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Date Posted: 19:10:04 05/21/14 Wed
Author: Hedy
Subject: Well )!(@#*$RI[wef cancer

Last week Leo went for PETScan downtown Vancouver at the main Cancer Agency... today his Oncologist delivered the bad news that the cancer has grown and spread! FUCK! FUCK! FUCK!!!

We had our hearts set on avoiding CHEMO for a while longer, but, that is what has to happen now to push back on the FUCKING cancer! I am TERRIFIED of what the chemo will do to his already weak body! Of course, the cancer is even more frightening! FUCK!

Interesting though - he heard the news - and carried on painting and prepping on the front porch... We are working towards downsizing. We'd like to live on *MY*Island! Nearer to his Daughter/Granddaughter/so on and so on!

Trying to be brave! Trying EVERY DAY to both BE positive - for him - and to FEEL positive for myself! It's not going all that well in spite of what I put out on crackbook! But I am trying! I swear I am!

We are truly surrounded by love! Thanks for letting me VENT! *sigh*

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[> Fucking cancer! ((((((Hedy and Leo))))))) My prayers are with you! -- CarolE, 08:55:14 05/22/14 Thu

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[> (((((((Hedy and Leo))))). Continued love and hugs and prayers. -- Jodi YoB, 09:14:45 05/22/14 Thu

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[> Certainly not the news we were all hoping for. Continued good vibes and thoughts for you both. -- PD, 09:22:47 05/22/14 Thu

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[> That is the shits!!! The chemo drugs are improving all the time so it might not be as bad as you expect. When I had it - 11 years ago!!! - they already had some very good anti-nausea pills and you'd think they would be even better now. Thinking of you both. -- M.F., 12:37:41 05/22/14 Thu

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[> Oh Hedy you guys are in my thoughts. I'll keep fingers crossed that it all goes well and Leo will be on the mend soon. -- Cherie, 14:23:35 05/22/14 Thu

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[> Well that just blows! Fucking cancer. Will keep you and Leo in my prayers. -- Tam, 18:48:25 05/22/14 Thu

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[> I hate it, I hate it, I hate it! I hate to read this too. It all just bites! Thoughts and continued prayers, postitive vibes...... and only thinking good things for Leo. LOVE and HUGS to you Hedy!!!!!! -- M&M, 10:43:25 05/23/14 Fri

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[> (((((((Hedy and Leo))))) Lots of prayers, lots of love & I wish the lots of hugs were not virtual -- Margaret, 15:13:24 05/23/14 Fri

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[> Oh man. Hedy, you have been amazingly positive which I know is so hard. We will say extra prayers for Leo, you and his doctors -- Debra Mc, 19:01:01 05/25/14 Sun

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[> So sorry to hear this Hedy!!! Sending both you and Leo love and positive vibes. Your positive attitude amazes me, but no wonder you sometimes feel desperate and need to rant!! Rant away, lass. Bless you. -- Merc, 19:43:04 05/25/14 Sun

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[> so - real question: If someone said to you "I will take HALF of what you're going through" - would you let them? (And seriously - thank you for letting me rant and FEEL and express! ) -- Hedy, 00:18:44 05/26/14 Mon

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[> [> Nope..... because if it was my loved one and I didn't do all I could I would feel guilty. Im sure I would like help though but not half. -- M&M, 15:55:44 05/27/14 Tue

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[> [> [> Just getting here but am gutted and devasted by your news Hedy and agree w M I feel like I have to do all I can to help so no don't let anyone take any of what you are doing away -- BetsyG, 20:23:12 05/28/14 Wed

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[> [> [> [> I know what M&M and Betsy are saying but just a caution to avoid burnout -- let people do the nonsense errand stuff, buy groceries, clean house, etc. so you can spend all the time with your honey. That was hard for me to let go of when DS was sick, I was trying to be "hostess" but you need to let that go. Hugs to you both!! -- MaryC in KY, 09:55:54 05/29/14 Thu

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[> Oh crap! I can't believe I haven't checked here in so long. I've seen a few of your posts on FB though, so I'm not totally clueless to your troubles. You and Leo are in my thoughts and prayers. -- Denise, 15:34:02 06/15/14 Sun

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