/26/04 Fri

無不能無,有不能有,行住坐臥,心不動搖,一切時中,空而無所得。
荷澤神會

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Subject: 無不能無,有不能有


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almond
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Date Posted: 09:46:42 03/26/04 Fri

無不能無,有不能有,行住坐臥,心不動搖,一切時中,空而無所得。
荷澤神會

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Subject: 聽不見


Author:
路人丁
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Date Posted: 02:53:56 03/25/04 Thu

雨滴掉落在掌心 我的眼 離開了眼睛
是時空的距離 讓我們無法相遇
如今我遇見了你 卻已經無緣再相續
是緣份的問題 讓我們錯過了相聚
相知是緣定 似乎變成了一個迷
黑夜裡 片刻的美麗 是瞬間的流星
它劃過天際 而不留下任何的足跡
滿溢的輕柔月光 像我給你的永遠的愛情
可是你卻聽不見我的聲音 我也無法收到你的真情
我是真的動了心 動了情
你是否聽見了我的聲音

愛情裡你的純真 並沒有留下今生的永恆
搖曳的孤單身影 是你給我的深深的烙印
可是我卻握不住你的掌心 你也聽不見我的聲音
我是真的動了心 動了情
你是否聽見了我的聲音

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almond
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Date Posted: 09:58:27 03/24/04 Wed

夫求法者,應無所求。心外求別佛,佛外無別心。不取善,不捨惡,淨穢兩邊,俱不依怙。達罪性空,念念不可得,無自性故。三界唯心,森羅萬象,一法之所印。

馬祖道一禪師

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Subject: 又係傳道時間!


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不是聖人樂大少
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Date Posted: 00:11:31 03/24/04 Wed

友人給電郵我,關於神的見證。
以我歸主的主題曲一樣,
"Time is NOW!"
你信靠主未?時辰到,齊信主。

未是時候冇緊要,不打緊!
看此見證也可領略到,
放下的道理,見證總有得著。
願各位早日歸主,齊享大喜樂!

文﹕陳松伶

被訪者﹕郭可盈
(基督改變了她)

三月的天氣﹐過了立春後的濕寒霧雨﹐空氣溫暖帶著清爽﹔郭可盈(可盈)不斷提醒我﹐
她的外表會把人騙倒的﹐從另外一個角度去理解她的話﹐就知道她是極度渴望有一個力
量能夠把她的內外回復一致﹐讓她可以對「愛」有更深層次的體會。
三月的新娘﹐洗走了9年來的倔強自我﹐為愛他的人換上新裝﹐今天的可盈一臉安份﹐
思 路比空氣還要清爽。

正文﹕

我很珍惜這次可盈摯誠的告白---因為我的形象實在太好了﹐誰會知道我脾氣會很大﹐
情緒又不穩定﹐EQ又不高﹐是一個大女人。雖然已經擁有了可能一般人一世也不會擁有
的東西﹐但是仍然不快樂。很多朋友﹐甚至與我深交的﹐他們也覺得我很幸福﹐很美
滿﹐簡直是一個快樂人辦﹐為何郭可盈妳仍是如此不快樂呢﹖我想改﹐而文龍(林文龍)
在我身邊九年了﹐也改變不了我。反問自己﹐發覺我的不快樂是自己給自己的﹐與任何
人無關。很多時想完這又想那﹐得到的一切﹐不但不懂珍惜﹐還想再得到其他的。我是
一個永無止境﹐永不知足的人﹐正正就是欠缺了基督徒口中的「平安」。

曾經是獎項奴隸
以前我想得到獎項﹐想到癲﹗因為我覺得獎項是一個肯定﹐但現在有太多商業的因素﹐
太多其他東西左右﹐所以不是說做得好就可以。現在﹐我會在乎自己出來的表現多於獎
項。有一次﹐我聽到一個年輕女演員說的一句話﹐令我欣賞到不得了﹐人家問她對獎項
的看法﹐她答說﹕「現在沒所謂了﹐得不到獎﹐就當是家裡少了一個糧]吧﹗」
看看自己﹐曾經拿過的獎座都排列在家裡﹐多一個不顯得多﹐少一個又不顯少﹐那為何
為了一個糧]而不開心呢﹖覺得真的要放輕鬆一點﹐不過是身外物而已﹐真正心靈上的
富足我不是已經有了嗎﹖﹗

男友體恤和付出
文龍不斷付出和遷就我﹐在這九年﹐給我空間﹐讓我很舒服。在我們初認識的一兩年﹐
文龍已經想我不要工作﹐結婚去也。但我是事業型﹐對自己的工作很有興趣﹐這一行業
又多姿多彩﹐根本就放不下﹐要結婚﹖根本是沒有商量的餘地。我還會想著怎樣再創高
峰或更上一層樓﹐得到了一樣好﹐又想得到一樣再好的﹔無止境的下去﹐給了自己很大
壓力﹐就是因為永遠不滿足。

到長大了後﹐才發覺到以前任何事都是先為自己著想﹐要靜下來﹐才會想起另一半的感
受。現在我知道不應該要一個人如此長期的付出和遷就﹐所以我很想改變自己的種種不
是﹐雖然知易行難。到了去年十一月﹐他再提出結婚的事﹐我覺得不應該再讓一個對自
己那麼好的人等了一年又一年﹐覺得應該是時候結婚。年紀適合﹐感情適合﹐再沒有任
何值口去推搪。

找到更大力量
一直以來文龍很想多多問題的我先被上主「搞掂」﹐結果﹐在今年2月17日的一個聚會
中﹐我們誠意的祈禱和交托﹐雖然是大庭廣眾﹐我們兩個都感動到哭了出來﹐可能? o正
是主的召喚時刻。很開心我們兩個可以同步的走。我知道我控制不到自己的心和理想﹐
但當你的心有了真正的平安﹐懂得享受自己所擁有的一切時﹐其實你已學到「知足」。
我不是突然間變了一個聖人﹐我只是放下了﹐放下以前的「緊」。

事業感情共存
當然現在的心態並不代表我是停下來﹐我仍然會很努力﹐只是不再給自己壓力﹐要輕輕
鬆鬆的去工作。因為我太了解自己野心是那麼大---事業壞﹐就會不忿氣﹐會要求多兩
年﹔事業好﹐又會不捨得﹐又會要求多兩年﹐如此下去﹐將會是無止境的兩年又兩年。
我覺得應該取個平衡﹐事業與感情是可以同時間發展的,只在乎你的心如何去處理。

後記﹕
明白「知易行難」的人﹐不多不少曾經自責過、自省過。即使如此﹐站在這個缺口﹐也
容易走上兩個極端﹐一極是知道了卻又做不到﹐顯出你﹐有心無力﹔一極是知道了後無
論多難也拚死去做﹐顯出你﹐天下無敵。可盈是後者。她的缺點是野心大﹐她的優點也
是野心大。當她的野心放對了位置後﹐把自己的缺點當作事業去經營、去改善﹐她想要
的「平安」便不會是霎時衝動的泡沫﹐那「感動她的力量」將會令她﹐一生一世福杯滿
溢。我對她有信心﹐? ]為我們同走一條荊棘路。

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Subject: 火柴人


Author:
小鴿子
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Date Posted: 02:01:50 09/15/03 Mon

在黑暗年代有一個巫師的徒弟,因為無聊玩火焚燬了巫師的堡壘
巫師為了懲罰他,將他變做火柴人,由五支巨大的火柴構造成他的頭和四肢
但悲劇在於他仍可以擁有思想和感情

過了大約一百年,火柴人遇上美麗的公主,公主途經森林時
遇到大風雪而迷失了路,幸得火柴人把她救援,帶她到山洞避雪

火柴人對公主一見鍾情,但公主並不喜歡他
火柴人為了得公主的歡心,知道她感到寒冷
甘心燃點那對火柴造的腿來供應溫暖
腿被燒燬了,但公主還未等到士兵來拯救自己
她決定利用火柴人的雙手再一次取得溫暖
對火柴人說出綿綿情話,希望他能為愛情犧牲多一趟,焚燒他雙手

公主奸計得逞,現在火柴人只剩下頭和身

不過,外表美麗內裡自私的公主
卻未受感化,仍然想繼續得到溫暖
她要求火柴人獻出剩餘的一枝火柴
亦即是他的頭和身,火柴人知道這樣做會同時是把生命終結
仍然願意為公主做一切的事,只要公主感到快樂

“擦”一聲,火柴人把頭燒著了,他對公主說那段最後的對話︰
『既然命運把我變成火柴人,我願意為愛情轟轟烈烈的自焚,直至死亡,總好比再悶活多一百年有意思,雖然,我知你在利用我對你的愛,但我甘心給妳利用。』

最後公主真的被感動
因為公主身邊沒有水源,她想用略翿牬隊鶖膉H身上的猛火
但她一向鐵心得連眼略]不流,已經忘記了怎樣哭
到第一滴眼痊y出來時,火柴人已經變成一堆黑炭,太遲了
而巫師永遠譏笑火柴人的衝動

原來,火柴人身上的咒語只有效一個世紀
如果,他可多等一天就可以變回真人
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有時會想如果我們能預知將來,不知我們還會否仍然願意“犧牲”呢
有時值得和不值得,可能只是一線之差
試問有誰可以有絕對的答案呢
如果你是“火柴人”,你會怎樣做呢?一樣吧
不過要看是為了愛情、還是不想活,意義不同

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Subject: 一去不返


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almond
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Date Posted: 09:20:59 03/21/04 Sun

最近在電視收看了David Bowie的Reality Tour,是新唱片的主題音樂會,有點意外的發現今時今日的David Bowie,變「大隻」了外,竟然是穿著T-Shirt,牛仔褲在唱歌,很平實,若不知底蘊的人,還以為是一個很普通的美國歌手。看了整個音樂會,都是新碟中的作品,無甚驚喜,而且覺得今天David Bowie的作品,竟然是這樣平實的東西,他現在的心境是怎樣的,他到底在想什麼?老實說,對我來說有點彷如隔世的感覺。

在我心中的David Bowie,有點半人半神的感覺(或者應該說半人半妖),他永遠是走在最前的,六七十年的New Wave音樂中,他肯定是骨幹人物,那個年代的作品,有點驚為天人,石破天驚,樂迷永遠都會記得這就是David Bowie,到了八十年代的Let's Dance是他商業上最成左漣@品,這一個時代好像又是他的,連美國人都認識David Bowie,以前玩Glem Rock時妖妖氣氣的他又變了很紳士的,無論如何,作品充滿節奏感,普羅大眾和他原本的樂迷都愛聽,這是成央C

在電影「merry X'mas Mr.lawrence」中,最是流露了他的文人氣質,很瘦弱很文質彬彬的他,但就拍了大島渚一部很爭議性的電影(大島渚至今最為人討論的,相信是公映時被禁的《感觀世界》)。在「Hunger」中的角色,我覺得更為接近真實的他,撲朔迷離,詭異得有點不像人。為電影「Cat People」唱主題曲,是Giorgio Moroder的作品,結果又合力創作了一件詭異神秘的大師級作品。看了目下的David Bowie,我覺得那個前衛得不像生活在現實世界中的David Bowie,已經一去不返。我想因為連自己的心都無常,每個人曾經的那一個「自己」都會一去不返,以前那個聽地下音樂,看怪雞電影,讀了很多三島由紀夫小說,文章總是寫得那麼悲凄,很沉鬱的我,又有誰想到今天會沉迷鑽研中醫、佛學?笑起來還有人說有點像小熊維尼般憨實。

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Subject: ~ 天各一方 ~


Author:
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Date Posted: 10:26:05 03/20/04 Sat

作曲:Herb Alpert 填詞:弭 / 小菲
主唱:曾路得 獨白:弭

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白:今日你同我天各一方
你有你o既生活
我繼續我o既忙碌
但假如有一日
我o地真係o係路上偶然咁撞到
我o地會點下頭,問候一下
然後已經唔知講咩好
因為你會發現我已經改變
正如我可能唔再認識你
但係咁其實又有咩關係
我袛係知道係呢一剎那
我係想念你

唱:誰令我能情深一片
令我輕柔如水清澈
令我心靈回復恬靜
令我拋棄內心牽掛
重拾往年純潔美夢
讓我心靈重得安慰
讓我安躺月下

白:其實乜o野先至係真實而恆久o既呢
或者我應該就咁保存住呢一份渴望希冀
俾我相信世上有一幸福垂手可得
又永遠係掌握之外
有時激情捉o係手裡面會化為灰燼
反而藏係心底可以歷久常新
貪求思慕只因痴
一切眼疵靘迣ㄚY徒然

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Subject: 有無想去考警察


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小米
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Date Posted: 15:17:13 01/07/03 Tue

喂~~有無想去考警察
我諗住半個月後去考~~
但係想搵人陪
有無人都想考女警

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Subject: Eunice, 我好鐘意席慕蓉這首詩, 就拿出來同你分享啦!


