Subject: Re: Effects: recognizing, accepting reactions, and addressing
Author: Matt to Claudia
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] Date Posted:09:34:56 07/03/09 Fri In reply to:
Fred4
's message, "Effects: recognizing, accepting reactions, and addressing" on 16:43:32 06/22/09 Mon
I was also subjected to the humiliating effects of being given enemas with others watching. Unlike yourself, my mom was not into giving me enemas on a regular basis,but when I did get one, maybe 4 or 5 a year from about 5 to 10 years old, there were times when an aunt was over with my girl cousin or cousins or one of moms friends with her daughter. These girls were not that much older than me and they often got to watch me get the enema. I never thought much about it at the time, but later on as I got older bringing back those memories brought on the humiliationg effects of them.
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Date Posted:10:17:12 07/03/09 Fri
Matt, did your mother give you one enema while others could watch? I had a series, in front of company. It seemed like everyone in my neighborhood knew when I had to take my enemas.
Date Posted:12:18:47 07/03/09 Fri
Yes, only one, luckily. Let me say my mom did not deliberty wait for company to come to give me an enema, but if she was going to give me one and they were there, it wouldn't stop her from giving it to me. I often heard tell my aunt or one of her friends that she had planned to give me an enema. She would then call me and tell me that I was going to get one and bring me into the bathroom. The others would follow. I remember the girls standing next to their moms watching from beginning to end.
Date Posted:15:03:12 07/03/09 Fri
Were you in the Sims position on the bathroom floor when your mother gave you your enemas? What kind of equipment did she use? I just wonder, if the young girls got to see any of your "privates", during the procedure.
Date Posted:22:14:11 07/03/09 Fri
Matt and Claudia, I hope you ignore the last two postings immediately above. You have had serious events occur to you, and people should give you the space and respect to clear up earlier events not of your own doing. Those definitely do not.
Date Posted:23:21:37 07/03/09 Fri
Kudos to Fred4 ... he is right on target. Forums such as these have helped me come to better understand my own experiences and to realize that I was not alone. Being able to shed the feeling of isolation and finally having an outlet has been a tremendous relief. I only hope Matt and Claudia can benefit the way I have.
Date Posted:23:26:32 07/03/09 Fri
Kudos to Fred4 ... he is right on target. Forums such as this one has helped me better understand my own childhood enema memories and realize that I was not alone. Having an opportunity to shed my isolation and having an outlet to express my feelings has been a tremendous help. I hope Claudia and Matt are able to benefit as well.
