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Subject: Re: Why do we do this? Author: Enjoysit [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:39:06 06/27/09 Sat In reply to: Richard to Chris 's message, "Re: Why do we do this?" on 23:03:09 06/26/09 Fri Please note, that alcoholism tends to destroy the liver, while enemas tend to relieve stress, sexual or otherwise. I would rather relieve the stress. Once you are over the guilt of talking about such things and can accept who you are, then you can relax and go with the flow of the joyful agony. I tend to think that it is in my nature. I believe the only time it is a problem, is if it interferes with finding ones passion in life and excelling at it. Go easy on yourself. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Why do we do this? Author: Fred4 to Chris [Edit] Date Posted: 09:02:44 06/28/09 Sun Chris, if your situation is as Richard described, that you got bad enemas as a kid, then it is not unreasonable that is something you are trying to work out. You may be trying to prove to yourself that you can tolerate it, and maybe even looking forward to that opportunity itself, is your source. It seems totally understandable if that is the case. As to why some do, and some don't, have those reactions, in many cases it may depend on how extreme were the childhood enema situations. If you didn't get enemas as a child or got only mild ones, then there still may be something in what you feel is an inadequacy on your part. It is somewhat hard to get into addressing that unless that your situation is stated. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]