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Subject: Were you allowed to expell on your own?


Author:
Graham
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Date Posted: Friday, June 22, 2012, 11:15: am
 Just wondering if having received your enemas, or in my case suppositories, whether you were allowed to get rid of the results on the toilet or pot unsupervised? In my case my mother, or less frequently my father, would always stay with me to closely monitor and make sure I went properly and I'm sure to add to my discomfort and embarrassment over the whole process.
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Sue (UK)
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 23, 2012, 09:52: am
I was usually monitored.

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Graham
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 23, 2012, 01:39: pm
I almost think Sue, that the lack of dignity and control of the situation during expulsion was the worse part of the whole process for me. Well, ok none of it was good let's face it! but to be closely watched and in my case it was sometimes really closely watched! while having to work hard to produce an acceptable BM was totally mortifying and even thinking about it now makes me go a little red!

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Author:
JWPoop (bear down!)
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 23, 2012, 05:14: pm
Yes, that WAS the worst part of my childhood enemas. My mother insisted, not only on watching, but giving instruction on how and when to bear down, push, and grunt.

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Graham
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Date Posted: Sunday, June 24, 2012, 12:35: am
Yes exactly JW, I was often told to look at her while she had me concentrate, strain hard, or push! Sometimes I would be sat on the toilet or potty doing it, but often times I would be laid down across her lap in the changing position for my poo and that really was the worst thing because I didn't have much 'manoeuvring' room and absolutely no control over events at all, my mum would have my legs up, or bent towards chest and I can tell you I really had to work hard, I can remember the crying, and grunting and leg kicking that went on, it seemed to take forever and once I was there I was certainly not going anywhere until I'd been 'properly'! I also remember she would push down and feel into my tummy as I was pooing my pants to check on my emptying progress. 'Shudders'

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to Graham
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Date Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012, 10:32: am
How old were you, when mother at last allowed you to expell without supervision? When she stopped to wipe you?

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Graham
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Date Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012, 11:57: am
Not sure exactly how old. I stopped receiving the very regular suppository insertions somewhere around 5-6 years old. Although I still got them whenever I was caught holding back, or really constipated right up till about 10(ish), just nowhere near as regularly. Going to school changed things for me big time for the better. Not quite sure when but there came a time when I would be allowed to go on the toilet on my own but would still have to call her to check the results before I flushed. She wiped me regularly up till 6/7? maybe a while longer, but I can remember having odd cleanliness checks done much later than that, I guess if skids were found in my undies.

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Bruce
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Date Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012, 01:37: pm
I was monitored after regular stool till 8/9. Nevertheless, if I got enema (I was constipated in childhood often enough), my expelling was checked by mom always. I recall it was before HS graduation. The same, if I had skid-marks, mom never hesistated to check my wiping too.

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Alex
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Date Posted: Friday, June 29, 2012, 02:58: am
I was monitored until about 10. However, after enema Mum wiped me herself always despite age. I recall it was last time when I was 16+

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Sue (UK)
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Date Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012, 01:15: pm
I was 11 when she stopped monitoring me

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Graham
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Date Posted: Monday, June 25, 2012, 02:04: pm
I know I wasn't as old as 11 (well I don't think I was), but probably not far off when I still have some recollections of having my pants checked when arriving home from school. I imagine this took place while I was changing out of uniform into play clothes. If she didn't give me suppositories, I actually liked having my mum check the toilet after I'd poo'ed. I liked the idea that I was a big boy and showing her the results I'd managed to make on my own proved to me I was her big boy. The thing was I always ended up being just a baby again all too soon.

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Date Posted: Tuesday, June 26, 2012, 01:46: pm
Was mother's supervision your expelling more embarrassed for you than enema itself? If yes, why?

