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Subject: 這句偈很精彩,有的人會自找煩惱,把小事在紏纏,這些事原本可以很圓滿的處理,但他們還是在讚牛角尖,令自己很煩惱痛苦,這是放不下自己,是沒有智慧。對別人又是計較,別人對自己有什麼過失又是老在計較,令自己煩惱痛苦,不願包容人,不諒解人,這是沒有慈悲。如何去包容人呢?正知正見是你的尺,若問題尚且無傷大雅,還可抱著一種隨眾的態度,但若然事關重大,就不可以盲目說放下了,比如有人說我要去做壞事,但你視若無睹,心中想這是放下,這是隨緣,若有這樣的態度就不對了。聖嚴法師有一次在談放下時強調,放下不是教你什麼都不管,而是你盡了本分後,對得失後果不記在心上才是放下。又如是你目睹罪案,你如實的去作證人,心中不要有太多畏縮妄想,這也可以說是放下的態度,因為你這樣做是為了公義而沒有自己的利益。


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Date Posted: 13:55:47 01/14/04 Wed
In reply to: almond 's message, "放下" on 14:52:27 01/12/04 Mon


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