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Date Posted: 11:54:57 07/09/03 Wed

抉擇

假如我來世上一遭
只為與你相聚一次
只為了億萬年裡的那一殺那
一殺那裡所有的甜蜜和悲淒
那麼 就讓一切該發生的都在瞬間出現
讓我俯首感謝所有星球的相助
讓我與你相遇 讓我與你別離
完成了上帝所作的一首詩
然後再綬綬地老去

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Subject: 去玩啦!


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Date Posted: 13:16:33 03/16/04 Tue

轉載:測驗你的同性戀指數

http://ms1.ttgsh.ttct.edu.tw/~angie1120/angiephp/ppppppp.htm

做完講番幾多percent呀~

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Subject: ~ 最動人的承諾 ~ 另一篇文章


Author:
小鴿子
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Date Posted: 02:28:36 07/25/03 Fri

有一位老婆婆 個子唔高 , 但係好肥 , 行路既時侯需要拐杖支持。
每隔兩個月老公公都會陪老婆婆到醫院覆診,
因為老婆婆患有高血壓。
某夜 , 老婆婆左邊身麻痺入院 ,
經過電腦掃描顯示右腦出血。

我如實話比老公公知 , 妗L出聲 , 只係無奈咁望住我 ,
略穭w經湧現。

第二朝, 意料之外 , 老婆婆既情況唔係想像中咁壞 ,
而且頭腦清醒。
入院之後既第五日 , 老婆婆問我 :
呢兩日伯爺公點解無黎探我既 ?

一個實習護士話比我聽 , 早兩日老公公突然心肌梗塞 ,
住左響對面既男病房。兩老無兒無女, 最親既都只係姪仔。
今日, 姪仔帶左兩樽果汁黎醫院 , 先去探老公公 ,
再去探老婆婆。

過左幾日 , 老公公既病情剛剛穩定 ,
就嚷住要出院照顧老婆婆,
經過一番溝通之後 , 主治醫生諗左一個折衷辦法 :
首先老公公換番自己既衫 , 坐住輪椅 ,
由工友推到女病房門口 ,
而為左安全起見
… 醫生護士都要跟埋老公公一齊 …

老公公蹣隋a企起身 , 手執果汁 , 走到老婆婆床邊 :
買比妳飲嫁。

老婆婆嗲起黎 : 呢幾日唔見你既伯爺公 , 咩事呀 ? 病左咩?

老公公微笑 : 唔係呀伯爺婆 ... 姪孫結婚啦 ,
我要幫吤朝I一下嘛。

呢一個, 係我咁耐以來聽過最動人最感動既一個謊話。

人生就好似變幻莫測既天氣 , 雖然可以預料 ,
但往往都出人意表 ...

老公公既心臟日復日咁康復 , 準備出院那天 , 病情突然惡化 ,
撒手塵寰。

姪仔辦理完死亡證明之後就黎搵我 ,
要求暫時唔好話比老婆婆知 ,

因為老公公死前遺言 : 照顧伯爺婆, 唔好話坁儒甯J事,
唔想囧剌激。

呢個時候, 無一個在場既人唔感動唔流下眼, 包括我 .....

當日我巡房既時侯老婆婆又問 : 伯爺公D果汁喝晒啦 ,
點解吨S不見人?

護士強忍眼 : 妳唔記得左咩? 姪孫過兩日結婚啦 !
老公公要幫手嘛。

第二朝清早 , 我發覺老婆婆床頭多左樽瓶果汁 ,
聽到護士同老婆婆話 :

老公公剛黎過 , 囧ㄘp訓得咁甜 , 唔捨得叫醒妳,
放低果汁就走左啦。

當護士一轉身發覺我企響度既時候 ,
立刻雙頰通紅。

我微微一笑 , 拍左妡K頭一下, 慶幸坁G顆愛心 ,
不為歲月冷卻。

當日下晝 ,
護士長察覺坐響梳發對住窗望風景既老婆婆無左呼吸 ,

我迅速跑去一手抱起老婆婆 ,
再聯同護士將婆婆放上病床急救 ....

搶救二十分鐘之後 , 我宣布失敗 ...
我一邊寫報告記錄 , 一邊諗起「陪著你走」既一句歌詞 :

如果, 走到這世界邊端 , 我倆已是無力前行 ,
跟我一起飛去.....

護士長走過黎同我講 : 估唔到妳咁大力 ,
一手就可以抱起老婆婆。

我只係報上微笑, 因為我已經唔想講任何野,
我怕我忍唔住眼 ....

老婆婆的確好肥 , 但係好輕 ,
因為坌J靈魂已經跟老公公飛走左啦.....
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"愛" -- 雖然只係一個字 
但係無人亦都無野可以具體咁解釋呢個字 .....
正如糖好甜, 花好香 ... 根本無得解釋,
要用心同親身體會先可以感受。
真正既愛 應該係堆藏響心裡面, 去體會, 去感受, 去領悟..... 
即使天會變 月會圓 花會 人會老 ....

有生之年 
請珍惜你所愛以及愛你既人

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Subject: 預知死亡紀事


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Date Posted: 11:28:10 08/30/03 Sat

預知死亡紀事 名人巧合多
羅馬皇帝被預言命中 馬克吐溫隨哈雷彗星走 傑佛遜等到七月四日才肯離世

2003.08.29


【人間社記者晨熙綜合報導】歷史名人的誕生,在傳記中常有異象記載,少為人知的是,名人的死亡日期,也常有巧合,令人嘖嘖稱奇。


羅馬皇帝杜米仙(Domitian),被預言將在西元九十六年九月十八日上午五時遭人刺殺。當晚他召集釵h侍衛加強保護,又嚇得從床上跳了幾回,不久他問幾點了,僕人說是上午六時。他才安心下床洗澡。突然有人通報,管家史泰法納斯有要事在寢室等他,管家先遞上一份陰謀分子的名單,然後突然拔刀將他刺死,時間正好就是西元九十六年九月十八日上午五時,跟預言的一樣,而謊報時間的僕人就是陰謀分子。


美國總統傑佛遜(Thomas Jefferson)八十三歲那年,因腹瀉躺在床上,奄奄一息。當時是一八二六年七月初。他一直要拖到七月四日美國開國五十年紀念日才死。當天,他在病床上問道:「今天是四號吧?」旁人答:「是」,他就很安詳地與世長辭。


另一位也希望能死在一八二六年七月四日的美國總統亞當斯(John Adams),當時他已九十歲。那天,他臨終前還說:「傑佛遜常健……美國獨立萬歲!」其實他的老友傑佛遜已在幾個鐘頭前去世了。


美國幽默作家馬克吐溫(Mark Twain)生於西元一八三五年,與哈雷彗星出現同年。他說:「我是隨這顆彗星來到世間,我也將隨它而去。」當哈雷彗星第二度出現在一九一○年,同年他也去世。


美國歌劇家羅納華倫(Leonard Warren)於一九六○年的某一天,正在大都會劇院演唱威爾第的歌劇,當他唱到「啊致命的……」這一段曲子時,身子突然向前倒,死於心臟病。

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Subject: ~ 天各一方 ~


Author:
路人丁
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Date Posted: 10:06:29 03/20/04 Sat

作曲:Herb Alpert 填詞:弭 / 小菲
主唱:曾路得 獨白:弭

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白:今日你同我天各一方
你有你o既生活
我繼續我o既忙碌
但假如有一日
我o地真係o係路上偶然咁撞到
我o地會點下頭,問候一下
然後已經唔知講咩好
因為你會發現我已經改變
正如我可能唔再認識你
但係咁其實又有咩關係
我袛係知道係呢一剎那
我係想念你

唱:誰令我能情深一片
令我輕柔如水清澈
令我心靈回復恬靜
令我拋棄內心牽掛
重拾往年純潔美夢
讓我心靈重得安慰
讓我安躺月下

白:其實乜o野先至係真實而恆久o既呢
或者我應該就咁保存住呢一份渴望希冀
俾我相信世上有一幸福垂手可得
又永遠係掌握之外
有時激情捉o係手裡面會化為灰燼
反而藏係心底可以歷久常新
貪求思慕只因痴
一切眼疵靘迣ㄚY徒然

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Subject: 無所得


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 09:11:48 03/19/04 Fri

無不能無,有不能有,行住坐臥,心不動搖,一切時中,空而無所得。

荷澤神會

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Subject: 銘綴'S WORLD


Author:
BE MYSELF
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Date Posted: 03:31:14 03/19/04 Fri

誰奻, 剆@錨. 侒岆侐r賸. 勛綎秖珗, 軗婓珗圉腔繚奻, 竭杻e腔覜紒.稛華源, 侀樊矞聿. 砉岆掩埱蹅呥u侔腔. T賸珗莮r嫖, 婌奻,岆桾珂裊. 酖毞腔, 侒傖綎瓦け. 菩Ю祴, 篸打珒眚桅g, 坴婓r嶲腔諾炩緻扂冞n. 偌扂坴, 坴砉珨嘆漺.. 竭嗣躓赽, 朴齡閨倜埮.焆嗣猁⑴. 珩猁艘醱伎, 稛侒綎嗣賸,砑穚敷藍. 婓竭駟坴腔r嶲, 坴憩岆銘綴. ]衄, 坴珩酕祥傖銘綴賸. 硐疑梑狟珨贖符. 珨汜笢, 諫隅躓佫檔, 扂珩祥睿銘綴婓珨れ, 扂ぶ咡腔, 岆厘縳靽,郬笭睿闚腔圈H, 祥岆扂腔master.

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Subject: ^o^


Author:
bc
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Date Posted: 16:28:14 08/27/03 Wed

Hi, dear all
I am so glad to see views flourish everywhere..by people of our own...

Shouldn't we adopt the spirit of Rainbow in
getting what we want?
Yes, i suppose so.

Shouldn't we stop being subjective critcizing (in aiming at persons/organizations) rather than being objective in reasoning and expression?
I suppose being objective is more fair & just.


Pls keep the ball rolling on the Gay Movement .And
Don't let it be stopped!!

"...唔好... 唔好...停.... Ah ..唔好...唔好停....." ^O^

Wa.....