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Graham
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Date Posted: Tuesday, June 26, 2012, 03:20: pm
To Graham from Graham,

I think the supervison was the worst part. Bad enough when she would watch me while I was sat on the toilet pushing away to produce something large enough and acceptable, so as not to require a second 'go' at my behind, but far worse was when I was laying across her lap. Although the actual insertion of the suppositories was uncomfortable and embarrassing and at times plain scary. The expulsion would be a noisy affair, with me grunting and straining and grizzling at the top end and being very aware of the farting and crackling noises associated with producing a good filling at the other. Then there was the smell. I think all of us from an early age are aware that our bodily waste is unpleasant. 'Making a stinky' while being supervised made me very self concious. I can remember having my bottom sniffed on several occasions.

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Stephanie
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Date Posted: Wednesday, June 27, 2012, 09:38: pm
Hi Graham,

Why do you find the smell of poo unpleasant ?
Did "society" tell you it is unpleasant ?
What do you think as an adult about poo smells ?

I personally find the smell of poo lovely,
YES I love it, in every variety that comes.
No, it's not unpleasant, poo smells lovely,
and we ALL know it...!
Am I alone here ??? It seems so :-(

Do a big poo into a paper wipe,
put it to your nose, and enjoy the strong aroma !
Life is too short not to.....

Stephanie X

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[> Subject: Re: Were you allowed to expell on your own?


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Graham
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Date Posted: Thursday, June 28, 2012, 02:41: am
To Stephanie,

I guess that society had taught us that the smell is unpleasant. As infants and children we run about in filled pants and it and the smell doesn't bother us, so yes it is something we are taught from an early age 'poo that stinks' being an age old adage!

I don't really like the smell of it at all. I find the scenarios of my childhood stimulating as an adult and I suppose that the smells associated with that add to the experience, but do I enjoy the smell - No.

Interesting point though, like you I'd like to hear what others think.

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Maria
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Date Posted: Thursday, June 28, 2012, 12:21: pm
I'm growing up 3 sons and they are 11, 13, and 15 now. As all children, they have constipations sometimes and I consider enema is the best method then. Our pediatrician agree with me. Youngest gets bulb enema still but both olders are big lads and bag enema is best for them. Of course, I have to know results of my work and I'm checking their expelling after enema always, without exceptions. My youngest has no any embarrassment still, but both older are embarrassed already during my checking. No big deal. I'm their mother.

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Teddy
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Date Posted: Friday, June 29, 2012, 03:36: am
Im 14 and my mother still wipes me after I poop after im done pooping I have to call mommy to wipe me mommy says I don't do a good job wipeing after school mom checks my behind in cased I pooped at school and if I did not do a good job she spanks me

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Date Posted: Friday, June 29, 2012, 11:06: am
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Dana
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Date Posted: Friday, June 29, 2012, 01:08: pm
Observing others getting enemas in our household, when I was a child, was pretty commonplace.
During the summer, mom liked to administer the enemas out-of-doors, near the outdoor privy (we had both indoor and outdoor facilities in the 1980s). Mom would announce that "today is enema day" and we had to be ready (that meant being naked) when she called. If we were going to have an outdoor enema, my brothers would simply undress by the privy (in the summer, often they'd often wear nothing more than gym shorts) while us girls would get undressed in the house, don a robe, then meet mom by the privy where we'd hang the robe on a hook on the two-holer building.
Sometimes when mom had a real production line going for the five of us getting enemas, I'd end up sitting next to my brother expelling. We didn't think anything of that situation, even when we were in high school.
Our indoor bathroom was quite small so mom gave enemas in the kitchen and we'd take our turns expelling.
If anything good came of this, besides being very healthy, it was the fact that while other teens were boing bonkers over men's magazines, my brothers would probably take one glance and simply think "Been there ... I've seen all that." However, no one ever mentioned our family enemas.

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Derek
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Date Posted: Friday, June 29, 2012, 01:16: pm
Most moms would watch to make sure it worked so if need be you got another soapy enema and probably more to make it work well. Being older they want to watch to embarrass you and announce that you will need another enema.

