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[> Subject: Separate thoughts to Matt and Claudia
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Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 08:08:12 07/13/09 Mon
The processing through of results of the childhood enemas can be an extremely challenging matter. It's only fair that I comment on my own images first, before commenting on each of yours. (Also, my comments on each of yours may or may not be correct, so I hope you will excuse me if I am off base.)
I mentioned in my mind as a kid were "perfect" kids, who told me back then that they did not find their enemas tough to take. That created lots of images of others who looked like them over the years. While not completely gone, there are now two friends of mine about whom I have the same image. I have no desire to give them enemas. However, I do try to picture that their bms are no different than others, and that they would have had the same problems as I with large childhood enemas. I don’t know if imaging helps, but it seems to in letting me approach picturing reality.
Matt, you had mentioned that as a result of your mother giving you enemas (often “out of the blue”) with adult women and daughters around your age watching, you found yourself later interested in the clothed female naked male (CFNM) area. My thought is about the females in that area. I imagine a number are bemused at seeing naked men, no different than the counterpart of most men being interested in seeing attractive naked women. However, I would expect some of those interested are because they may be attracted to the idea of continued subjugation of males, and I don’t think that would help in your processing your feelings. Thus, don’t look on the latter as necessarily of being of help.
Claudia, you are justifiably upset at receiving frequent and uncomfortable enemas as a child. You do make sure that enemas you give your children are not uncomfortable. The one thought I have is whether you also ask the question whether the enemas you give are all necessary. I happen to think that for the general population lots are given that are not necessary. I just wonder if in your getting rid of the “uncomfortable” characteristic, you also consider if a situation is a real cause requiring an enema.
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