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Subject: 女女間的情與慾(二)


Author:
慧琛
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Date Posted: 00:12:03 02/08/03 Sat

題目﹕女女間是不是比男女間更快/容易有性關係呢﹖

首先﹐曾聽聞女女間也有一夜情(不管那人是機於什麼原因﹐這個在這堣ㄓ茩垠n)。我不禁想問﹕女孩子真的可以做到﹐一覺醒來後﹐昨晚的事可以當沒有發生過嗎﹖

其次﹐兩個女孩子走在一起﹐無論怎樣搞﹐都不會搞出人命(若你有另類嗜好則例外)﹐相比男女關係﹐真的真的超爽﹐毫無顧慮﹐放心盡玩﹐盡情投入﹐不用吃避孕藥﹐不用到藥房花錢去買驗孕物品﹐不用個個月心慌慌﹐當然﹐我是假設兩個人都是潔身自愛、只有對方一個性伴侶而言。

第三﹐雖然在這個社會堙M女孩子一向都被教導成要對性採取被動的態度﹐家長、老師們都教導你﹕女孩子不要隨便跟男孩子有性關係等等之類的指導﹐但從來無人跟你說﹕你不要隨便和另一個女孩子上床(當然﹐可能在他們心中女女間不會有性﹐這是另一個話題)。呵呵﹗沒有說過不批准即是默陸捸T放且﹐不知有多少男女已偷嘗禁果﹐而到出事時才被發現﹐甚至不被發現﹐自己找人解決了就算。

第四﹐這個社會一向灌輸的價值觀都是﹕一男一女發生性關係後﹐女方會被視作“蝕本”。但這個邏輯跟本不可能套用在女女關係上。

跟據以上各點看來﹐女女間的性事可以粗淺地說是沒有太多顧忌或思想上的掙扎﹐所以﹐女女間是有可能比男女間更快/容易有性關係﹐實在不足為奇。

那丑M你們又有什麼感覺呢﹖

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Subject: 222


Author:
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Date Posted: 14:40:09 03/18/04 Thu


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Subject: 志向


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 09:24:02 03/17/04 Wed

善用力氣的人,不急不徐;善守理想的人,不猛不弛;一志向前、堅定不移,終可達到目標。

慈濟靜思語

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Subject: 珍惜


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 13:27:49 12/29/03 Mon

有一次胡適遇上了心理學大師容格(接近佛洛依德的級數的一位當代心理學大師),對易經相當感興趣的容格,難得遇到一個中國知識份子,就把握機會向胡適請教對易經的看法。怎料胡適說易經不過是本占卜書,若花時間了解易經,不如去了解飛機和汽車怎樣做更有意思。

原來發明飛機的萊特兄弟中的弟弟,當時曾專程去找容格討論發明飛機的事,而事實上現代電腦的0101結構就符合了易經陰陽陰陽的排列,歷史上,易經曾啟發了很多偉大的科學家,故怎可以輕視易經不過是本占卜書呢?作為白話文革新者的胡適更聲稱佛教的重要經典《楞嚴經》是假的,我看見這些知識份子,都覺得很可惜,不珍惜,不去探索中國文化本有的精華,反而盲目踐踏自己的文化寶藏,多麼可惜,這不是無知的錯嗎?

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Subject: 祈願版


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願望
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Date Posted: 10:49:27 03/16/04 Tue

請問qs負責人祈願版何時會整理妥當, 我有很多心願要祈求啊呀!

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Subject: 我...好久沒來啦


Author:
tom 仔
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Date Posted: 01:38:39 03/15/04 Mon

唔知點呢,好多新人呀.

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Subject: 香港Les蒲點


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Scor
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Date Posted: 19:51:04 03/15/04 Mon

第一次來的,我是一個Pure偏T
想落bar見識一下,
請問香港的Les有什麼常去的蒲點?

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Subject: I am sorry, bobo hoho


Author:
choichoichi
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Date Posted: 19:18:28 03/15/04 Mon

唔知點解,好像又惹你生氣...

在此公開向你道歉,

希望你原諒笨笨的我

能和你在OS一起生活是我的福氣

沒有不吵架的情人

也沒有完美的情人

希望你原諒這個崩了邊的我

Sorry...

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Subject: 4月份「XX小聚」將暫停一次,改為南丫島遠足活動


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姊妹同志
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Date Posted: 22:40:30 03/14/04 Sun

日期:2004年4月25日(星期日)

集合時間:上午11:00

集合地點:香港中環港外里X頭,南丫島索罟灣 (逾時不候)

費用:全免 ,交通及午嬰蛚O

遠足路芋G中環 → 索罟灣 → 榕樹灣 → 中環

約25分鐘船程後,由索罟灣步行至洪聖爺海灘稍作休息,再步行至榕樹灣,步行時間約1小時,自由活動於榕樹灣,午孺騢_樹灣各大曙U或酒家,豐儉隨意。可選擇在榕樹灣或中環碼頭解散。

此次外活動或因應天氣情況而有所改變,詳情請留意網上公佈或致電傳呼機71128445 #1613查詢。

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Subject: 3月份「XX小聚」


Author:
QS
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Date Posted: 15:37:22 03/14/04 Sun

日期:2004年3月27日(星期六)

時間:下午5:30至晚上7:00

地點:香港銅鑼灣駱克道474號合宜大廈1樓,色Kaffa。(紐約戲院對面,前H2O<水記>樓下,銅鑼灣地鐵站C出口。)

入場費:每位40元 (包括Drink List內飲品一杯及活動物資)

主題:拍拖苦與樂

齊來分享同志拍拖好節目、好去處心得、拍拖顧慮或鉔氻軉q。

餘慶節目:
活動後可以自由參加晚飯 或 自行組隊到附近消遣場所盡興。

備註:場內禁煙,請吸煙者到KAFFA外之樓梯位置。

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Subject: to juju


Author:
juju
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Date Posted: 00:43:45 03/14/04 Sun

jujuju...a happy day..there must be time to enjoy next time the nite sence together with you..the scattered lights looked as if stars far away in transqulity.. its not common wasn't it..^^as uncommon as if those stars you have said..o..wasnit it romantic?Kidding u.

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Subject: Honeychu,與妳相戀的551天即1年零186日裡......的今天......


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Love h 文樂
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Date Posted: 11:48:49 03/04/04 Thu

甲申年二月十四日

能與妳相識、相知、相愛、相親,
多得幸運之神綣顧。
最多得是妳給我機會享受大家和諧,
令我有如幸運兒般喜悅。

相識的551天1年零186日,
別人比起來算是很短的日子,
對我來說,不想浪費時間,
因為我知道我找到了 – 就是妳!

借用古今文人雅士名言:

《 西 廂記 》一 紙 紅 葉 箋:
「 惟 愿 夜 夜 共 枕 籍, 於 愿 足 矣 ! 」

畢 加 索 :「 愛 你 比 昨 天 多 一 些 ,卻 又 及 不 上 明 天 。 」

元 代書 畫 家 趙 孟 俯 的 管 夫 人 一 首 閨 閣 詩 :
你 儂 我 儂 , 煞 情 多 , 情 多 處 , 熱 如 火 !
把 一 塊 泥 , 捻 一 個 你 , 塑 一 個 我 ﹔
把 咱 倆 個 , 一 起 打 破 , 用 水 調 合 ﹔
再 捻 一 個 你 , 再 塑 一 個 我 。
我 泥 中 有 你 , 你 泥 中 有 我 。

親愛的,我向妳求婚!

親愛的,求妳與我一起吧!
與妳長相思,夜共枕,
我心有妳,妳心有我。

我願意!I do! 04 March , 2004.

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Subject: Happy Birthday to Yee Yee~


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ronin
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Date Posted: 15:05:05 03/11/04 Thu



Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to yee yee.
Happy Birthday to you.

Welcome to adulthood!
Wish you have a fantastic time and
May all your dreams come true.


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Subject: 孫思邈


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almond
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Date Posted: 07:05:53 03/12/04 Fri

先發大慈惻隱之心,誓願普救含靈之苦。若有疾厄來求救者,不得問其貴賤貧富,長幼妍蚩,怨親善友,華夷愚智,普同一等,皆如至親之想,亦不得瞻前顧後,自慮吉凶,護惜身命。

唐代大醫孫思邈

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Subject: ju


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juju
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Date Posted: 01:08:24 03/12/04 Fri

ju
heeeeheeeeee

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Subject: Fight for legal marriage in USA!


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Pat
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Date Posted: 12:38:29 03/11/04 Thu

Dear Friend,

Please send a letter to Mary Cheney, the gay daughter of Vice President of United States.

She is not only the daughter of our vice president, now she becomes an "icon" of the milkcarton!

http://www.dearmary.com/mary/milkcarton.html
(click here if you want to donate money to support the milkcarton campaign, I thought milkcarton ad is usually for posting "missing kid", I guess I am wrong )

http://www.dearmary.com/mary/index.html
(click here if you like to submit a letter to mary)

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Subject: 一念


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 12:31:51 10/13/02 Sun

披毛乃一念,成佛乃一念。

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Subject: 心力


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almond
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Date Posted: 08:09:18 03/10/04 Wed

心力如同電力,電流可以殺死一個人,也可以照亮他的家,關鍵在於如何使用它。
K.Sri Dhammananda

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Subject: friend friend


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find friend
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Date Posted: 21:57:52 03/09/04 Tue

would like to know some english speaking les or gay friends in Hong Kong
my icq: 343584009
I am 28 years old
sincere and kind heart

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Subject: 千言萬語


Author:
5.30am
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Date Posted: 04:28:31 03/05/04 Fri

不知道為了什麼
憂愁它圍繞著我
我每天都在祈禱
快趕走愛的寂寞
那天起
你對我說
永遠地愛著我
千言和萬語
隨風雲掠過
不知道為了什麼
憂愁它圍繞著我
我每天都在祈禱
快趕走愛的寂寞

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Subject: 無所遁形


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almond
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Date Posted: 08:36:14 03/08/04 Mon

恐懼是自己造成的,但若然能坦然面對,則恐懼就無所遁形。
K.Sri Dhammananda

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Subject: to: almond, please


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Date Posted: 21:37:50 03/07/04 Sun

不好意思, 最近, 我因健康問題, 想試吃齋一個月, 發覺原來, 出街吃飯, 很不方便. 不是每一個區都有舖頭可吃. 只吃雞蛋, 又不健康. 最慘是, 有點暈, 好辛苦. 請問, 可以怎樣做呢? thanks!

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Subject: 今天, 是一個好特別好特別的日子


Author:
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Date Posted: 19:09:42 03/04/04 Thu

今天, 是一個好特別好特別的日子. 我真的好難受. 我個下屬好像fight club 內的瘋子一樣, 在我的衰上司面前, 做了一套好戲. 十五分鐘前, 我叫個下屬做工作, 她還愛理不理. 十五分鐘後, 她在我個衰上司面前, 哭如略H, 說我逼害她. 罵她
好笑的是, 衰上司不讓我見她, 又不理我, 我百詞莫辯. 當我看到下屬時, 個下屬竟怕得躲到櫃後(當然是在我上司面前啦!如果不是, 就不會說呇n戲啦!), 教我苦笑不已. 唉!

今天, 我立此為約, 要見証: 耶和華一定是公義的神!!!

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Subject: ex-ex-ex???


Author:
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Date Posted: 05:02:23 03/07/04 Sun

I clicked upon old msg for the 1st time. Special feelings caught me , it 's so sarcastic when i saw her saying love me forever. Sadness came when she admitted as my wife. One was for ensuring ex-ex against short ex-ex-ex. (what am i talking abt?) Could this be the source of misunderstanding? hm..More surprisingly, I saw the words from ex-ex saying that i asked her to check msg here. I'm at sea on it. No wonder why she informed me she knew everything and that i should never think she wouldnt check msg. Since the call from ex-ex, she won't believe me anymore. I am always a dummy who do not know how to communicate. It won't be changed any, no one is going to believe me. Upon the path, those are some sweet days and those are troubles left..they are all in a mess.

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Subject: Re: FWD : 好玩的養魚遊戲 ^_^


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Date Posted: 01:10:23 05/10/03 Sat

vvvv

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Subject: 不要


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 08:23:36 03/07/04 Sun

不要讓我汲汲尋求避免危險的保護,
而是無懼地去面對。
不要讓我祈求消弭痛楚,而是有顆征服的心。
不要使我懇求消除憂慮的恐懼,
而是希望有得回自由的耐性。

泰戈爾

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Subject: 願意


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 08:41:26 03/05/04 Fri

我們應該了解,生命中所遭受的一切終有解決之道,沒有永遠受詛咒的災難,除非自己願意讓事情如此發展。

K.Sri Dhammananda

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almond
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Date Posted: 09:39:13 03/04/04 Thu

錢能買什麼?
買得到床舖,卻買不到安眠。
買得到書籍,卻買不到知識。
買得到食物,卻買不到食慾。
買得到衣飾,卻買不到美麗。
買得到房子,卻買不到家庭。
買得到藥物,卻買不到健康。
買得到奢華,卻買不到舒適。
買得到享樂,卻買不到快樂。
買得到宗教,卻買不到濟世的精神。

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Subject: Look for love


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SunnyDays
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Date Posted: 00:27:53 03/04/04 Thu


Lately, i decided to look for someone who would treat me better than dragging on the last love. Love to a stage where u would lower yourselves too much is not something taken for granted. It has to be someone who worths it!
Even getting along with my classmate makes me feel happy and comfortable. So,why still going after a love like this?!! It has brought me depression for days. Never will be! God has led me here.

