VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 123456[7]8910 ]
Subject: 也好, 各有看法啦..-->


Author:
^sanbofan^
[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]
Date Posted: 21:26:55 01/10/04 Sat
In reply to: 路人丙 's message, "Re: 愛上好友的女友, 應否向她表白 --> Re" on 12:23:20 01/10/04 Sat

其實, 是旦啦.

不過我若愛上友人的女友, 會控制得到唔去馬啦..

等下啦.. 有人下車才上車不遲..

如友flirt自己女友,摸下腰咁, 電話談心, 我會好討厭佢.

如果你是我這種友人, 認為 "溝老友的女友" 沒問題?! 咁我做你老友會感到今世真不幸而走先0羅..

女友找誰都可以, 給老友找上會好hurt, 你有無hurt過你老友?我估你咁講可能有而不知啦..

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:
[> [> [> Subject: Lucky for you, always got the right timing huh?


Author:
路人丙
[ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 23:25:20 01/11/04 Sun

if下車or上車can be so easy, that's good for you. My experience is love don't come when you WANT to. It just comes as it will, and sometimes it fade away without you noticing it...
Anyway, 愛很多時侯身不由己,做人只能忠於自己,活在當中
遺憾往往來自wrong timing...或沒有好好把握
我並不鼓勵別人專挑"老友的女友來溝",
只是認為感情若是真誠,表白亦無妨.
不須受制於世俗眼光
何況表白不等於得到


另方面我早前回應,是有感你把直人美化了
什麼性向的人也可有簡單愉快的生活

[ Post a Reply to This Message ]
[> [> [> [> Subject: RE


Author:
^sanbofan^
[ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 11:22:42 01/12/04 Mon

I did not intend to 把直人美化. Maybe u got it wrong.
What cannot hide & cannot be denied is the trend (in subculture)to get partners in a wrong way. Thx much for sharing.

The standard of 忠於自己differs between us. Yours is "to get what you want", mine is "be true to inner conscience".
This is not moral talk, just a personal preference.


沒有好好把握 should be applied more correct way. Preferably when ypour target is now single, not when attached.

Hope a better world for lesbian soon.

[ Post a Reply to This Message ]
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: RE


Author:
Passenger Bing
[ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 23:43:53 01/12/04 Mon

well well well, in my opinion,
there is no right or wrong or boundaries in love.
and what is "conscience" anyway? It can be constructed by our society, the so-called moral upbringing...or it might be inborn.
single or attached can mean a lot of things or nothing more than a label. Most important is your personal preference.
Anyway, i wish you well in your relationship and never fall in love with someone else when you are ENGAGED in a relationship.

[ Post a Reply to This Message ]
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: RE


Author:
Passenger Bing
[ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 23:43:55 01/12/04 Mon

well well well, in my opinion,
there is no right or wrong or boundaries in love.
and what is "conscience" anyway? It can be constructed by our society, the so-called moral upbringing...or it might be inborn.
single or attached can mean a lot of things or nothing more than a label. Most important is your personal preference.
Anyway, i wish you well in your relationship and never fall in love with someone else when you are ENGAGED in a relationship.

[ Post a Reply to This Message ]


Post a message:
This forum requires an account to post.
[ Create Account ]
[ Login ]
[ Contact Forum Admin ]


Forum timezone: GMT+7
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.