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Subject: 我們結婚吧! 我們結婚吧?


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Date Posted: 09:57:21 11/21/03 Fri

昨天回家的路上, 她突然問:" 我們不如去荷蘭結婚吧! "
"不用了!" 我沒加思索地答.
"你很久以前不是問我會不會和你結婚嗎?"
"那時不過隨便問問而已, 沒有意思的!"

話畢.

從小到大都沒有對婚姻憧憬過. 一想到結婚, 便想到枷鎖, 便想到哭哭啼啼的孩子, 便想到婚外情, 便想到柴米油盬, 便想到黃面婆, 便想到大肚腩, 便想到自己父母的同床異夢. 全都是負面的名詞及形容詞.

結婚代表什麼? 同偕白首, 互相扶持? 抑或只是一個名份, 又或者只造就一個合法的遺產承繼人? 人愈大, 對婚姻的真諦就愈感糢糊. 說穿了, 可能只不過是自己希望在控制得到的範圍內保護自己; 還是, 我還未遇到令我有非霎時衝動的人?

突然跌入五里迷霧中.......

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