Please leave your email addr if you are willing to be my friend.
Thank you very much indeed.
(Look for Mature , Polite, Honest & Sincere People,no TB pls)


lawstudent_466@hotmail.com

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Subject: 亞蛋,見字請火速聯絡我,Thanks!


Author:
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Date Posted: 01:35:50 03/03/04 Wed

font color="red" size=+2>亞蛋,見字請火速聯絡我,Thanks!

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Subject: 洗冤


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 14:28:26 03/02/04 Tue

【法醫】《禮記.月令》中有“瞻傷”,“視折”.“審斷”等,是古代法庭檢驗
傷死案件的簡單記載。 五代時的《疑獄集》(公元 951 年),和凝父子
所著,係現存最早的法醫著作。宋代有《內恕錄(著者佚名),《折獄龜
鑑》(鄭克著于公元 1200 年),《棠陰比事》(萬榮著于公元 1213 年
)等著作。南宋時採用《檢驗格目》和《檢驗正背人形圖》,豐富了法醫
學的內容。後來宋慈採取《疑獄集》,《內恕錄》等書的精萃,結合當時
在法醫學上的新經驗,編成《洗冤錄》(公元 1247 年),包括人體解剖
,屍體檢查,現場檢查,鑑定某些機械死傷原因,當時的各種毒物及急救
解毒的方法等, 此書為古代法醫名著,對國外亦有較大影響。

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Subject: 三藩市同志准結婚喇!


Author:
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Date Posted: 02:22:54 02/29/04 Sun

665對情侶人盟海誓 迫爆市政府

儘管被指摘凌駕法律,三藩市市長紐森公開宣布承認同性婚姻,使三藩市成為全美國首個由官方發出同性結婚證書的城市;全美同性戀者絡繹趕到三藩市登記結婚,周四起連日把市政府擠得水洩不通,至今已有近七百對同性情侶登記。由於人數眾多,市政府順應民意,於情人節加班辦理。

三藩市市政廳周四起已有同性戀者從上午5時開始排隊,到9時正開始辦公,已被要在情人節前註冊結婚的同性戀者迫爆。至周五下班,已有665對同性情侶作出山盟海誓,領取結婚證書。

 第一對接受證婚的同性戀者是83歲的黛兒和79歲的菲莉斯,她倆已一起生活長達50年,現在終於拿到結婚證書,兩人笑得合不攏嘴。對釵h同性戀者而言,能得到市政府承認他們的婚姻,意義非凡。

 三藩市市長紐森宣布承認同性婚姻,代表男女同性戀者在法律上有權結婚,並享有一般夫妻的保障。

兩女共同生活50年
 保守派人士強烈反對,指為離經叛道,揚言要透過法律程序,全力阻止三藩市政府再為同性戀者註冊。然而,三藩市法官沃倫周五也站在紐森一邊,拒絕保守派的要求,保證市政府可以繼續在情人節為同性戀者證婚。

 一對男同性戀者午夜從荷里活連續駕車六小時,於早上趕到市政廳。他們盛讚紐森的決定,認為他為全國承認同性婚姻邁出重要的第一步。

 加州州長阿諾舒華辛力加和其他州的官員至今未有評論三藩市的做法。

from成報

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Subject: 姊妹Fun分增 計劃


Author:
姊妹同志
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Date Posted: 15:15:35 02/29/04 Sun

現憑<姊妹Fun分增>咭,惠顧<色Kaffa>,可獲九折優惠。
地址:香港銅鑼灣駱克道474號合宜大廈1樓。(紐約戲院對面,前H2O<水記>樓下,銅鑼灣地鐵站C出口。)

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Subject: Don't know why


Author:
10am
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Date Posted: 09:29:26 02/27/04 Fri

I waited 'til I saw the sun
I don't know why I didn't come
I left you by the house of fun
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come

When I saw the break of day
I wished that I could fly away
Instead of kneeling in the sand
Catching teardrops in my hand

My heart is drenched in wine
But you'll be on my mind
Forever

Out across the endless sea
I would die in ecstasy
But I'll be a bag of bones
Driving down the road along

My heart is drenched in wine
But you'll be on my mind
Forever

Something has to make you run
I don't know why I didn't come
I feel as empty as a drum
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come

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Subject: That's what i composed in response to a lyrics for my dearest last nite


Author:
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Date Posted: 13:13:33 02/28/04 Sat

The sun is there at your front
Don't know why you didn't come
There'll be never any fun
Since you leave the house of fun

When you saw the break of day
I'v been waiting u on my way
Isn't it worth kneeling in the sand
Reach out, i'll be holding your hand

A whole of mine is drenched in wine
Sipping a glass of tears of mine
Never a minute you disappear
From my heart where body is freed

Out across the endless sea
I'll rescue u from ecstasy
I live in you when i'm alone
Say i dont love that's i wont

Forever you'll be on my mind
The stubborn are you and i
You re keen to form & lines
I'm keen on substance
Both stupid as a muffin

Something has made us run
It's the perfectionists' lunch
Fill your empty drum with rum
At front you'll find the blossom

I know why you didn't come
Cos' i'm still the only one

_______________________________
I waited 'til I saw the sun
I don't know why I didn't come
I left you by the house of fun
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come

When I saw the break of day
I wished that I could fly away
Instead of kneeling in the sand
Catching teardrops in my hand

My heart is drenched in wine
But you'll be on my mind
Forever

Out across the endless sea
I would die in ecstasy
But I'll be a bag of bones
Driving down the road along

My heart is drenched in wine
But you'll be on my mind
Forever

Something has to make you run
I don't know why I didn't come
I feel as empty as a drum
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come
I don't know why I didn't come

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Subject: Any Jazz music enthusiasts?


Author:
Char
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Date Posted: 11:16:09 12/14/03 Sun

Looking for people who enjoys listening to jazz music. I've lived in the States for a few years and had became a huge jazz fan eversince. I frequently go to listen live jazz music at the fringe club or restaurants like the blue door. Anyone interested in joining me next saturday to listen to a jazz demonstration by 'Yet another Trio', or the Saturday Night Jazz at the fringe club on the 27th?

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Subject: 想妳


Author:
jacky
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Date Posted: 00:00:12 02/24/04 Tue



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Subject: 十面埋伏


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Date Posted: 10:26:09 02/06/04 Fri

十面埋伏 - S.H.E

Rap 隨身莫忘打狗棒 錦囊帶著絕情丹
凌波微步該閃就閃 Yeh Oh~~
就算得了倚天劍 身懷降龍十八掌
也別硬闖龍門客棧 Yeh Oh~~

不確定他是楊過 最好就別扮演小龍女
免得只等來一場傷心
(不要浪費蝴蠂 不要沉溺谷底)
上網就能變情侶 哪裡還流行神雕俠侶
千萬要小心一片真心 變成了 線上遊戲

俠女們都請注意 愛情江湖多危機
面對敵人要冷靜 Yeh Oh~~
甜言蜜語多動聽 變成暗器就致命
十面埋伏的叢林 不要隨便輕易動凡心

不是貌似張無忌 就是來自武當或少林
也野L早就聲名狼藉
(好多紅顏知己 擁有廣大人氣)
情書進化成簡訊 網內互傳省錢又容易
說一百次我好愛你 用不了 一成奶O

愛要慢慢修煉 太心急 只會讓武孕廢
經過時間的粹煉 參透悟透愛的箴言
才知道你要的 是誰

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Subject: let go...


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cm x mc
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Date Posted: 14:09:43 02/27/04 Fri

芼遣嗊鄳f挲let go腔觳, 褫夔憩岆秪橑繄攬衭飲郣善稛虳嬪_.

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衄co鰓. 蛨虮Ь⑸愻鉠砫罫.

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Subject: 中醫好


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almond
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Date Posted: 12:47:34 02/27/04 Fri

【人痘接種法】是取患者痘漿接種于人,使其產生免疫力以預防天花的方法。我國
古代醫學家發明這種方法已有很久的歷史,到西元十六、七世紀,
人痘接種以預防天花在國內已成為專業。其方法有四種:即痘漿法
、旱苗法、水苗法和痘衣法。前三種都是接種于鼻孔,其痘苗叫做
“鼻苗”,其方法叫做“鼻苗法”。痘衣法旱穿用天花患者患病時
所穿的衣服。人痘接種法的創造被認為是免疫學的先驅。這種技術
在西元十七世紀開始,先後流傳於俄國、韓國、日本、阿拉伯和歐
、非各國。西元 1717 年傳入英國,西元 1796 年英國人發明牛痘
接種法。

-《中醫名詞術語大辭典》

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Subject: 學習不要去設定自己應該是對方最重要的人


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小p
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Date Posted: 11:15:56 02/27/04 Fri

同學交了新女友,卻經常有空。

聽老同學說,他倆感情很要好,彼此心屬,極有婚嫁的契機。

於是,順理成章地認為,他們應該會膠膩在一起,水乳濃郁,哪曉得晚嬪銗L,週末找他,他總是可以。

有一天,老同學找我吃飯,返家的路上,我小心翼翼,怕傷他自尊,很客氣又故做不經心地問了一句:

「你怎麼都這麼有空啊?」原以為這個階段的情侶應該形影不離。

我有些擔心,再問:「女朋友呢?不用陪嗎?」

老同學態度自然,落落大方的回答:「她約人了啊。」

幾乎每個星期都是如此。

他們之間並沒有問題,老同學說,兩人會在週五夜裡開車到海邊看海,靜靜坐在車裡不說一句話,只感溫暖親近,不覺奇怪尷尬;也會在週日到內湖公園溜溜,坐在草地上煮咖啡,器具平時就放在後車廂裡,為每一次他們的遇合,準備著,醞釀著。

興趣一致,工作相近,很有得聊;年紀相仿,觀點大同,鮮少爭執。

但是為什麼不常聚?

「她也很忙啊,常常跟朋友有約,吃飯啊,談事情啊...」

老同學說來清淡,看不出有任何負面情緒。

我沒有接話,等了一會兒,按捺不住一份之於十年老同學的關心,又勇敢試探了一句:「她好像不是很以你為重。」

如此冒昧,只是不希望同學愛的寂寞,愛的孤單。

可是我的老同學,說了一句令我既驚喜又感動的話。

「或陶o才是我們該學習的,學習不要去設定自己應該是對方最重要的人,學習不是非要霸佔對方大多數的時間,才是愛情。」

我聽了有些傻眼,轉頭看看我的老同學,用極為誠懇與欣賞的語氣說道:「你長大了耶!」

老同學敲了我一記,卻不住輕笑了起來。

其實,在男女互動上,老同學向來比我貼心,也比我成熟。

這些年,經過數次感情動盪,他更成長了,而且長得很好。

從前,他的綽號叫做「小乖」,前任女朋友取的。

總是女朋友的忠心跟隨者,不只人家需要他,他也需要這等被依賴的受用,雖然惹得同儕訕笑戲謔,他似乎不以為意。

一週七天,一年三百六十五天,十年三千六百五十天,很難找得到他。

陶醉於被需要的成就感裡,他,是女朋友的最重要依靠。

是一種甜蜜的負擔。

我不敢說好不好,也不敢評斷對不對,只是覺得如斯膠著,透露著某種程度「不健康」的訊息,不過,時間久了,他一往如昔被需要與被重視,情人間的關係沒有惡化,我們也不與置喙,遂習慣了這樣的模式,也加注了祝福。

長久如此,他怎能接受現今女友的「淡漠態度」與「獨立自主」?

這麼多空檔,這麼多自由,怎麼面對與習慣?

老同學今天竟然欣然而平和地告訴我:

「或陶o才是我們該學習的,學習自己不是,也不該是人家的第一名。」

曾經強烈地被需求,甚至沒了自己,而今岔然遇到主張自我與平等的女友,該如何轉換這般急煞的角度?

人是習性的動物,不容易的。

人也是虛榮的愛情俘虜,更加困難。

然而老同學不但轉過來了,而且轉的漂亮!

雙方互有自我,別離時長憶,有之於親人的信任與泰然;相聚時珍惜,更有之於愛人的甜蜜與悅喜。

現在,他不專職司機,也不負責購物搬運,不過,仍然會貼心地、主動地為女友打點生活瑣碎。

與以前相較,做的事沒有差太多,全然不同的是,感覺與感受。

彼此是彼此放在心上的重要人物,但都不是第一名。

何苦要第一名?

