Frank (Moderator of Voy 215251)
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Date Posted: Friday, April 16, 2010, 10:19: am
Terri... I read your post with interest. I am a 71 year young male who has had four boys. I have two or three points in my mind.
1.) Both boys AND girls need to be comfortable with their bodies. Using a douche nozzle on either of them is just fine. Yes, boys are more likely to become anally interested because of the prostate gland; however, liking something inserted anally is not a big issue. Your son will either or has already reached puberty. Both boys and girls usually begin to enjoy enemas at puberty. This is normal and healthy as is masturbation. I would expect that both children are masturbating after their enemas are finished.
2.) I don't understand why YOU are giving your children enemas at their age. They are both old enough to give them to themselves. In this regard, they should each have their own bags, know how to mix a good cleansing soapsuds enema, and should both be encouraged to give them to themselves as often as either of them want them. Soapsuds enemas are high in pH, and being that way help to heal anything that may be on the less then healthy side. Rinse enemas, unless given with baking soda, should not be used as they remove the healthy pH that the soapsuds enema has provided. Two enemas each, at a minimum of twice a week is fabulous. More even better.
3.) I am assuming that there is no dad around. I maybe totally wrong, and I do so hope. If dad is around, he and your son should do enemas together, giving them to each other. This provides the best possible bonding time between a dad and his son. Doing them together provides for the following: a.) the son sees that it is okay to have an erection. His dad will also have one. b.) the son will learn that it is not only children that receive enemas, and c.) the child will be much more relaxed with his own body, and with such bonding with dad your son will be able to discuss things sexual with his dad. In today's world, with the horrible job that most school systems do in teaching sex, will make a world of difference with your son.
In closing, two soapsuds enemas each, twice a week for all of the people in your family should be given. You and your daughter should also be doing the exact same thing as is suggested for dad and son. Make the time for you and your daughter to have pleasant enema time together. Let her give them to you as you do for her. All enemas should be given with great love, slowly, and a desire by the giver to make them as comfortable as is humanly possible. Many moms, because of the fact that they are probably holding an outside job, must keep a clean house, make meals, wash clothes and all that goes with housekeeping give enemas improperly. To quote someone else, "an enema is a procedure; it is not a race!"
Thanks for reading. Comments gratefully accepted.
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