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Margaret to Mary
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Date Posted: Friday, March 18, 2011, 01:28: pm
Hello, Mary,
with my pleasure, I'l give you some explanations about my previous answers on your questions.
"In enema day take off his clothes and give him 15-20 min for thoughts" What shall he do during this time? Stand in the corner, for example? Or getting away his erection?" - it's time, when he is preparated already for enema or, according to your rules for before-enema spanking, if he is resisting. Offer him his own choice - enema now or enema after spanking. I think, for 15-20 min he will du right choice.
"If your attempts will be unsuccessfully, and you want to use "more effective punishment", I may recomend before spanking to wipe his bottom (cheeks and crack) by wet towell. You will get 2 results - clean bottom for spanking and, moreover, wet cheeks are more sensitive and spanking will be more effective."
That is a very good idea, thank you for that.
Did you make yourself experiences with the higher sensitivity of wet cheeks for spanking? - Yes, Mary, sometimes, when I see that his bottom isn't clean enough (it's seen easy, when he is bend over my knee before beginning of spanking), I wipe his by wet towell and, then, begin to spank you. In this cases, he cries and squirmes more than usually. He himself told me that spanking after "bathing ass" is more painfull. Moreover, he hates, if I wet his bottom in front spanking, especially, in anyone presence. By the way, last time I wiped him so before spanking about 3 months ago in Nancy's presence. She knows Jack sinc his baby-age, has own sone Mike , and view of wiping Jack's bottom, before getting spanking, couldn't schoked her. Although, Jack was embarrassed, but he had to know, if he violates hygiene rules, mom will check and do it.
"Her daughter sometimes watched Jack's punishments too, but till his 12 only. They are our nextdoor neighbors."
You really let a girl next door watch your son's spankings? How old was she? How was it for Jack? -
- Mary, Nancy's daughter, Jessica is 5 years older Jack, and 7 years older her own brother Mike. Numerous times she babysat both boys, when they were little. When Jack was younger, I never hesistated to spank him in Jessica's presence, but after his 10-11 he was embarrassed that she could saw it. No big deal. Some embarrassment is part of punishment for boys. Nevertheless, when appeared Jack's first signs of puberty, I stopped to spank him in front Jessica, although, he gets in front Nancy and Mike sometimes still.
"I specially invited them for watching. Mike was spanked in front Jack and me many times too."
Can you explain how that meetings took place?
Was it only in the past or do these meetings still take place? - We are living in home, where we have the 1st floor, but Nancy with family, the second. Any case, if any from kids is punished, other can heard it. Traditionally for both our families, if child did something unusually bad or very forbidden, culprit gets in front both families. Jessica got the same (but very rarely, indeed) till her about 12. Boys get so still. Last time, Jack was spanked by me in front Nancy and Mike about 3 months ago. He returned at home after party drunken, but it's absolutelly forbidden for him. On next day, when he awaken, I invited Nancy and Mike down, in our living room.
Jack was lectured by me and Nancy, then he had to take off everything down waist, what he did very reluctantly. I bent him over my knee for spanking and have seen that his behind was dirty enough! I asked Nancy to bring me wet towell, thoroughly wiped his hairy behind and he got strong spanking. He cried and squirmed as little boy, and when I stopped to spank him, he really bawled. However, I think for drinking in his age he deserves such punishment. Nancy told for Mike it was very usefull lesson too.
"Boys are boys, but we are mothers and have to teach and check them."
Yeah, I totally agree to you, Margaret! - Mary, despite their age and maturation, Jack and, especially, your Jacob are boys only with their stubborness and foolish acts. We are responsible in front God and society for their raising.
"I have 3 grade color of bottom for different grade of punishment - light (bottom is pink after spanking), medium (bright-red) and heavy (dark-red)."
Ho do you exactly get these different grades, when you give him 20 - 30 smacks each time? - if honestly, sometimes he gets less than 20, but good 30 give him sore enough dark-red bottom.
"If you want ask me about it more, I'l answer more detail, because it's important for Jacob." - Mary, what is interesting for you? With my pleasure, I'l ask on concrete questions, if will be able do it.
Why do you know so much about that? What are your experiences with Jack? - Mary, I read books for parents, spoke with our pediatrician (he is very nice gentleman, 65+, but he continue to work), spoke with women in our church, who have sons more older than Jack.
"1. Why you started regular enemas, when Jacob was 10 already?"
No, as I corrected myself, he was 11, nearly 12.
He started to have constipation very often, and the doctor adviced to use regular enemas. - Clearly.
"2.How you do evening checking of Jacob's cleanliness?"
He has to remove his trousers and pants, then to bend over and to spread his cheeks with his hands. I cover my forefinger with toilet paper and insert it into his anus. If I find marks, he gets a few smacks and I wipe after with a wet cloth. - Mary, may be checking his crack without daily finger's insertion in anus will be enough?
"3.Which is Jacob's night clothes?"
He sleeps naked, sometimes in a shortie. We live in a warm region. - Jack wore PJ till 13, now he preffers boxers.
Mary, I'l wait your answers.
My kisses you and Jacob,
Margaret
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