釵h人與事根本沒得比,不需要排擠啊,強爭頭的結果,往往是要求一名,也沒人該是這份永恆。

揮手道再見,老同學揚手起伏,自在大方,在空中落成一個美麗的弧度,似乎顯映了他的心,也是這般快活得意。

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Subject: 靠自己


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almond
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Date Posted: 12:43:35 02/26/04 Thu

靠自己的力量去改變因果業力是一件可行之事。
K.Sri Dhammananda

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Subject: YOU LIGHT UP MY LIFE


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3am
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Date Posted: 02:12:07 02/27/04 Fri

So many nights I sit by my window
Waiting for someone to sing me his song
So many dreams I kept deep inside me
Alone in the dark but now
You've come along

You light up my life
You give me hope
To carry on
You light up my days
and fill my nights with song

Rollin' at sea, adrift on the water
Could it be finally I'm turning for home?
Finally, a chance to say hey,
I love You
Never again to be all alone

You light up my life
You give me hope
To carry on
You light up my days
and fill my nights with song

You light up my life
You give me hope
To carry on
You light up my days
and fill my nights with song

It can't be wrong
When it feels so right
'Cause You
You light up my life

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Subject: Discrimination


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B Look
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Date Posted: 16:35:02 02/26/04 Thu

我是一個student, 老師上課說, 那個同性戀者被這樣判刑, "抵呇". 另一老師talk about immoral conduct, 在Blackboard 大隻字write : "Lewd " , 問我知否點解 , 有否電子dictionary? Please look up now.. etc 老師岐視!!

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Actually, we can do nothing in 岐視-discrimination. Whether upon employment as mentioned down here, or studies. The one knows the impact may not only be you.

There's no protection by law. The Equal Opportunity Commission has not function well on this area.

There is not any cases of sucessful claim upon discrimination on sexual orientation.

But , of course, you can risk your job/studies by making useless attempt to report.

And let them do the investigation.

But be sure u are ready to quit form it before u do that.

The law(discriminstion) on unequal opportunity lies only on
gender/ household position/ age/ ..race..

You must prove your case if the treatment to u have been so inferior than that toward others(opposite gender...)

It has nothing to do with us the gay group-- sexual orientation.

Who can protect us?

Some say there is no discrimination, they are just not B Look and not suffering from it. Cant simply step into your shoes to think / feel it.

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Subject: 2月份「XX小聚」


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QS
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Date Posted: 21:35:51 02/26/04 Thu

日期:2004年2月28日(星期六)

時間:下午5:30至晚上7:00

地點:香港銅鑼灣駱克道474號合宜大廈1樓,色Kaffa。(紐約戲院對面,前H2O<水記>樓下,銅鑼灣地鐵站C出口。)

入場費:每位40元 (包括Drink List內飲品一杯及活動物資)

主題:童年時 之 偶像篇

齊來分享由過往至現在所喜愛之偶像,
對大家成長路上的影嚮,瘋狂行為可有相像。

餘慶節目:
活動後可以自由參加晚飯 或 自行組隊到附近消遣場所盡興。

備註:場內禁煙,請吸煙者到KAFFA外之樓梯位置。

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Subject: 禽流感


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almond
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Date Posted: 09:39:15 01/29/04 Thu

禽流感迅速擴散,不單死人,也死了成千上萬的雞,請以你的方式,或祈禱或念經去幫這個世界,幫眾生。禽鳥遇上這樣的「大屠殺」,含怨而死,若將來牠們投生為人,相信也會是一個充滿了仇恨和怨氣的人,若我們的世界越來越多這樣的人,後果會怎樣,實在可想而知。況且這樣的「大屠殺」何其慘烈,請發悲心,幫這些眾生,助這些眾生安息,或往生善處。

有一句佛偈云:「欲知世上刀兵劫,但聽屠門夜半聲。」苦因苦果,何必再不斷的惡性循環

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Subject: 喂喂 ,大少,你得閒出尼食飯味?


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阿彩彩
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Date Posted: 20:23:24 02/24/04 Tue

leave your contact in my mail box ,ok?

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Subject: 7th


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Whatever
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Date Posted: 16:15:13 02/26/04 Thu

August 24, 2003

It's the seventh months. I hv been so happy with u.

Your tenderness & care to me in daily lives makes me much more impressed...

Though there's still a long way to go to be really attached.Hope you'd tell me more what u want . and i do really expect a better communication as well..

The time .. made me thought of the seventh month with my ex, its a honeymoon as i could remember. ..i am not missing her, but starting to wonder if love always being so tragic to me..and this inevitably puts me so perssimistic ~~ i love you~~and thx for saving me from darkness..seeing the face of sunshine of you

should be the most grateful things i hv got.

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Subject: Fragments of life


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Date Posted: 16:09:14 02/26/04 Thu

21 Sept 2003
On Thursday night, we have been to the beach of stanley. Lying on top of the sand and have the wheels of my ears halfly buried into the sand have been so wonderful experience. The feeling of rubbing with the context of the sand has been so unforgettable. The stars glimmer in the darkness and there we 've found one extraordinary shinny, could that be Mars? It has been quite a while i havent looked up upon the sky, no matter day time or at nite. Is Life that rush we couldnt spare even a second looking up to see what's there now?

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Subject: Nothing to save v dai sai chiu


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Date Posted: 11:36:34 02/26/04 Thu

I am convincing myself: if love has gone, one can do nothing to save.

if one hate A, no matter what A did would nt be forgiven. Even its trivial or circumstantially understandable.

if one likes/loves A, no matter what A did would be forgiven. Even its is obviously wrong in the mind of a reasonable person.

who is A then? Me or her?

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Subject: find,


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Date Posted: 22:18:43 02/24/04 Tue

any method to contact Jacky?
the one who made a les website.

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Subject: Which type you'd like?


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Date Posted: 00:37:26 02/26/04 Thu

Today, i hide my emotion and try finishing tasks as possible before they tumble & could never get back. I don't know why but my defence mechanism directed me, in diverting the attention to other area. I tried to take a look at other gals to divert my attention. I found some of them are quite pretty . But most of the time, the attractive ones are tender and soft type apart from appearence. They possess all qualities people most wanted, but beauty. Some of my classmates are pretty gals also but they are always too devoted to studies. And it would be ma fan to approach them there.

As my fds said, some straight gals who are gay-friendly may not be too defensive as the homophobic type. And they will unintentionally / not consciously cling to you. They move too close so they talk non-stop and are too close to your ears, or looked rite thro' your eyes softly, or breast resting on your arms...(vice versa?) What would u do if u were me? Of course, they know i am gay, but the sight / that the voice of them can sometimes hit upon your heart like an electric shock. Am i too ham sup or full of imagination? Yes, maybe. Is it normal, yes ,it is. Why le? Don't know wor. Curious gwa. Why can't talk about sex? Taboo gwa. But i hv no feeling for cold gals, dont know why . Goodnite .

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Subject: So what?


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blind
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Date Posted: 23:58:45 02/25/04 Wed

My gf said i should not be with her, but with QS.
_______________________________________________________
Cos' i posted stuffs ought nt hv appeared. A mistake in anger, really.

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Then, i stay w QS for life & i asked her to stay w that
person FxxkCharmaine (FC)for life.

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Subject: Blurred in the dark by one who likes flirting our wives much


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Date Posted: 13:43:24 02/23/04 Mon


My gf contact the netpal she admires again, she denied and said only "friendship". They met once taking risk of ruinning our relationship though i told nt to do so. The person got out with her promised not to icq her again when i requested (nt to ruin it). And now, my gf informed me she will contact her as fd again. What will u think or do if u were me? Believable?

Be realistic,what u do then?

This gal break the promise. She may not hv interests in my gal, but just the one who like challenges. What u think abt it?

And we hv quarrel on the phone just now for that fking gal!

This the second time. The first was months ago, we almost had a break cos of her.

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Things are swiftingly going. The fx -Charmaine who has promised not to flirt my wife again here send icq msg now. This is cheating again. My gf who once emphaised no interests in her cos of her height, sent msg to me and said she will contact w her fds including Charmaine. Is Charmaine her fd? Fuck! They hv arranged a secret 1st meeting months ago & my gf deliberately kept me away. They r icq netpal only. I hv been asking my gf to go with her fds ,Wing,Brenda , ck etc.. and she now seems saying she has no freedom to meet with fds. Isn't it all excuses? I can't help being so angry cos' she still denying... Last time , i found out she has met w her already and left me out. I was so angry to click upon her icq to the info and history. My gf expressed so admiring her there. Kept saying that she 's v smart and what and what... From time to time, she said she's nt interested in her totally. I added icq of Charmaine told her not to ruin our r/s. And then asked her why some dates of msg missing. What's that abt? She "taught" me to be confident and be good to her. Also i should take care of her total livelihood and spendings as well. I wonder if she did the same to her ex, and how could it be done if at the time still a student. FK!! I am not as rich as her , who had the family support in kui lui. Neither doi hv a overseas degree. This is unbelievable, seems like the one who want steal your wife teaches u how to be good to her. If i were her that need to be admire , i wont do that at the expense of r/s of others. First issue is denial . My gf deny strongly hving interests in her. But she risked meeting w her at the expense of our r/s months ago. And now, the same is going to happen again. My gf has given me notice of contact w her "as fd". A prudent and intelligible person could not hv believed it w all these facts. Second issue is that she didn't make proposal to be together w my gf, otherwise, i would quit and see how it goes. Third is, if there is not any proposal, will it ruin the r/s again when my gf "notify " me now ? Yesterday nite, she still sms she loves me. Am i a scapegoat? One breaks promise, one keeps denying- these are liars.

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Subject: regret


Author:
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Date Posted: 09:22:24 02/25/04 Wed

Last nite, i got a provoking msg in sudden from the bad person who broke promise and kept sending msg to my wife. Then, losing control , i posted msg at once to let her know its only no more than fdship btw them. I should hv checked detailedly.

When i got up today, as usual, i regret what i hv done.

Anger blinds my eyes. Yes, its too far, you r rite .

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Subject: 世界之最


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 08:58:00 02/25/04 Wed

中国书海中的“世界之最”
Ø Ø 世界上最古的一部史料汇编,是相传孔子整理的《尚书》。
Ø Ø 世界上第一部教育专著,是战国末期孟轲的学生乐克正所作的《礼记·学记》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的编年史,是春秋时鲁国史官记载同代各国的史料,后经孔子删订整理成的《春秋》
Ø Ø 世界上最早的一部军事著作是春秋时孙武所著的《孙子兵法》,《孙子》、《吴孙子兵法》、《孙武兵法》。
Ø Ø 世界是最早的养鱼文献是战国时代范蠡撰写的《养鱼经》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早记载星表的专著是战国时代石申编写的《天文》,也称《石氏星经》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的合金工艺技术著作是春秋末年齐国人作的《考工记》,又名《周礼·考工记》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的图书分类目录是西汉刘歆撰写的《七略》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的一部农业百科全书是南北朝北魏贾思勰的《齐民要术》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早记载生产炭黑的文献是北魏贾思勰的《齐民要术》卷九中所载的《合墨法》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早记载圆周率的著作是南北朝杰出数学家祖冲之写的《缀术》。
Ø Ø 世界上现存最早最完整的石经丛书是唐开成二年(公元887年)刻制的《开成石经》。
Ø Ø 世界上现存最早的有日期的雕版印刷的书是唐咸通九年(公元868年)印成的《金刚经》。
Ø Ø 世界上第一部茶叶专著是唐朝陆羽所著的《茶经》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的气象专著是世界上第一个给风定级的唐代杰出学者李淳风所著的《乙已占》
Ø Ø 世界上最早的植树专著是明代咿v本(一作贞木)编著的《种树书》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早测量子午线长度的的科学名著是唐朝僧一行(原名张遂)所作的《大衍历》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早解出一个不定解析题的著作是《孙子算经》,撰者孙子和《孙子兵法》的作者并非一人,时代不可考。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的法医学专著是南宋宋慈所著的《洗冤集录》,通称《洗冤录》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的桔类园艺学专著是南宋韩彦直编写的《桔录》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的桐树专著是宋代陈翥编写的《桐谱》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的一部蔗糖专著是宋代王灼所著的《糖霜谱》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早记述都邑概貌和船压载的著作是南宋孟元老所著的《东京梦华录》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早最大的百科全书是明代由解缙负责编纂的《永乐大典》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早确立十二平均律理论的著作,是《律学新说》和《律占精义》,这两部书的作者都是明代朱载堉。
Ø Ø 世界上最早的推理小说是明人所作的《龙图公案》,该书全名是《增像包龙图判百家公案》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早创造植物分类法,收药品种最多、最全的药物学名著是明代李时珍所写的《本草纲目》。
Ø Ø 世界上最早论石灰岩岩溶地貌的著作是明代徐弘祖(字振元,号霞客)写的《徐霞客游记》。
Ø Ø 世界上最长的一部史诗巨著是我国藏族的长篇叙事诗《格萨王全传》。

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Date Posted: 00:31:28 02/25/04 Wed

Having seperated with her, the feelings is strange cos it mixed w different components.