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Dennis
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 09:49: am
My mom was abit of a mechanic when it came to enemas. She was a nurse and enemas were for health reasons. I got enemas for constipation when I was young. Occassionally I got one just because it was time.
when I hit puberty, I received enemas before a doctor's appointment.From the time that I was 12 to almost 17, I received an enema series every Sunday morning. As I have written in some messages to members my religion on Sunday mornings was a Red Enema Bag.
In my youth, the small rectal pipe was used. As I turned 12, the douche nozzle became the nozzle of preference.
The process ws always the same. I was to shower and wash key body parts. I was allowed to have the towel and a tee shirt on as I watched her mix the first 2 quart enema. She would hang the bag on the shower rod and I would take my position of the towel on the bathroom floor, on my left side with my right knee up. No need to complain, I was getting it no matter what. the nozzle was pushed in and the water released. I took the entire 2 quarts and then the hard part: holding it for five minutes.
While I was expelling, I would watch the bag being refilled for the first of my two rinse enemas. Then I expelled too and at last mom wiped me thoroughly herself. It was our tradition after Sunday enema
Didn't really like them much, but in the late 1960's enemas were a fact of life.
I don't know what they did for my physical health, but they helped strenthen my mental attitude.

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Justin
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 04:09: pm
When I was a kid my Mother always made me undress completely when she gave me an enema until my 18 when I left home. I guess it was to keep me from dirtying my clothes or pyjamas in case I wasn't able to hold it until I got to the potty or the toilet. Evaluation of my expelling was done by Mother always but she wiped me after enema till 13 only. Later I was allowed to do it myself and Mother checked result only and gave permission to take on clothes if my butt was clean enough.

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Mike
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 12:54: am
When I was 13 I refused to let my Mom give me an enema. The idea of her seeing me like that was too much. When my Dad got home from work he first got cleaned up then he came into my room in his boxers and undershirt. He never said a word. He just stood me in front of him and started undressing me. I immediately started whining and telling him I didn't want an enema. When I was completely naked he put me across his lap and thoroughly spanked my butt. After when I stood in front of him crying and holding my butt he told me he understood being embarrassed but that I was to always do what Mom told me. Then he took my hand and walked me to the bathroom. My brothers and Uncle all saw me and smiled. Next thing I remember is my butt hurting as I sat on the toilet.

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Graham
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 03:40: am
It is much worse when you're dealt with by dad.

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Mike to Graham
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 03:50: pm
Dad was supreme lawmaker and disciplinarian in family. He did it if Mom had serious problems with our behavior and obedience. We all 3 boys knew his rule no any modesty if son deserves spanking. Embarrassment wasn't big deal for him despite our age. I got my last about 18 but knew wouldn't be immune in more older age too. Youngest brother was spanked by Dad when he was almost 20. After my memorable spanking at 13 for refusing from enema, I never resisted if Mom considered I need it.

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Graham to Mike
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Date Posted: Sunday, July 01, 2012, 02:30: am
The clearest recollection of my dad 'dealing' with me, was one time at my grandparents house, I must have been about 4 or 5ish. I had been holding back, as was usual and he happened to come along and capture me. Often times in a similar situation, he would have picked me up and carried me off to find mum to get those supps administered. This particular day he took me to the bedroom picked up my ever hated, yet ever present jar of supps and took me into the room where everyone was sitting talking and watching tv (my gran and grandad had a colour tv, gotten especially to watch the moon landings in 69?). Right there and then in front of everyone he removed my pants and undies and stuck a suppository in me and then sat me back on his lap. I remember having to sit with him (probably grizzling and crying and trying to get away), all the while the pressure growing inside with me needing to poo. He made me stay there with him and poo my pants big time, earning me a spanking (and boy could he spank hard). All done in the presence of my mum, grandparents and although I can't remember but likely in the presence of my 2 aunts, who were always around.

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Harry
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 04:23: pm
When my Mom gave me enemas as a kid she always stayed there as I expelled it and checked the toilet bowl when I was finished to judge how effective it had been. Also on a number of occasions when 3 of my cousins and I were being given enemas one boy after the other, my next younger cousin would be receiving his enema in the bathtub from his mother while I was on the toilet expelling mine. I was 14 then and it was embarrassing enough.

