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Date Posted: 05:27:55 08/11/17 Fri
Author: however, you? (shaking head)
Subject: Holy moly, anger issues? Fear? Obviously, you want attention to yourself and clearly don't wish others to confuse you with another poster. That is so noble (self-centered) of you. However, frequently on these "anonymous" boards, people do post repetitively and as others, don't be so naive to think otherwise.
In reply to: . 's message, "Observation." on 04:17:18 08/11/17 Fri

That you would have to post something like this, which is so obvious to many, to draw even more attention to you? That says even more about you, perceived by writing or not.

It is also somewhat clear by reading the various threads below, who you most probably are, but then again, you will protest that you are not, and not to presume this - because this is a random observation, isn't it? This post has no real connection to any other thread to protect your perceived anonymity.

Then you try to deflect your own anger regarding others lumping you with someone else. It's not your fault for posting what you have posted, and when someone makes an observation or points out something in error about you and your post - they are the ones who are wrong, because of course, it wouldn't be you, would it?

Yes, people read all sorts of things by the written word. Style, tone, and structure all belie an individual. Most importantly, tone and effect of the words on a board such as this leave most posts beyond four or five words open to personal interpretations.

If you have issues with how people interpret you or others who have posted (leading them to confusion about who is posting, etc), then maybe you should stay clear of these things - or simply not take them so personally.

After all, most of the replies are not generally or truly personally directed at/to you. Like you indicated, people don't know you - just remember they are responding to a composite person (one made of many).

Now, since you will most likely perceive this as a personal attack on you, because in this situation, there can be no confusion with another poster; please be sure to deflect this all from you, because of course, you are not at fault, are you?

(personally, I wouldn't want to meet someone who can't take responsibility for own actions and who faults others for everything, but that's me)

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