I feel free but it seems life is losing sthg.

So free that i dont hv to follow what she wants. Or beware of what she does not want. This could be stressful sometimes.

But now i hv the mood to listen to some music, read a few lines of novel, hang out w fds in pub..

I hv suggested a loose r/s these days, but she rejected. We are moving apart now. She can't wait packing stuffs also. We hv no solution accepted by both. I left lots msg there in her voice mail , sure if she does not want that option, i should just letgo.

Before we move apart, i want to hv a final talk. She must hv misunderstood again, so hostile & rejected. We had bad times yesterday. It added up to negative elements and fostered the final step.

I bet she misunderstood why i hv such suggestions. Or her fds giving false instructions again. I do not know. Of course , i told her . She won't believe: I must be so bad to suggest a loose type r/s , so as to date another. The stress i need to face living w someone hostile for months, and who replied nthg as i asked the final word: "love me or not" is hard to take. As long as i know what i am doing, it does not matter how ppl mistakenly guess .
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Today, we settled a bit on r/s. I find myself missing her much. Therefore, i went to her place to wait for her.

I think and then i act, its too straightforward all the time, but its me.

Unexpectedly, she promised to go dw after supper.

She went down and met me. I waited her in delifrance. Her face popped up in front in a sudden, i didn't expect she knew where i ve gone. It's like ages i hvnt met w her. We walked past the park, her eyes are big and beautiful, it contained piles of messages. I looked into them and sought to find the quests and answers. In the darkness ,we could utter no words, I tried to hug her to express how i 've been missing her. She stepped back and retreated quickly then. It 's quite a defensive act. Then, she walked away hurrily. I stood there awhile. Half minute later, I ran breathless and found her walking home fast. Knowing i was at the back, She didn't even turn around .

Got frustrated, I sat down near the gate of her building. I sms her her abt this & she sms me to go. It was too windy, i got a bit fever when i got back home now. I brought the textbook and read some pages, alternatively sms her. After i 've changed a place, i am sparkled by the scene. I rang her for a talk . I tried to convince her as if she had been the judge. I dissected the situation rationally, and helped her to rebuild the whole theme, r/s , hers concerns..etc

I tried not to be so serious and talked abt the other things. I began to know her more...that's a failure of me really. She's quite a stubborn gal who'd like keeping her feet always behind the yellow lines. Sometimes she thinks like a mature lady, but will appear to be a 4 -yr-old girl somehow. I m nt interested in too young lady, her being mature attracts me far more than former style. In a quarrel, i'd better take her as 4yo. O.. i hvnt met any stubborn 4yo girl , i began to think how it would like....how to deal w sort like that??..

Everybody could have doubled -sides (maybe multiple). Surely i am- But sometimes, part of me is childish like, nobody would like that.

Yesterday nite, we went to Carmay's house. The roof was terrific, i caught the whole view of Victoria Harbour while they were chatting there. The light glistened in the darkness , it was a bit gloomy. I hv cans of beer , the beautiful picture of nite scenery and her on mind , the one i love, a whole bunch of them carried with sorrows though.

Today, the most happy thing is , at very late nite, she sms and said she loves me.



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R/s is built on respect, a mutual one. Trust, understanding, caring, sharing of matters around us ,tolerance, acceptance,and the spice of life--happiness. All are essentials, need to build up one by one. Also,we had bad communication. This requires a breakthrough. But, its not that easy.
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24 Feb 2004

I went to her school and i searched her office one block by one block. I didnt know what i was doing. Just want to get her on the phone or talk abt it.

For her, i hv been too exhausted. I went here and there (her hse / school) to look for her with hearts falling tears. No sleep , no eat, no homework, no pride, no appreciation, no solution for days. i hv had it enough. All she insists is just to include an icq netpal as a'fd' as said. She's the one who started our dispute half yr ago, and now she comes back. I wish them good luck. The risk taken for a stranger is really at the expense of the fragile relationship.

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25 Feb 2004

Yesterday nite, i tried my best to use hrs TUMP her back. That's the first time i can speak so many things interesting with her. I intended to hide all problems and talked happily or amusing as i could. She seemed accepted my apology. Actually, she's good in some way, just too young to be considerate. In the early morning, i got her msg. We had good conversation. I thought its a new start. At nite, it went worse again. I found i hv wasted too much energy on her these days, cant concentrate on everything and almost got an accident when crossing the road.


For two days, we hv tried to be happy together again. I miss her when i sleep. The time i wake up has got her image on mind also. We hv hot pot happily, and we went to the flat and make love. She's urgently going rite after that. Cos her mom must be urging. I requested 10 minutes rest before leaving. She rejected, feeling odd, i was not happy and i turned my back against her and walked in front. She cried and walked faster . I hv no strength to chase her, and its the first time i felt i am old for her. Our value and attitude to deal w matters are so different. I tried to get into her shoe and see if i had been wrong, i can view myself from her angle. I was so ignoring her being hurry. But from my view, its so so odd.

I got home. On the road, i almost got a car crash. I was so tired for days and nites handling matters btw me and her. I was checking sms msg, when i step on pavement, i heard a huge noise. Two taxi crashed behind me. The one originally maybe speeding toward me, cos the driver in the darkness far away must hv seen me moving slowly . Some drivers like doing sorta things like that.

The txi turned around and around, luckily no one was hurt.
All glasses smashed behind me. I told my gf in sms twice, she hv no response but still blamming why i showed her the face when leaving the hse and how she felt sad of it.

I made a conclusion, no matter how bad my phys. condition / personal safety/ happy or unhappy ..they r are no big deal to her.

All i kw she's not happy abt ppl feeling sympathy for me here. We were happy hrs ago hving hotpot, and now she left msg "no contact, no sms"anymore. I replied i think also we may nt fit. That's true.

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26 Feb 2004- Just got msg from that Charmaine, take a look and let u heart die for her:


*蚗罫訹i喭腔翌襗豝! (00:49 AM) :
sorry ah, joy -- ten messaged me and told me that you guys quarreled because of my icq msg to you. I just want to see if everything is fine with you....but got such a big impact...
i really want to let ten know that i have no intention to disturb you guys' relationship -- i have no idea why she thinks i'm such a threat to her. I have no such intention to steal you away from her at all.
赻蚕俴坋 (00:53 AM) :
u break promise, msg come rite when we quarrel. i dont know why so coincidently.

u r always a threat to everyone. u really think so? yes, cos u want it. and want be admire, get a life pls. i am tired of that.

my wife and me started quarrel cos u, and end up now cos u msg again.
that's fact.

she finds u too short for her, but if u want, pls go ahead. we r in fragile r/s, go and get it if u want, or want interfere ppl's life.

make it quick and give her a call! Fuck!


*蚗罫訹i喭腔翌襗豝! (00:56 AM) :
i'm sorry, i only treat her as a friend. i will not chase her and will never do.
pls, calm down and think if it is worth it to make such a big deal out of it when there's nothing happening at all between me and joy.
don't let your imagination over-rule u
赻蚕俴坋 (00:58 AM) :
fuck u !!

u stir up my wife days anad nites icq, and now teach me again?

u cant explain why u cling on my wife and msg her!!

u got nobody love u madm???there tones of gals out there, cant u get anyone ? i can show a dozen !!
*蚗罫訹i喭腔翌襗豝! (00:59 AM) :
i could say no more other than there will never be more than friendship between me and joy.

I have a gf now -- if telling you will make things better.

these are the last words i have to say, i will say no more.
赻蚕俴坋 (00:59 AM) :
u r like an idiot.

no one is saying u got any affair w my wife,u know what's there? got it? stupid head
赻蚕俴坋 (00:59 AM) :
yes,u fdship can break promise.

go get other fdship! respect pls.



we breakup now, cos no fit, i hv no strength to deal w anymore, and u can go ahead now. good luck.

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Subject: 恰到好處


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Date Posted: 02:19:39 02/25/04 Wed

孔子的學生子貢曾經問孔子:“子張和子夏哪一個賢一些?”孔子回答說:“子張過分;子夏不夠。”子貢問:“那互O子張賢一些嗎?”孔子說:“過分与不夠是一樣的。”(《論語•先進》

也就是說,過分与不夠貌似不同,其實質卻都是一樣的,都不符合中庸的要求。中庸的要求是恰到好處。

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Subject: 尊重


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Date Posted: 10:39:57 01/14/04 Wed

尊重對方的同時
其實是對自我的肯定
有足夠自信的人
不會在兩人之間的差異點上大作文章

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Date Posted: 10:01:59 02/24/04 Tue

只有自己才能擾亂自己平靜的心。
K.Sri Dhammananda

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Subject: 麻煩


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Date Posted: 12:45:43 02/23/04 Mon

麻煩很快就會遠離,今日使你悲傷的,明日將會被遺忘。 K.Sri Dhammananda

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Subject: Homosexual must read


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Date Posted: 12:12:06 02/20/04 Fri

MUST READ





1.

WANT TO thanks all of you , almond, Dah Siu, and many other people etc etc

you post many meaningful messages to this board.

many thanks.







2.



As a homosexual person, I would like to say the following:



All of us have experience or feel that sometimes discriminate by other. However, when we feel other discriminate us, did we think back do ourself also discriminate other people?? due to many reason :such as gender, education, career,money, social status, outlook.





The world bring us to be a group to being discriminated by others. Might be want us to learn about the feeling of being discriminate, want us to remove our color glasses to treat all human being are the same.



If we want to ask other to not discriminate us,

we should do it ourselves first.



PLEASE PUT Down your colour glasses.



We also need to learn how to tolerate to others; how to included others; how to respect others.





Thanks for reading!

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Subject: 真是會發生的?!


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Date Posted: 10:10:39 02/18/04 Wed

看完有點擔心和悶悶不樂,
很久很久以前看過類似新聞。
當其時沒有意識到問題所在,
現在應該反思了。
我愛我家,我愛地球,
還可以往那裡去?
真是移民上太空?!