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Caspar
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 04:32: pm
When I was getting them from Mom, when I was a kid (till 14-15), I, of course, had no choice but to endure the company of Mum while I was expelling (she insisted), but, strange as it may seem, it sort of became a 'social event' for me, time spent talking to Mum when she wasn't on the phone or getting ready to go out, or cleaning the house, or otherwise busy. I had come to accept my enemas as just part of 'being a kid'.

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Andrew
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 30, 2012, 04:38: pm
I was terribly embarassed and humiliated when I had to expel in front of my Mother. She always had to stay and "inspect" the results. We had strict discipline in home and I had no choice till 15, when she accepted I'm became too old for this procedure.

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Walter
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Date Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012, 01:05: am
I understand your embarrassment. When I was 13 I complained of constapation and she administered a enema and her friend from next door came over to give her instructions. I had to bend over in front of her and she inserted the tube. Then I had to expell right here on kitchen in big potty in front mother and neighbor. At that age my face was bright red.

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Mac
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Date Posted: Sunday, July 01, 2012, 03:20: pm
After my enema was given Mom would leave the bathroom and I expelled alone. After a while Mom would return to examine the results and clean be up. At that point she would decide if I needed second and I usually got a third. I never liked getting the first because if I was constipeted because it was my fault however I never objected. When I was sick I knew I was going some enemas and I knew I was going to feel much better as a result. Regardless the reason for needing an enema I alwas enjoyed the really intimate personal time with Mom.

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Harry H
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Date Posted: Monday, July 02, 2012, 05:33: pm
A number of you have related that an enema gave you quality time with your mom. That was my experience also and now that mom has died, I look back on getting an enema from her as a very special time. A time for bonding. Until I was about six I did not like anything about an enema, but as I grew older I knew I was going to get an enema from mom's Rexall enema bag (the same one she used on herself) and stopped fighting it. I felt much better after an enema and almost enjoyed it. I loved my mother and knew she would not be doing this unless it really needed it. I felt grown up to be getting an enema from the same bag she used. We were both constipated very frequently. Enema time was a time we spent together in a very special way. No interuptions during my enema from the telephone, my sister or anything else. I had mom's complete attention until the bag was empty, the hold time satisfied, and the BM was in the toilet. Yes, she was there during the evacuation and did a final inspection and wipe. Some how I was glad she was interested in me and my colon health. At that time I was not able to verbelize all of this but now I appreciated mom and what she did for me. I miss her now more then ever. I wish I was 8 years old again and getting one of mom's enemas.

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Martin
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Date Posted: Tuesday, July 03, 2012, 11:30: am
Mom usally gives enemas us boys one a month each second Sarurday in our cleaning day. we have to stripfor a bath and line up and kneel on the floor with our heads down as she insert and fills us. then we can release on the toilet right here as another brother is getting filled.we rotate until the water comes out clear. when dad has todo it we stand and lean over and hold the tub as he puts it in us.then we can squat over the tub. quite a mess but we clean the tub and we shower after all that. we boys are 17, 16 (me), 12 and 9.

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Helena
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Date Posted: Monday, July 09, 2012, 08:58: am
I agree enemas prevent colon cancer and also stomach problems. The way teenagers eat junk food they need a regular cleansing. I give my boys (14 & 17) enemas once a week. Usually on Saturday afternoon. When the enema is ready I call the first one to the bathroom. He has to be down to his underpants at this time. In the bathroom he takes off his underpants and I give the enema. When the first is finished I refill the enema bag and call the other boy and use the same procedure. The first has expelling in this time. Since expelling an enema can sometimes exhaust the child I have them take one hour of naptime when finished. Since this has been a regular routine for many years there is no protest from the boys. This is just how it has always been. This also gives mothers a chance to view their children's physical development on a regular basis.

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