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Subject: Re: Why do we do this?


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Richard to Chris
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Date Posted: 23:03:09 06/26/09 Fri
In reply to: Chris 's message, "Why do we do this?" on 21:48:25 06/26/09 Fri
 Chris....I think the reason some people who received enemas, as a child, develope an enema fetish is because of the WAY the enema is administered. Some mothers force the enema on the child. The whole enema experience becomes a very traumatic event in the young childs mind. This trauma, over time, turns into a life long fetish. Some people have suggested that such a traumatic event changes the brain chemistry of a young child. Over time, the enema fetish becomes a coping mechanism to deal with stress, everyday life and their childhood memories. The person who drinks 12 beers a day, and becomes an alcoholic, is using the same coping mechanism, to deal with stress, their childhood and everyday life. I think you can see the analogy between the two. Some people have a considerable problem dealing with their enema fetish and, wish they could turn to a support group, such as E A "Enema Anonymous" for help.
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Enjoysit
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Date Posted: 09:39:06 06/27/09 Sat
Please note, that alcoholism tends to destroy the liver, while enemas tend to relieve stress, sexual or otherwise. I would rather relieve the stress. Once you are over the guilt of talking about such things and can accept who you are, then you can relax and go with the flow of the joyful agony. I tend to think that it is in my nature. I believe the only time it is a problem, is if it interferes with finding ones passion in life and excelling at it. Go easy on yourself.

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Fred4 to Chris
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Date Posted: 09:02:44 06/28/09 Sun
Chris, if your situation is as Richard described, that you got bad enemas as a kid, then it is not unreasonable that is something you are trying to work out. You may be trying to prove to yourself that you can tolerate it, and maybe even looking forward to that opportunity itself, is your source. It seems totally understandable if that is the case.

As to why some do, and some don't, have those reactions, in many cases it may depend on how extreme were the childhood enema situations.

If you didn't get enemas as a child or got only mild ones, then there still may be something in what you feel is an inadequacy on your part. It is somewhat hard to get into addressing that unless that your situation is stated.

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