地球反撲,第一個滅於溫室效應的國家

在美麗的南太平洋上鑲嵌著釵h風景綺麗的島國。在這串珍珠之中,位於斐濟以北的圖瓦盧(Tuvalu)便是其中亮麗的一顆。然而,就在本月15日,圖瓦盧政府領導人在一份聲明中說,他們對抗海平面上升的努力已告失敗,並宣佈他們將放棄自己的家園,舉國移民紐西蘭。圖瓦盧將由此成為全球第一個因海平面上升而進行全民遷移的國家。大約在五十年以後,這個美麗的島國將沉沒於大洋之中,在世界地圖上人們再也找不到這個國家的位置。

 圖瓦盧總面積只有 26 平方公里,總人口 1.1 萬人,屬於熱帶海洋性氣候,一年四季風景如畫。人們將構成這個國家的九個環狀珊瑚小島稱為太平洋上的“九顆閃亮明珠”並不過分,因為在很多人眼堙A圖瓦盧真的像一個世外桃源。

 然而,11月15日,美國權威的華盛頓地球政策研究所發表了一份不僅令圖瓦盧人民,也令所有關心人類命運的人聞之心焦的“訃聞”:由於人類不注意保護地球環境,保持生態平衡,由此造成的溫室效應導致海平面上升,太平洋島國圖瓦盧的 1.1 萬國民將面臨滅頂之災。惟一的解決辦法就是全國大搬遷,永遠離開這塊他們世世代代居住、生活的土地。據悉,移民將從明年起正式啟動。

 2000 年 2 月 18 日,生養圖瓦盧人民的大海已經給了他們一次可怕的預演。在那一天,該國的大部分地區被海水淹沒,首都的機場及部分房屋都泡在了汪洋大海之中。該國的海平面於 2月 19 日下午 5 時左右上升至 3.2 米,2 月 20 日下午 5 時 44 分海潮才緩慢退卻。由於這個由 9 個環形小珊瑚島組成的國家最高海拔也不過 4.5 米,所以低窪地方的房屋全部沒頂。

今年初,氣候變化國家小組公開了一份由以 3000 名科學家的調查為基礎撰寫的報告,預言 2010 年,海平面比現在上升 18 厘米到 80 厘米。在過去十年堙A海水已經侵蝕了圖瓦盧 1% 的土地。專家預言,如果地球環境繼續惡化,在五十年之內,圖瓦盧九個小島將全部沒入海中,在世界地圖上將永遠消失。而且,它變得無法居住的時間還會大大提前。

其實這只不過是這個太平洋島國不得不面對的災難的開始。自本世紀海平面上升以來,圖瓦盧的生存便受到了極大的威脅。數年前,該國前總理佩魯曾聲稱圖瓦盧最終將永遠被汪洋吞噬。他在當時已開始呼籲圖瓦盧人另覓容身之所。當時他說,這樣的情況是“最壞的打算”。但沒有想到,此話餘音未了,圖瓦盧人民已不得不準備他們的搬家行李了,成為了名符其實的“環境難民”。

事實上,圖瓦盧政府早在今年七月便向全世界發出了“SOS”緊急求救信號:他們國家面臨滅頂之災,哪個國家願意伸出手來,拉圖瓦盧人民上岸!當時,全世界 180 個國家的政府代表正在德國就與人類前途、命運休戚相關的氣候變化協議的簽署問題吵得不可開交。

 圖瓦盧政府曾考慮在鄰近國家購買土地,建立國中之國,但圖瓦盧太窮,拿不出太多的錢置地,最好的辦法就是舉國移民。於是圖瓦盧政府將目光轉向了和他們國家一樣環海、而且地廣人稀的澳大利亞和紐西蘭。

 當圖瓦盧提出移民請求後,澳大利亞進退兩難:同意接納圖瓦盧人,這就意味著承認氣候在變暖;如果不接納,又將使自己處於萬夫所指的尷尬境地。權衡再三,澳大利亞政府終於給了一個讓圖瓦盧人民聞之心寒的說法。移民部長菲利普·魯多克在接受“澳大利亞電臺”採訪時竟然將“環境難民”和正常移民混為一談,他表示,澳大利亞擁有完備的移民政策和移民計劃。與此對照,他覺著圖瓦盧人民移居澳大利亞的條件尚不具備!魯多克說:“事實上,在過去二十年堙A我們一直在談論這個問題,如果將來有一天,圖瓦盧真的被海水吞沒了,那麼,澳大利亞決不會見死不救。但現在看來,他們並未面臨真正的危險。”

 圖瓦盧副外交部長普西尼利·拉亞法同樣在接受這家電臺採訪時卻是另一種看法:“圖瓦盧的人口越來越密集,被海水侵吞的土地越來越多,這真的讓人非常憂慮。”他同時透露,他萬萬沒有想到,地廣人稀的澳大利亞竟然對圖瓦盧人民的要求如此無動於衷。

 澳大利亞不但不想接納圖瓦盧“環境難民”,還強烈反對簽署《京都議定書》,其理由是,只要美國不簽字,這份協議就是一紙空文。所以,當“太平洋島國論壇”於 8 月 16 日在瑙魯拉開帷幕後,澳大利亞立即成為與會國家指責的對象。包括圖瓦盧和貝勞在內的這些國家認為,在控制全球溫室效應、防止海平面上升這個問題上,澳大利亞奉行的是孤立主義。

 貝勞官員戴維·皮倫在接受澳大利亞媒體採訪時更是直言不諱:一些島國已經不得不進口糧食了,因為原來很好的耕地被海水侵蝕。而地大物博的澳大利亞對此視而不見。密克羅尼西亞總統法爾卡姆在論壇上指出,溫室效應,導致風暴增多,淡水遭到破壞,海水入侵,太平洋島國人民賴以生存的莊稼、椰子大片大片地死亡,這無異於患了“慢死病”。

 事實上,最近三五年堙A圖瓦盧人民已經開始陸陸續續地告別自己的國家,有的去了美國,一些人悄悄地遷往紐西蘭,因為紐西蘭的移民政策較寬鬆,對圖瓦盧人民也非常同情。據紐西蘭方面透露的數字,迄今,已有 5000 多名圖瓦盧人在紐西蘭安了家。

7 月 20 日,圖瓦盧人民終於聽到了讓他們眼眶發熱的好消息。新西蘭首相海倫·克拉剋夫人的發言人證實,克拉剋夫人對圖瓦盧遇到的問題非常關心,雖然大規模移民是一件非常複雜的事情,牽扯到兩個國家的生活水平、人口壓力等敏感問題,但她還是決定接納更多的圖瓦盧“環境難民”。

現代國際關係研究所副研究員孫暉明認為,由於澳大利亞現在的外交政策是立足西方、面向亞洲,而現在的霍華德政府又是以強硬對待移民的立場而聞名。通過今年 8 月的“坎帕號”事件,他們也看到了這一立場在國內擁有大量支持者。在這樣的情況下,澳洲政府顯然不會同意接收圖瓦盧移民。而新西蘭由於其國家特點,南太平洋地區還是其外交重點。這之中與這些島國搞好關係是非常重要的一環,因此新西蘭接收了圖瓦盧移民。

 在過去的一百年堙A全世界海平面一共上升了 18 厘米。目前全球科研機構都認為,地球已進入了海平面“加倍上升期”。導致海平面上升的主要原因有兩點:一是地質原因,另一個是氣候原因。近百年來,氣候因素成為了造成海平面上升的最主要原因。而氣候的變化主要是要歸結於人類社會工業化程度的不斷提高而造成的溫室效應。

 發達工業化國家對這一問題更是負有不可推卸的責任。比如,據澳大利亞聯邦科學與工業研究組織大氣研究所提供的報告,南半球的澳大利亞已成為世界二氧化碳排放量最多的5 個國家之一。《澳大利亞人報》上曾經刊發了這樣一幅漫畫:幾個島國的領導人圍坐一圈,頭上是滾滾而來的海水,他們都緊張地抬頭看著。而澳大利亞霍華德總理則在一旁大吼:“憑什勿我們減少排氣?”作為世界頭號工業國的美國更是拒絕在全球控制廢氣排放量的《京都議定書》上簽字。

 密克羅尼西亞總統法爾卡姆在論壇上曾演講:“在美國國務卿鮑威爾僅僅認為全球變暖對美國的安全來說是個‘挑戰’。他說:‘美國並沒有變小。’可是,在這裡,我必須向全世界指出,全球變暖決不僅僅是一個‘挑戰’,它是一個‘末日威脅’!而且這個威脅決不是我們太平洋島國製造的!必須認識到,島國要求對氣候變化採取措施,決不是只為自己考慮。島國數千年文化的失落是可以被這個世界容忍的;成千上萬的島國人民被迫背井離鄉,也是可以容忍的。但從長遠看,這個世界的其他地方也會面對氣候變化所帶來的災難性後果。當然,發達國家不採取具體可行的措施,我向全世界發出的這個警告將毫無意義。”

 據悉,基堣痟窗B庫克群島、瑙魯和西薩摩亞等低地島國也面臨著同圖瓦盧一樣的威脅。這些由珊瑚礁形成的海島普遍地勢極低。當地居民都能親身感受到海水的滋漫上侵已逼近家園。

 在斐濟維提島,海邊水極淺,捕魚人走出數百米遠還深不及腰。原來這些淺海水區過去都是陸地的一部分。有預測說,未來 40 年之內 8 萬多基堣痟筒~民將面臨喪失家園的厄運。而在馬紹爾群島的一些地段,上侵的海水已將那些原本長在岸邊的椰子樹下的土壤掏空,樹幹抱著那幾乎已全裸的球形根部站在海水媟n搖欲墜。

2001 年 8 月 17 日,在“小島國峰會”上,其主席、瑙魯總統勒內·哈奡答磳隉A6 個小島國的領導人想“組團”去聯合國總部,向人們表達這樣的信息:全球氣候變暖使海平面上升,使處在茫茫大洋之中的小島國深受其害。哈奡絰﹛G“我們想讓布希總統和其他人知道,海平面上升的後果十分嚴重,這絕對值得國際社會採取措施進行補救。如果到現在還不重視這個問題,大洋之中地勢較低的島國將面臨滅頂之災。”面對著大國對他們國土安危的漠視,他們除了表示憤怒,別無他法。基堣痟聒`統塞布羅羅·斯托近乎絕望地說:“作為基督徒,我只好將這一切交付到上帝的手堣F。因為我只能眼睜睜地看著事態發展,卻無法造出一艘諾亞方舟來。”

現代國際關係研究所副研究員孫暉明說:“這些小島國由於國家過小,在國際舞臺上不會有什麼大的影響力,即使圖瓦盧整個國家土地的消失也不會成為國際社會關注的焦點。但這件事必然會造成其周邊島國的恐慌,因此它們會更加聯合起來,要國際社會關注它們,幫助它們。”

 如果形勢得不到改觀,圖瓦盧註定會成為第一個因海平面上升被迫撤離家園的國家,然而,更加不幸的是,它絕對不會是最後一個。那麼,下一個會輪到誰呢?(人民網)

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Subject: 請問


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Date Posted: 02:32:07 02/16/04 Mon

有無人知道那本故事講兩個女人的
上海往事,香港有無得買?

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Subject: 肮俶駁窆岆瘁的牁酉?


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Date Posted: 11:44:53 02/22/04 Sun

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Subject: To: 金魚妹妹


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Date Posted: 21:09:14 02/21/04 Sat

金魚妹妹:

生日快樂!呀~ 呀~ 呀~
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Subject: Get a life!


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Yesterday it s the first day i hv a break. How long hv i wished such a day to come. So that i dont hv to be dragged on. That day i cleared up all tasks and hv a real thought on imminent r/s problem.

After i arrived no progress in icq negotiation with her, I moved back home by the evening. The books were damn heavy, but the will to a next step was more stunning. This created the force to load all books into taxi.

For the last three months, i hv been living in depressed state amidst the hustle-bustle.. The queen showed me the face from time to time if i were in the military. Poor to say that, I am not a diciplined person in daily rountine. And her suspicion on me with my ex made me sick. Unluckily, i hv the power to see thro' all should not hv appeared. I be a lawyer or not seems to be her major concern, tho' denied. I hate realistic person. It sucks.

In Valentines, it marked the watershed of us. My mom fainted that day, and i need to visit her at nite. It may hv brought her suspicion also cos she asked disbelievingly. I hurried back and happily met up with her only to be greeted by her dissatisfied look with hands held tight. I asked if i could hold her hands (sarcastic need to ask so in a more than 1 yr relationship) , she expressed her arrogance and temper--"NO". She walked fast enough to hv forced me following her at behind. I hate being treated like that . The mode was exactly the same in getting along that i need to follow her on most issues. Otherwise, i will be so unhappy getting the dissatisfied look from her. I hate that. And i walked faster. I did the same to her but she hide. Well, what can i say?! She just disappeared from the crowd behind me , the first time, the second and the third. Each time, i need to ring her to see where she's gone.

If 2 people cannot walk in pace, and neither be willing hand in hand, that's a natural and forseeable result in a crowd. That was Valentines, and more was the disappearing in Christmas Eve, well, i cant figure out how the festivals have been -> its all sadness , since Dec.

I will release her from now on, so she won't have to disappear in festivals for waiting some other datings. If i were her, i will only "end one then start one".

How i recall only today the episode. She slapped hard on me. The law in this world of us is that: she's the only one who can speak or behaved arrogantly. If i do the same, i got the slap so hardly. That's the incident before Dec. Her strength is even bigger than me. My half-face swollen. I don't know how i can hide up in some part of my brain all these images till now. The images got out from darkness in a day.

I think i am a good person already, at least i have not got into any affairs / attemptted to do so during these harmful circum. while chances were there.

Even she said she is fussy and picky, i wish she got one can fit her the Empress Dowager.

I requestd her to delete all my photos taken with her and my icq also .



My maxim is: Get a life, No drag on & no turn back.

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Subject: 多謝


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Date Posted: 01:26:56 02/10/04 Tue

這裡我來了接近四年半, 很有歸 感, 和妳揮手至八十先! 多謝QS.

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Subject: 新的討論區唔登記係咪唔可以post message?@_@


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Date Posted: 00:34:08 02/20/04 Fri


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Subject: 某個電郵中的一句話


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Date Posted: 08:28:08 02/20/04 Fri

我總在抱怨自己沒有鞋穿,直到有天我遇上一個沒有腿的人。

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Subject: 某個電郵中的一句話


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Date Posted: 08:06:32 02/20/04 Fri

我總在抱怨自己沒有鞋穿,直到有天我遇上一個沒有腿的人。

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Subject: <姊妹Fun分咭 >計劃


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Date Posted: 22:00:20 02/19/04 Thu

為鼓勵各姊妹們能更湧躍參與QS所舉辦之活動,各QS活動出席者可獲派發<姊妹Fun分咭>一張,每次出席QS所舉辦之活動一次(包括XX小聚、遠足、燒烤等),QS義工們會為閣下之<姊妹Fun分咭>誘W一個印記,用以累積更多印記換取以下服務或禮品。

累積滿三個印記 – $1塔羅牌解讀一次
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累積滿五個印記 – QS活動費用八折優惠一次

累積滿八個印記 – QS網上電台節目CD一隻

- <姊妹Fun分增>咭有效期為12個月。
- 如有違失,不獲補發。
- 不可合併多張咭使用換取服務或禮品。
- 每張咭只可換取服務或禮品最多三次。

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I have given her my true heart but she's almost gone now...I shouldnt tolerate or i should be patient? Make it quick or slow it down? i wonder why she couldnt forget some unhappy incidents , which i hadnt put it on mind & are trivial to ord. person. As i hv met more ppl, i become more well-controlled myself. But the more i control myself, the more unreasonable person i ve met. They maybe still green hornes in love & r/s. I call it the relationship quocient (RSQ), it does not relate to age but it links to love- experience. The sarcastic pt is, i hate to be the coach. For the past three months, i hv buried my head in busy work and been silent on all matters. its comming to the edge now. No matter how bad feeling it is, we should be positive and look for fit ones, yes, there must be one. As i turn to prev. chapter of diary, they r all memories. Where is the new chapter? Do u think the same as me " a compatible person is hard to find"? Yes, v hard.

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Subject: To Almond


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To Almond,

斕疑! 扂艘斕e佌漺襓鉼抨tW觳. 衄虳觳扂砑諒. 扂躲攬衭瘓|昹. 扂c賸祥岆嬴儕腔こ. 扂硐瘓賸珨戚. 筍瘓摽桴れ縳X腕螹躲桉豪. 猁⑴攬衭冞扂隙模. 祭堤虛摽, 船c桴蕾祥隅. 奻摽竭砑阯. 扂砑扂岆祥岆汛в割屪蘢? 扂]衄妘庥恀割嚜藨昜. 筍瘓狟饒戚|昹衄珨僇r嶲螹躲桉豪. 扂砑祥隴啞樨莒稛.

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Date Posted: 08:36:50 02/19/04 Thu

"Life can sometimes be a hard teacher but it is always the best teacher.

- Godwin Samararatne"

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Date Posted: 09:15:53 02/18/04 Wed

"Enlightened people behave like ordinary people, ordinary people try to be like enlightened people."

- Godwin Samararatn

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Subject: 忘掉我們曾盡興


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Date Posted: 23:09:08 02/16/04 Mon

帶走傷感 帶不走哭得轉紅了的燈
記憶隨身 延續欠你的戲份
帶走開心 卻帶不走拖手時的體溫
微暖質感 留在臉上還未吻

給一分鐘我靜靜回味
將一生一世翻天覆地
明日已被今天處死
畢s在原為反映天理

這一分鐘我站在何地
怎麼竟跟你活在一起
緣是鏡中花 留在鏡中死
原諒我不記得忘記

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Subject: valentines


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Date Posted: 23:05:52 02/14/04 Sat



valentines

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Subject: Join me in supporting marriage equality!


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Date Posted: 10:26:54 02/14/04 Sat

Dear Friend,

I believe that ALL Americans, including gays and lesbians,
deserve the rights, responsibilities, and
privileges that come with marriage. And right now, we have an
unprecedented opportunity to make that
dream a reality. Please, join me in adding your voice to a
million voices raised in support of civil
marriage for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender couples at
www.MillionForMarriage.org .

This week, it's especially important that we reach 200,000
signatures - right-wing extremists are lobbying Congress right
now during their so-called "Marriage Protection Week." Please,
help drown out their anti-GLBT voices!

http://www.millionformarriage.org



http://www.hrcactioncenter.org/campaign/millionformarriage?rk=L7zDUj61hqJEW

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Subject: 2月份「XX小聚」更改地點及日期


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Date Posted: 23:24:53 02/13/04 Fri

日期:2004年2月28日(星期六)

時間:下午5:30至晚上7:00

地點:香港銅鑼灣駱克道474號合宜大廈1樓,色Kaffa。(紐約戲院對面,前H2O<水記>樓下,銅鑼灣地鐵站C出口。)

入場費:每位40元 (包括Drink List內飲品一杯及活動物資)

主題:童年時 之 偶像篇

齊來分享由過往至現在所喜愛之偶像,
對大家成長路上的影嚮,瘋狂行為可有相像。

餘慶節目:
活動後可以自由參加晚飯 或 自行組隊到附近消遣場所盡興。

備註:場內禁煙,請吸煙者到KAFFA外之樓梯位置。

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Subject: 情人節就來談情說愛。


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Date Posted: 11:55:51 02/13/04 Fri

原來愛是很簡單,總是簡單愛。

Wish you have a happy Friday & Happy Valentine's Day to you all!!!!

God bless you all!!!

各方友好,雖然此文長了小小,
又是英文,不妨查查字典,
細心嬝炕A耐心查鴃A您總有得著。


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"There are two kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes both kinds of them." Jenny - age 8

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day." Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends
even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris - age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." Karen - age 7

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbour was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked him what he had said to the neighbour, the little boy said,

"Nothing, I just helped him cry."

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Subject: 唔知真定假?!


Author:
樂大少
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Date Posted: 11:11:16 02/13/04 Fri

睇下[中國南方航空公司] D飛機, 點樣降落!!


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如果我係乘客, 實嚇死~~~

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Subject: 寒山


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almond
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Date Posted: 10:30:20 02/12/04 Thu

有人罵老拙,老拙只說好;有人打老拙,老拙自睡倒;有人唾老拙,由他自乾了,他也省力氣,我也省煩惱。

寒山

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Subject: 留下什麼?


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almond
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Date Posted: 14:53:04 02/11/04 Wed

風來翠竹,風過而竹不留聲,雁度寒潭,雁去而潭不留影。

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Subject: 很久沒出來玩過,i wanna have some fun and chat , please do you guys know any gathering that welcome a new comer like me on this Saturday?


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彩彩
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Date Posted: 11:04:25 02/11/04 Wed


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Subject: 關懷抗逆境


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文樂
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Date Posted: 16:02:51 02/09/04 Mon

「逆境並非一件壞事,只要正面面對,
反而是機會,可感受到四處溫暖﹔
若在逆境中氣餒,那才是真正的逆境。」
梁佩珠昨日分享其積極人生,最近獲得新進義工大獎。

看到明報專訊,
很想和大家分享。
希望大家不要容易放棄,
要知道生命不可以重來,
好好珍惜所擁有的。

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almond
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Date Posted: 08:49:28 02/10/04 Tue

佛法是拿來自己用的,而不是拿來量人的。      
聖嚴法師

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Subject: 鐵人


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Date Posted: 01:42:15 02/10/04 Tue

兩天
鐵人似的
忙啊忙
四周人
都紅著眼
撐著
是否知
自己在何
倒下的人
我不做第一個
只會做
最後一個

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Subject: SUNSHINE DAY


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BLUE SKY
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Date Posted: 13:56:06 02/09/04 Mon

今天的天氣寒冷, 可幸的是天空放晴, 那氛溫暖的感覺, 就像昔日在那處的冬天正午時份, 妳駕車來市中心與我相聚, 妳更會送上簡單而又令我回味無窮的便當, 那份窩心的感覺, 真教我一世難忘... 謝謝妳給我那份無私的愛... 感謝上天讓我們相遇. 多謝!
自妳的離開, 我們之間的緣份也中斷了, 無論怎樣努力也追不回, 但願下一次我們會再遇上.

珍惜現在所擁有的, 幸福是靠自己爭取, 願妳有一個快樂的情人節!

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Subject: 本不可得


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almond
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Date Posted: 09:23:17 02/09/04 Mon

一切浮塵,諸變化相,當處出生,隨處滅盡,求於去來,本不可得。

《楞嚴經》

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Subject: 一棲輕煙


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輕煙
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Date Posted: 21:20:52 02/08/04 Sun

輕煙, 一棲輕煙, 當一切你喜愛的人都化作一棲輕煙, 夠竟人生...

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Subject: 佛學辭典集成


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Date Posted: 07:18:31 01/31/04 Sat

軟體分類: 家庭其他
軟體性質: Freeware
作業系統: Windows XP/2000/Me/98/95/NT
語言界面: 繁體中文
檔案大小: 20 M
原創公司: 美國佛教會電腦資訊庫未w會
佛學辭典集成讓你了解佛教的奧秘
觀世音,阿彌陀,地藏,彌勒,這些常見於文字中的佛教外來語,你都知道它們的意義嗎?如果你正是學佛之人,是否有時候也曾碰到一些不了解意義的佛教詞彙呢?佛學辭典集成是一部綜合了七部佛學辭典的佛教電子書,結合電腦的威力,讓你了解這些佛教詞彙與精神。
佛教自印度傳入中國已久,有釵h佛教用語已經深深的融入我們的生活與語言當中。一些如觀世音菩薩,阿彌陀佛等佛教詞彙,更是大家從小就耳熟能詳的用語。不過你可曾想過這些詞彙的來源以及其代表意義呢?
佛學辭典集成是一套集合了七套佛學辭典的佛教電子書,可以讓你使用單一的查詢詞彙在七套佛學辭典中作連續查詢,並會標示查詢來源出處。對於一些原文以梵文書寫,而無法以中文表示的辭彙,佛學辭典集成也支援梵文直接顯示的弁遄A使嬝炊ㄦ|有困擾。
在佛學辭典集成軟體中的特定詞彙甚至附上了圖片,如同百科全書一樣的圖文並茂,對有心學佛的朋友會有幫助的。在佛學辭典集成也支援列印弁遄A可以將查詢到的辭彙直接列印出來。
繁體版下載 ftp://ftp.budaedu.org/fo-dict/FoDict-Big5.exe

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Subject: WC友聚(7/2):全新時間•內容更精彩


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Date Posted: 21:14:35 02/06/04 Fri


測試邊個情人令你最難忘?

http://wcofhk.50g.com/wcfm6.html

** 自04年2月起,每月第一個星期六的WC友聚將更改為下午5:00-7:00 **


2月7日《WC友聚》主題:難忘的情人


情人節前夕,讓我們一起重溫好的情人、壞的情人、
虧欠了的情人、辜負了的情人、背叛妳的情人、欺騙妳的情人......
還有那個最難忘的她。獻給所有愛過的女孩們!

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Subject: 有偈


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 10:39:45 02/07/04 Sat

夜夜抱佛眠,朝朝還共起,起坐鎮相隨,語默同居止,絲毫不相離,如身影相似,欲識佛住處,只這語聲是。

傅大士

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